Family & Relationships - 19 January 2007

"Falling in love" is a mainly Western term used to describe the process of moving from a feeling of neutrality towards someone, to one of love.

The usage of the term "fall" implies many things: that the process may have been in some way inevitable or uncontrollable, risky or putting the lover in a state of vulnerability, that the process is irreversible, or all of these things.

The term is generally used to describe an (eventual) love that is strong, although not necessarily permanent.

2007-01-19 01:45:04 · 6 answers · asked by lovelyboy_235 1 in Singles & Dating

A friend was supposed to meet me at for a drink I got to her place and she said she would be down in a few minutes. She called back and said she would meet me there and then never showed up. I called her on my way out and completely blew up on her after she told me she didn't show up because she was in the middle of an important conversation but gave no other details. I tried to speak with her the next day and she said she didn't want to talk about it then and she is not stupid she new she should have called. I got upset at her response and haven't spoken to her in a week. Should I initiate another conversation or should she?

2007-01-19 01:45:00 · 9 answers · asked by Nic79 1 in Friends

I have a male lovebird, his mate died yesterday. My question is what can I do for him. He is so sad.

2007-01-19 01:44:28 · 4 answers · asked by lois T 1 in Singles & Dating

she emailed me all day long and called me like twice a day. now i leave her messages and emails and she responded once in a week and a half saying "oh my god i am soo busy trying to get my new business off the ground, blah blah blah have a nice day! what is that! Am I a fool if i was interested in her to believe she still has interest? i understand she is busy but what the??? Did i say something wrong to her? i met her once and we had a great time.

2007-01-19 01:44:11 · 7 answers · asked by jwood 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-19 01:43:59 · 7 answers · asked by ﺸÐïåMóñdÐôññåﺸ 5 in Singles & Dating

When i use short hand to write wiv, people moan n call u thick because you cant spell.. When i write in full hand they moen n say u write like a puff or woteva!!!! I say i dont think shilpa is being bullyed inbig bro they all moen at me (bully me by saying i dont no what am talking about)... You really cant f***ing win in yahoo ansews sumtimes!!!!!!!

2007-01-19 01:43:17 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Is it wierd that this guy i know is always joking about how hot it is if i'd kiss another girl? I think it's wrong, but is it ok he jokes around about it?

2007-01-19 01:42:50 · 26 answers · asked by shine_on 3 in Singles & Dating

So I love my boyfriend and I love going down on him but theres always this weird smell that absolutely grosses me out and ruins the moment for me...and him cause i have to stop once i smell it lol. He asks if i dont like doing it to him and i lied saying i was just a lil shy, i didnt want to hurt his feelings. But my question is, is this normal? if not, how do get him to wash his "member" everyday if he doesnt already without hurting his feelings?

2007-01-19 01:42:33 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Um, There's a guy on EBAY trying to sell his social life. There must be some pretty sad, lonely people out there if they think this is for real.

What are people thinking??

I mean read the add.
http://cgi.ebay.com.au/New-Life-for-Sale_W0QQitemZ110078904033QQihZ001QQcategoryZ324QQssPageNameZWDVWQQrdZ1QQcmdZViewItem

Does this look right?

2007-01-19 01:42:27 · 2 answers · asked by bambambrennie 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

this is my thinking as I am also working woman that in olden days when people used to live in joint family kids and old persons used to get proper attention and care .today old parents are becoming burden .nobody wants to keep them They also living feel depress in joint family they used to get company of children and other family members

2007-01-19 01:42:10 · 6 answers · asked by ratan r 2 in Family

ive been going out with this guy for 4 months and it seems he is getting bored with me and theres never anything to talk about or do......any ideas????

2007-01-19 01:40:58 · 29 answers · asked by olivia n 1 in Singles & Dating

I've recently found out that people here on YA, esp "singles&dating" are getting so ******* ridiculous! they make enemies, cursing and even back-stabbing each other. What The bloddy hell is this place? aren't we supposed to ask about our relationship life? I've been posting questions about one special girl and i've been labelled as a creepy stalker? WTF! If it shouldn't be about the girl i like, what's more should i've been asking?

Uhmm.. well, so this site f ucks us all, doesn't it? so let's ***** it up!

2007-01-19 01:40:43 · 16 answers · asked by Breakdancer 1 in Singles & Dating

i want to tell my girlfriend that i love her. i had never talked with her we have just been with eye contact. i am in another division in same school. but i see her twice in the school normally. how should i propose please tell me.

2007-01-19 01:40:17 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

any ideas as to how i might get revenge on someone who is on yahoo who jerked me over big time i need some good ones

2007-01-19 01:39:20 · 12 answers · asked by demorider2003 1 in Marriage & Divorce

What kind of girl does a men desair for.Please let me know the real facts please!!!!!

2007-01-19 01:37:34 · 13 answers · asked by Nusrat 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-19 01:36:58 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im seeing a older guy im 19 hes 41, is something wrong with this is he using me does he mean everything he say? i care about him i've knowhn him for some years. he's been trying to talk to me but i never gave him the chance because of our age difference but now i have given him a chance. but my mother hates the ideal of me with him because of this me and her not even talking. The guy im seeing is my stepdads cousin so my step dad thinks its okay am i risking to much and just being young and foolish.

2007-01-19 01:36:17 · 13 answers · asked by hollaatyagirlt 2 in Singles & Dating

To love me more.

2007-01-19 01:36:15 · 1 answers · asked by Solomonnash 1 in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend keeps telling me he loves me and wants to be with me but its hard for me to be with him becuase for one thing he is always in some type of trouble and his father,omg his father says that im not good for him because out of all the girlfriends that he had,his dad says im the wrost because i dont take up with his **** but anyways my boyfriend stays in and out of jail so much to the point were his daddy thinks that its my fault because every time he gets into it with somebody,i always try to help him out when he is in trouble and by the daddy not liking me anyway my man keeps shifting away from me because his daddy wants me out of the picture.what do i do about this,i mean what do i do to make the daddy stop hating me for whatever he hates me for?

2007-01-19 01:36:03 · 8 answers · asked by jay 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

what would you do if ur best friend or partner say that he/she is an alien????????

2007-01-19 01:34:48 · 16 answers · asked by bitter > sweet > cold 2 in Friends

My husband of two years never got me a wedding ring. The other day he bought me a 50.00 fakey. I'm too embarressed to wear it. Is he so clueless, or trying to hurt me?

2007-01-19 01:34:46 · 41 answers · asked by sky 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I think they arehaving a little misunderstanding between each other.my dad's characters displeases not only my mumand to us his children.my dad complains of my mum keeping late night.this makes him so sad and leads to fighting and querelling.

2007-01-19 01:33:52 · 6 answers · asked by angelzmilia 1 in Family

2007-01-19 01:32:51 · 13 answers · asked by LuCy 2 in Singles & Dating

i have real issues with the fact that my gf has been with other people sexually before me. i know its messed up because that was her life before me and its not like i even knew her then, but its all i can think about sometimes. i just hate the fact that everything shes done with me, shes already done with someone else. it even gets to the point where i will be angry just thinking about it and actually be in a bad mood towards her. does anyone else have this problem? am i like crazy?

2007-01-19 01:32:33 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Idont want to see your face again, and sometimes i get very angry and i say stupid things also (but notto that extend).
Anyways, i have always felt that he doesnt love me as much asi love him, coz i forgive him (though never forget) but once he calls me, i forget everything..now..he left me over the phone two hours ago (OVER THE PHONE) because he felt i disrespect him coz i said (dont lie, and dont ****** joke about it)..something like that..
He said that as long as i dont respect him..it is over...!i called him again..and again..and he said(dont u understand?it is over)..
Now..it is just weird..three years of an incredible love story..that everybody talked about.(despite all fights)..and thats it??

2007-01-19 01:32:25 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am in a relationship where I do not receive any attention or significant time from my man. He says that he is busy, and I do understand, but I am unhappy. I am just wondering what other men do to show that they care. Am I crazy for wanting attention? I may see him once a month, and when I do he is nice, but most of the time he is on his phone, or watching TV. We go out to the movies and dinner sometimes, but I can't remember the last time because it is so long ago, and it does'nt happen much. He lives about an hour from me, and when I ask him to come see me, he says he's tired or has work to do. Maybe I am doing something wrong. Perhaps one can give me advice on what I can do. He is a nice guy, he tells me he loves me, should that be enough? What should a man do to show that he loves a woman? Should he have to do anything?

2007-01-19 01:32:11 · 3 answers · asked by lollly 1 in Singles & Dating

we've lived together 5 mnths. ,but he says love you so often it just sounds fake.... not i love you , just love you , what do you think ? i'm trying really hard but have trust issues,i think he tells me certain things about his day to try and make me jealous too.

2007-01-19 01:31:08 · 14 answers · asked by transplanted 2 in Singles & Dating

i'm popular but the people i hang with aren't true friends they just use me, my truest best friend is an emo (kind of like a goth) so is it worth not having true friends aslong as ur popular and everything?

2007-01-19 01:30:29 · 36 answers · asked by SeaSide,x 2 in Friends

My bf traveled on this business trip and he drove across two states late last night so I was a little worried. Anyway he hasnt called yet and I called him twice and he didnt pick up. I'm angry and worried. I dont wanna be a nag and it will make me real angry if I call him and find he has arrived and working and hasnt called me. What should I do?

2007-01-19 01:30:08 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-19 01:30:05 · 6 answers · asked by sibusiso c 1 in Singles & Dating