Family & Relationships - 19 January 2007

My boyfriend and I have been dating on and off for 5 years. i moved in with him a year or so ago and we have talked about marriage a LOT. we both know we want it, but he is the shy type. if we know that its going to happen, and that we want to spend our lives together... is it wrong for me to propose. i would like to do one and go all out- spontaneous. Should I????? HELP!

2007-01-19 02:14:23 · 43 answers · asked by wp_ashro7 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I go to lunch with him and a while back i used to sit by him at breakfast and we use to talk on the phone all the time and we did that for like 2 months and just a few days after we were talkin things separated from us and we didnt talk at all nad the next day i talked to him things changed so much that he wouldnt even look at me now i knew something was up i talked to his cousin to see if she could see wat was up with him and she had heard on the bus that he started g/o with a different gurl and didnt tell me. and the last time we talked him said if i break up with brit i might g/ back out with u and he never did so should i try again or wat?.....please i need advise andif it is over when u try to put something in for me i will do it again if i dont have enough ideas.
and i am 15 a freshmen in high school

2007-01-19 02:14:15 · 7 answers · asked by tiffa63384 2 in Singles & Dating

i have been dating this beautiful girl for 1 year and three months. i am on probation and it really causes alot of problems for us. she broke up with me because i am always stressed out and worried, and some friends told her that i was gonna hurt her because she was cheating on me. (she wasnt cheating, it was just a rumor) and i didnt ever say i was gonna hurt her. she left suddenly without even telling me. i am head over heels in love with this girl and i dont want to give up on her. i accept her for the way she is and i really want her back. its been over a month now since we have broken up and i cant let go. what can i do? ive got less than two weeks until she leaves state for awhile and i know if she leaves then she will get together with this guy down there. and this guy is really a jerk!!! its someone i know but not a good friend or anything. please help me people!!!! i dont know what to do and its getting very hard to just sit and wait. i really do love her!!

2007-01-19 02:13:02 · 6 answers · asked by Scott H 2 in Marriage & Divorce

well i think it does

2007-01-19 02:11:46 · 20 answers · asked by ene e 1 in Singles & Dating

describe...guys dont like women who act like children? if so, what is mature to you?

2007-01-19 02:11:13 · 10 answers · asked by jasmine19805 2 in Singles & Dating

here's what i got, my girlfriend lately has become so distant and cold. if i try to hug her she doesn't return it, if i try to kiss her she keeps it short. i've asked if anything's wrong and she gives me an absolute NO. if i give her space and stay away she's all over me again like she loves me,when i talk to her on the phone it's as if i disgust her so if i go out she's calling me every 10 min, with "i love you i miss you come home, all that. but her actions don't seem to show it, i'm in a bind because i truly love this girl, and this isn't how she was when i met her, she has just suddenly changed from someone who can't get enough of me to someone who can't stand me, but then again, she pushes me away and then pulls me back, i can't get a read on this girl and we've been together for a long time so i definitely notice a difference,why the sudden change??

2007-01-19 02:11:12 · 11 answers · asked by me 2 in Singles & Dating

do you use it? what good is it?

2007-01-19 02:10:22 · 12 answers · asked by lowroad 2 in Singles & Dating

I just asked a question about karma....i didnt realize that it was a buddist term.I am a christian.....Im a good person.Yes i am in revenge mode right now because i was really hurt.....So ill just put it in Gods hands

2007-01-19 02:09:52 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm trying to make a list of things we need to take with us because I had a dream lastnight that I forgot alot of things and the wedding was ruined! The wedding is in Perdido Key, FL in the beginning of July. What do I need to put on my list to take?

2007-01-19 02:09:20 · 4 answers · asked by sundragonjess 5 in Weddings

its only long distance till i finish school but i think he is cheating on me cuz he loves sex and i kno he has a history of trying to cheat on me in the past... but i want to kno for sure if he is or no but how?

2007-01-19 02:09:14 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my uncle who is only related by mariage has been has been havin sex with me since i was twelve..now my school teacher is saying he shouldn't do that and has threated to call police...why whats wrong with it

2007-01-19 02:09:00 · 15 answers · asked by conan 4 in Singles & Dating

If so what smell is it, and what does it remind you off? when i smell strawberries it reminds of two summers ago when i went strawberry picking with some friends...best time ever....do you have a smell that reminds you of something? what is it?

2007-01-19 02:08:08 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-19 02:07:28 · 22 answers · asked by lowroad 2 in Singles & Dating

I found out that performing with my band live, especially when we just get on stage and people are cheering feels better then sex. It's not a physical experience but still its amazing. Also sometimes when I just play my guitar and forget myself, or where I am that feels bettter then anythyng.

2007-01-19 02:06:40 · 29 answers · asked by inner peace 1 in Singles & Dating

What sort of picnic would you take for a romantic day?

2007-01-19 02:06:16 · 16 answers · asked by Basket-santa 6 in Singles & Dating

I have been dating a guy who disappeared during the holidays (Christmas) and then magically reappeared after MLK weekend. When he called he changed the subject when I tried to bring it up so I left a message saying I wanted to see what was going on with him since I did notice his disappearance and was not okay with it and wanted him to call me back to talk about it. Should I expect a call back? How do men respond these types of things? What is appropriate to leave on voicemail?

2007-01-19 02:05:57 · 13 answers · asked by Nic79 1 in Singles & Dating

you work in an office and there is one women there who is extremely attractive and has a body to die for. She's always dressed nice and looks smoking hot. How do you feel about her ? Honest answers only please.

2007-01-19 02:05:28 · 16 answers · asked by JustMe 6 in Singles & Dating

what r some good ttips is it scary...? im going wiht all my friends so its not the friends thing that scares me it the work is high school alot harder than middle?

2007-01-19 02:04:50 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Here is the deal I have been married for almost 3 years, and have been with my husband for almost 5 years. He never helps me around the house, we have a 7 month old son. I feel like I don't really trust him anymore and I don't know why. He has lied to me in the past several time. Even though he swears he has never lied to me more than what I think he has. I am a stay at home parent, and I am so lonely. He doesn't seem to understand the way I feel. A part of me wants to have someone new to spend time with and a part of me doesn't. Anyone in this situation? I want my husband, but its like he puts his work buddies needs before mine!

2007-01-19 02:04:44 · 18 answers · asked by Amanda A 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Which one are you?

2007-01-19 02:04:37 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

my bridesmaids are wearing pink (tearose) dresses and the guys are in all black (black pants coat vest shirt) but with a pink tie. My future MIL said thats alot of black is she right? I think it would look good becasue ya know the whole party isnt in black & their ties are exactly the same color as the bridesmaids but im curious what you guys think?

2007-01-19 02:04:12 · 12 answers · asked by Ambersgettingmarried 1 in Weddings

its been 9 months since i got dumped..should i let go already? i cant accept the fact that he dumped me, i dont know why he did. i wanna know why. i want him to say the truth, if it means that he never really felt anything for me. i dont want lies. but recently he's disappeared..maybe tried to stay away from me? not interested anymore, or never was? found somebody else? why's it so easy for him?
i wanna let go truthfully coz i hate getting hurt when i remember.

2007-01-19 02:04:12 · 17 answers · asked by jasmine19805 2 in Singles & Dating

I have a so-called friend. I met when I relocated to a new city. She was actually my tenant. We hit it off fine and I kinda felt sorry for her being pregnant with a 3 year old child and no husband, job or money. We eventually became friends and all she would ever do is hint around the fact that she had no money or ask me to do things for her. Everything was ok ( i dont mind helping it's just how I am) until she came to my house (rare occurance) and started looking around and asking me for things that she assumed I didn't use anymore. This pissed me off and I know she could tell. Now she is distant. She wont call and ask how I am doing. I called a few times to check on her and her kids but she always acts as if she is sooo busy( she works part-time drinks, smokes and don't do isht else). I'm tempted to be the same way and put her on ig becasue I never treated her bad. I just dont like people using me. Should I talk to her about it or just let it ride?

2007-01-19 02:03:32 · 5 answers · asked by Suu S 2 in Friends

Okay me and my friend's hubby were at a little get together at their house and we heard him tell her she can't walk and talk at the same time and that she has alot of book sense but no common sense and I thought that was totally mean, he physically abuses her at times and mentally abuses her all the time I mean I know they use to fight but she has stopped and he is still fighting her and brings times when she use to hit him. I just don't think it's right I see she's changed but he hasn't I wish she would just leave the jerk what do yall think?

2007-01-19 02:03:25 · 16 answers · asked by taffy2513 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-19 02:02:28 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i like this guy and everytime i talk to him i want to kiss him and i was wondering if he felt the same he wanted to sit by me the other day but he couldent because my teacher was at the computer next to me and i think it made him sad

2007-01-19 02:02:01 · 9 answers · asked by valreemariecreed 1 in Singles & Dating

Oreo means mixed race. Partner means boyfriend or girlfriend.

2007-01-19 02:01:56 · 9 answers · asked by Zyzzyx 7 in Singles & Dating

I just love a man that fills well in Levi..

2007-01-19 01:59:48 · 18 answers · asked by ﺸÐïåMóñdÐôññåﺸ 5 in Singles & Dating

i just want to say thanks for the advice thats exactly what i wanted to here all of you guys advice is taken into consideration

2007-01-19 01:59:39 · 6 answers · asked by brown eyes 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-19 01:59:38 · 32 answers · asked by laura b 2 in Friends