Should I allow this so-called- friendship?

Question

I have a so-called friend. I met when I relocated to a new city. She was actually my tenant. We hit it off fine and I kinda felt sorry for her being pregnant with a 3 year old child and no husband, job or money. We eventually became friends and all she would ever do is hint around the fact that she had no money or ask me to do things for her. Everything was ok ( i dont mind helping it's just how I am) until she came to my house (rare occurance) and started looking around and asking me for things that she assumed I didn't use anymore. This pissed me off and I know she could tell. Now she is distant. She wont call and ask how I am doing. I called a few times to check on her and her kids but she always acts as if she is sooo busy( she works part-time drinks, smokes and don't do isht else). I'm tempted to be the same way and put her on ig becasue I never treated her bad. I just dont like people using me. Should I talk to her about it or just let it ride?

Answer 1

Let it ride. She wasn't really your friend to begin with.No true friend would do that. Friendship is a give and take,not just taking.Trouble will follow if you remain friends with her,please trust me on this one.I know exactly what I'm talking about.

Answer 2

If you want to keep the friendship, then 'yes' you should talk to her. She needs to know how you feel. But if the friendship's not worth hanging onto then you should just let it ride.

Answer 3

I know what you mean. I know someone who is only friendly when he needs something and uses me or someone else to get it. Love her, help her out, but don't let her use you.

Answer 4

I would say let it ride!!! She has probably found someone else to use.

Answer 5

find a new friend good friends are hard to find