Family & Relationships - 19 January 2007

Since school started, my bf doesnt return my calls like he used to. I know he's busy and everything but atleast he can return my calls when i call him. I dont know wat to do, he's a really nice guy but him not callin me like he used to be is really pissin me off...So can sum1 please help me out here.

2007-01-19 02:50:45 · 4 answers · asked by sabrina 1 in Friends

My fiance is a good deal older than me....which makes all my future in-laws older than me. Do you have any ideas on how I can fit with them a little better? I'm young enough that after we marry, I'll have a nice who is older than me. I want to have a good relationship with my new family, but I'm not sure how to connect with my future sister in law when she's about 30 years older than me. Any suggestions?

2007-01-19 02:50:41 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

my boyfriend (hes american) and me ( from dominican) will be getting marry next april. we are makin civil wedding first and then in the states we'll make it by the church. all of my family members are coming but his family won't. why? bc they are super busy (hes dad is engineer/arquitect and his mother babysis 12 kids everyday and she's a teacher 3 days at the week)..... the only who will come is 2 of his childhood best friends.

what do you think i should do? ask them to come? or he gotta insist them to take off a weeken and come up?

Im feeling sad about this! :(

2007-01-19 02:49:40 · 10 answers · asked by *live,laugh,love* 2 in Weddings

sometimes don't tell their friends who they go with ? or hang with the friends that they used to when you start going with them ? ok my bf tells pple i go with him but he doesnt hang with his buddies anymore i mean they party and everything and he used to and doesnt no more he thinks that if he does then he'll start back with old habits but i'm right there to refrian him from it why doesnt he trust in me ?

2007-01-19 02:49:38 · 8 answers · asked by web gurl 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-19 02:49:24 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm wondering if it's true most men like shorter women, half their height, rather than a tall and well-built women. I often see tall men with shorter women. Why don't they date someone their height?

2007-01-19 02:49:23 · 29 answers · asked by Confused 2 in Singles & Dating

She knows that i like her but she tries to ignore it. I am planning to kiss her with a trick. I will wisper something in her ears as a question and when she brings her head forward, i will kiss her. How does it sound? Crazy? Will she get mad?

2007-01-19 02:48:53 · 8 answers · asked by Johanpaul 1 in Singles & Dating

I got a sports massage, and after the massage the woman asked me to do yoga with her....kinda weird to me, but i said ok so after the yoga she took me out for breakfast and to the mall now shes asking me to go on dates and so forth....now the strange part is i'm 20 and shes 32. should i keep going with it or just stop? shes really cool and very attractive.......what to do?

2007-01-19 02:48:52 · 10 answers · asked by Tim S 2 in Singles & Dating

i don't think you get enough recognition.. my mum struggled with me and my brother for 6 years on her own before she married again...god bless ya all!

2007-01-19 02:48:50 · 17 answers · asked by lion of judah 5 in Family

is obviously a whore right? Thgen why do guys keep diggin her i mean she's effing digusting. I wish she would eff the wrong guy and die of aids. How many guys is too many? opions?

2007-01-19 02:48:15 · 22 answers · asked by That girl 1 in Singles & Dating

The concept of chivalry was born from the desire to help and protect those considered weaker. I am in perfect health and am stronger naturally than most guys that lift weights daily. (I only lift once or twice a week).

So, I give up my seat and open doors for everyone. Who knows who is sick that day or just finished chemo?

My wife has a big problem with this. She says:

#1: Only women are deserving. I say, why not be courteous enough to let anyone sit that feels they need to?

#2: That according other women chivalrous treatment is wrong. It's OK to stand or open a building door.

But, I should not open car doors for other women, help others with a coat, help others get seated, etc. These things should be reserved for her only.

I believe all people should be treated with good manners.

We've gone round and round on this.

How do I convince her that good manners are deserving by all, male, female, wife, UPS guy/gal, co-worker, or stranger.

2007-01-19 02:48:07 · 11 answers · asked by Jay 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

What sort of circumstances or life lessons did it take for you to realize that they arent as stupid as you once thought they were when you were a teenager? Have you ever told them that they were right?

2007-01-19 02:47:31 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-01-19 02:47:11 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

and will be making a little more money I will miss my co-worker she is my closest friend right now how should I say good by

2007-01-19 02:46:25 · 4 answers · asked by Maria Laura 3 in Friends

2007-01-19 02:45:55 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I have been dating a girl whose 6'3 (two inches taller than me) she plays volleyball for her university ..recently i kinda fooled around with one of her teammates (who is also tall).she found out and now won't speak to me...I know I shouldn't have cheated and I can't understand why I did..It's just like I can't help myself around tall leggy women..are tall women so intimidating I can't say no? P.S If anyone knows a tall girl I'm playin the field again or the gym cause them vball girls get me goin

2007-01-19 02:45:52 · 10 answers · asked by bgbadwolf27 3 in Singles & Dating

I am headed for divorce and my husband is getting ready to move out. Does anyone have any tips on how i can remain financially stable just in case he doesn't pay child support? I will be a single mother with two small children...and bringing home about $1350.00 a month.

2007-01-19 02:45:36 · 14 answers · asked by Kristi 2 in Marriage & Divorce

See my boyfriend's mom thinks I'm not good anuff for him but his dad loves me. I don't know what to do. Now she's not even letting him spen time with me and she's driving me crazy.what should I do?

2007-01-19 02:44:43 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My friends's niece has leukemia and she wants to do something amazing for her birthday (she will be 7) but can't take her out or organise a party due to the risk of infection. Any idea what she could do as this could be her last birthday?? Please help!

2007-01-19 02:44:00 · 4 answers · asked by amzydoodles 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

even if your the most ugliest or oldest men in the world. u can still get the most beautiful women in the world, as long you have a million dollar bank account or even less. so do you think money can outsmart those handsome guy who can get a women cause of their looks...

2007-01-19 02:43:35 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-19 02:43:34 · 15 answers · asked by Mimi149 6 in Singles & Dating

IS SHE JUST JEALOUS OR IS SHE REALLY TRYING TO HURT ME.LET ME SAY THIS I KNOW MY WIFE IS JEALOUS EVEN THOUGH SHE IS SO GORGEOUS.SHE IS STUBBORN,SPOILED BY WELL PAID PARENTS.WHAT DO I DO.NOW THATS WHERE THE STORY WAS SUPPOSED TO END BUT LO AND EHOLD.AS IM WRITING THIS SHE CALLS ME.SHE SAYS I WAS JUST CALLING CAUSE I COUDLNT FIND THE GERBAL FOOD.HAAHAHAHA.I ENGAGE THE TALK AND SAY LISTEN YOU SAID SOME HURTFUL STUFF.SHE WAS LIKE YOU I SAID IT TO GET UNDER YA SKIN.CHELIE REMEMBER THE STORY ABOUT HER AND HER FRIEND ON THE CELL PHONES. LAUGHING OUT LOUD.SAME THING,TRYING TO MAKE ME ANGRY.SO I TOLD HER THIS NEEDS TO STOP.SHE SAID IF I DONT GO SHE'LL LOVE ME AND WONT CHEAT.HAHAHAHAHAHA.WHAT KINDA WIFE I GOT.IM SORRY CHELIE I DIDNT REAlly talk about your situation.its justbthat im so confused.marriage is killing me. SO YAHOO WHAT THE HELL DO I DO WITH THIS PYSCHO.END

2007-01-19 02:42:53 · 11 answers · asked by MR. IM 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Well I have this friend who is just lovely and makes me giggle all the time - however after her suggesting a visit to MY house for a few drinky poos and what not she has cancelled on me! with some lame excuse that her fella is ill!! I mean really come on! I think she is totally disrespecting me and my household man! innit :-)
I am seriously unimpressed that my matey is so un-interested in m family! lol
Yes this is aimed at you FALEST OF THE FAKE MARY'S!!

2007-01-19 02:41:52 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

LIFE IS GOOD---NO.I CALL HER AND SHE BEGANS AGAIN.I DONT WAN TU GOING.I SAID BABY THATS NOT RIGHT.ANYWHERE YOU WANNA GO I LET YOU.EVEN AFTER YOUR AFFAIR YOU WENT AND DID AS YOU PLEASED.NOW MY SISTER ASK ME OUT AND THIS IS HOW YOU TREAT ME.SHE START BABBLING ON ABOUT HOW I DONT LOVE HER CAUSE I WANNA GO HANGING OUT.IHOW SHE DONT WANNA KEEP ACTING LIKE SHE LOVES ME,SHE DONT WANNA SLEEP WIT ME,SHE CANT STAND ME OR MY FAMILY,I ONLY WANT HER FOR SEX(SHE WISH)AND ALL KINDS OF **** BUT THIS WAS THE KILLER."IM LETTING YOU KNOW THAT IM ABOUT TO CONTINUE MY AFFAIR.I DONT WANT YOU AND FOR NOW ON IM GONNA BE SLEEPING WITH EVERYONE BUT YOU.AND PACK YA BAGS BY FEBRUARY"I COUNTERED WITH WHATEVER I GOT KIM,LISA,TIFFANY AND PLENTY MORE WAITING TO FILL YA SPOT.THEYRE NOT BUT WHO KNOWS.THOSE ARE GIRL"FRIENDS" OF MINE AT WORK.I DIDNT SAY THE NAMES I JUST SAID I GOT MY OWN AFFAIR PLANS SO FINE.SHE HUNG UP ON ME AND THAT WAS THAT.I WAS GONNA ASK YOU WHAT TO DO.WHAT THE EHLL DO I DO.

2007-01-19 02:41:49 · 3 answers · asked by MR. IM 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband and I have been married for 2 years now and we have a 1 1/2 year old boy together, I have a 10 1/2 year old son from my previous relationship, well for the last year my husband has been really controlling and very jealous he gets mad at anything from going shopping, buying groceries, working out at the gym, going to my sister's house, he gets mad when my cell phone rings and its my job calling or a cousin that wants to say hello if I don’t pick up the phone or I am not available when he calls me on my cell or at work he starts calling like crazy multiple times it bothers him when, I am so tired of all the arguing and how when we argue he constantly throws my past to my face and he accuses me of cheating on him with the facilities manager at work he has gotten to that point were he has disrespect me and called me names, and thrown stuff at me, I am tired and ready for a divorce. Now tell me does anyone have any advice for me>?????? Thanks

2007-01-19 02:40:59 · 34 answers · asked by mexicanita M 1 in Marriage & Divorce

there is this girl at my school, and we kind of dig each other, my problem is she constantly tells me that she's not seeing her ex but it all seems like a lie the way she talks about her has all her pics and stuff. should i call her up and ask her out or lay my foot down and call her out on her lies?

2007-01-19 02:40:58 · 6 answers · asked by BOOTZ 4 in Singles & Dating

I like to keep things original with my girlfriend and I am usually good at coming up with ideas, but I was wondering if any of you had some really good and/or original ones.

Please be considerate with your answers, I am asking about dating here. Thanks.

2007-01-19 02:40:03 · 6 answers · asked by Sir Smith 2 in Singles & Dating

I SAID LOOK AT NOW.I JUST TOLD YOU WHY SHE CALLED AND YOU WENT ALL CRAZY.WE ARGUED BUT LET IT GO SENSE I DIDNT GO ANYWAY.FAST FORWARD TO THURSDAY NIGHT.I TALKED TO MY SISTER EARLIER IN THE DAY AND WE AGREED TO GO FRIDAY.THURSDAY NIGHT I GET HOME AND TELL MY WIFE THAT IM GONNA TAKE MY SON TO MY MOM'S HOUSE THEN GOTO THE MOVIES WITH MY SIS AND DINNER.SHE GOES INTO ANOTHER FIT.OH I WANNA DIVORCE.YOU DONT CARE ABOUT MEI DIDNT ARGUE WITH HER SO SHEWENT TO BED.I WENT TO BED LIKE 3 AM AND SHE ROLLED OVER AND STUCK HER TOUNGUE OUT PLAYFULLY.SHE SAID I LEFT HER ALONE IN THE ROOM.NOT TRUE.WHEN SHE WENT OTO BED I SMOKED A CIG AND THEN JOINED HER.5 MINS LATER SHE LEFT THE ROOM.I THEN WENT IN THE LIVING ROOM TO TALK TO HER.SHE LEFT AGAIN.THE GIRL IS CRAZY.THEN THIS MORNING SHE MAKES ME BREAKFAST.IM TOTALLY CONFUSED AT THIS POINT AS TO WHATS GOING ON.SHE THEN ASKED ME IF I WAS STILL GOING.IT WAS SNOWING SO I SAID CONSIDER IT A YES BUT IM NOT SURE DUE TO WEATHER.KISS GOODBYE,I LEAVE FOR WORK.2 B CONT

2007-01-19 02:39:50 · 10 answers · asked by MR. IM 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-19 02:39:31 · 21 answers · asked by All I need is you 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-19 02:39:28 · 1 answers · asked by Spider Man BH 3 in Singles & Dating