sometimes don't tell their friends who they go with ? or hang with the friends that they used to when you start going with them ? ok my bf tells pple i go with him but he doesnt hang with his buddies anymore i mean they party and everything and he used to and doesnt no more he thinks that if he does then he'll start back with old habits but i'm right there to refrian him from it why doesnt he trust in me ?
2007-01-19 02:49:38 · 8 answers · asked by web gurl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It may not be that he doesnt trust in you, It might be that he doesnt trust in himself. If he was doing bad things before he met you and now has changed, thats great! Sometimes for people to make a complete change like that, they must remove themselves from the situation that makes them do bad things. Good luck to both of you.
2007-01-19 02:56:14 · answer #1 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my experience, the girl tends to do what your guy is doing... and then she doesn't want you to hang with your friends because she doesn't like them or expects you to do "bad stuff" while you're with them. Maybe he just likes being around you. That can't be a bad thing. But if he starts complaining that you don't let him hang out with his friends, don't take no guff! It may also be a good thing to encourage that both of you go hang out with his friends, and yours as well.
2007-01-19 16:46:03 · answer #2 · answered by Got rice? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We guys have sort of protecting feelings. We dont want to disclose "you" to our friends because they will tease & comment & all. Its nothing related to trust in this act... he is simply being possessive about you.... which is a good thing... he wants to protect you.
When we guys get "significant other", its hard to get back to old buddies... we make some excuses for it so that they dont feel; but they (friends) know what is it going on.
So, dont worry, be happy. Just ask him to join his friends sometimes too... that would make him & his friends happy & they wont comment that he left them for a girl.
2007-01-19 10:59:48 · answer #3 · answered by hmmm 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most guys don't tell their friends who they are dating because of the woman's reputation.
The guys are embarassed by their girlfriend. That is why so many guys date girls from out of town.
2007-01-19 11:00:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wouldn't worry about it. be glad that he is taking it into his own hands. its not that he doesn't trust u he just feels more comfortbale doing it himself......don't worry the only thing u have to worry about is how much fun u can have. stop worrying about things that don't need to be worried about! goodluck!
2007-01-19 10:56:30 · answer #5 · answered by Tim S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he doesnt want you to stop him. thats why he doesnt go.
2007-01-19 10:54:00 · answer #6 · answered by kMac969 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys don't communicate very well and they lie, so get used to it
2007-01-19 10:54:30 · answer #7 · answered by Jim G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it isn't that he doesn't trust you, he doesn't trust HIMSELF!
Let him be and enjoy his company
2007-01-19 10:59:50 · answer #8 · answered by Mister 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋