i have been dating this beautiful girl for 1 year and three months. i am on probation and it really causes alot of problems for us. she broke up with me because i am always stressed out and worried, and some friends told her that i was gonna hurt her because she was cheating on me. (she wasnt cheating, it was just a rumor) and i didnt ever say i was gonna hurt her. she left suddenly without even telling me. i am head over heels in love with this girl and i dont want to give up on her. i accept her for the way she is and i really want her back. its been over a month now since we have broken up and i cant let go. what can i do? ive got less than two weeks until she leaves state for awhile and i know if she leaves then she will get together with this guy down there. and this guy is really a jerk!!! its someone i know but not a good friend or anything. please help me people!!!! i dont know what to do and its getting very hard to just sit and wait. i really do love her!!
2007-01-19 02:13:02 · 6 answers · asked by Scott H 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Then tell her then . What do u have to loose?
2007-01-19 02:22:30 · answer #1 · answered by lilly l 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm going to tell you a saying: Love is like a four leaf clover, hard to find, lucky to have, and impossible to forget, true love starts with a smile, grows with a kiss, and ends with a tear, so what do you do when the one who made you cry is the one you love, smile, and be patient, because everything is alright in the end, and if it's not alright then it's not the end. So what are u just sitting there for go get yo woman!
2007-01-19 02:26:13 · answer #2 · answered by FiahRed 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to get help for your stress and worry problem before you can be with her or have her back.... You may also see a medical doctor about this and be on medication for it. Give her the space she needs and dont hound or beg her.... Just be friends with her if at all possible and work on you... If she sees you change and get the help you need then you just may get her back someday. They say if you love someone you let them go.
2007-01-19 02:28:19 · answer #3 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you need help with your stress and anxiety. That alone can be scary for a young lady. You never know if a man will snap and try to hurt you and that is one of the worse ways to live your life. Get help than call her.
2007-01-19 02:46:34 · answer #4 · answered by Suu S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look just tell her just what you wrote on here and if she just up and left shes not really worth haveing think about it she is not perfect big deal your on probation alot of people are let her go better now then if you were married to here just remember you never know what you got till its gone its the truth
2007-01-19 03:09:58 · answer #5 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
alls you can do is show her that you love her..just dont stalk her...if you let her know how you feel about her...and she still doesnt want you then you are going to have to let her go....sometimes distance will let the heart grow fonder...let her go if she wants to go..
but in her defense...did you do something to her to make her want to get away from you ? if so, apologize for it....thats about all you can do is let her know how you feel...
good luck.
2007-01-19 02:22:35 · answer #6 · answered by luvutaz1 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋