I think they arehaving a little misunderstanding between each other.my dad's characters displeases not only my mumand to us his children.my dad complains of my mum keeping late night.this makes him so sad and leads to fighting and querelling.
2007-01-19 01:33:52 · 6 answers · asked by angelzmilia 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Honey, your parents have marital problems that involve a lot of different issues and has become a pattern for how they interact. Your Dad feels a certain way about your Mum and she feels a certain way about him. I'm sure they love each other, but they have some serious adult problems that they will have to find their own way through. I know you want to do something to help the situation, but there really isn't anything you can do. This isn't your fault. You didn't cause the problem, and you can't fix it either. It sounds like they need a professional marriage counselor to help them through this. All you can do is to tell them how their fighting makes you feel, but you don't have the power to fix it.
2007-01-19 01:42:26 · answer #1 · answered by lizardmama 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know including ages in these things would make it a lot easier to assess the question accurately and give a better more personal answer
I mean if you are young and in the home I'd say your parents problems are just that their problems. As parents it is our job to protect our children from these things. I'd simply ask that they do a better job of this and not fight around you. You have the right to ask that fights not occur around you and I hope they respect that. They wouldn't do it in front of anyone else. You concentrate on school and being a kid.
If you are older I'd almost say the same thing. It's just not your problem and they need to work out these issues by themselves. Concentrate on your life and your own problems.
2007-01-19 10:43:21 · answer #2 · answered by rocknchickx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kid, With the knowledge i have with failing marriage or relationship
Stay out of it is the best medicines you can give them, Don't take sides
Just be there for the both them, Because I found out later on , My children took my side, I allow them to , and found out they started hate us both, because we allow the children to take each other sides, Matter if it was right or wrong, We did it,because at the time , To us if one of us had the children on our side, then what ever was happening good or bad, right or wrong, It gave us the control of the fight with with the other person, We are the adult it our relationship and we should had work it out with out en-voling our children into it,. so my piece of advice stay out of it and let them work it out between themselves . I hope this helps
2007-01-19 10:25:36 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit them both down let them know what is bothering you.If you live in the home tell them if there is no peace in this house I will go find some elsewhere.Your parents need help with communicating you can't please anybody but yourself.If it is bothering you then YOU have to let theem go.(back out of the arguing)let them deal with it.
2007-01-19 11:23:55 · answer #4 · answered by gblue52 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like they need to sit down and talk about their concerns. Your father needs to express to your mother that her nights out are costing money that they do not have.
Your mum needs to explain to your dad what it is about him that is making her uncomfortable.
Take care,
Troy
2007-01-19 09:39:19 · answer #5 · answered by tiuliucci 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are best not to get involved in your parent's disputes and let them sort it out. If it gets too bad then see if there is a school counsellor you can talk to.
2007-01-19 09:36:56 · answer #6 · answered by Bagpuss 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋