What should I do?

Question

My bf traveled on this business trip and he drove across two states late last night so I was a little worried. Anyway he hasnt called yet and I called him twice and he didnt pick up. I'm angry and worried. I dont wanna be a nag and it will make me real angry if I call him and find he has arrived and working and hasnt called me. What should I do?

Answer 1

relax and take a deep breath. i know it sucks when they don't call and we worry. just send him a text. tell him you hope he cot there and all is well and when he has i free moment to call you. I know that is easier said then done but it is the best think for you to do. trust me my Bf is gone for months on business and if often unreachable. that is how i handle it. Try not to nag and just let him know that I care. good look and just stay calm

Answer 2

Do you have that kind of relationship where each of you call the other when traveling or doing something out of the ordinary?

This is just me, but I find all this calling in and reporting a bit tedious. Either you trust me or you don't. And I'm sorry but worry doesn't enter the picture. Only mothers worry about kids who stay out past the curfew. I don't worry about a grown person who is doing his/her job.

He is probably tired and if he traveled for work, he has thoughts and ideas he needs to put on paper (or on the computer). He may need to report to his supervisor on his arrival. Give him time to unwind.

Why would you be angry if he arrived and was working? Isn't that what he was paid to do?

Answer 3

He was probably just tired and forgot to call. Dont hold it against him. If there was anything wrong you would have known it by now.
If or when he calls let him know that you were worried about him and that you were upset you didnt get a call.
Did he have enough time to get there by now though? You have to think about that too. When Im driving I typically dont hear my phone ringing so I rarely answer.
Im sure hes ok though

Answer 4

Your bf is an adult who can take care of himself. You have no right to be angry at him for not calling you. Instead you should be a bf yourself and trust that he has a good reason for not calling you. He's tired. He's got work to do. etc etc.

Answer 5

Stop being a nag. There are a variety of reasons why he hasn't callled.

1. He is sleeping
2. Telephone range
3. Weather
4. Youre a nag! (my personal favorite)

He's a big boy, why don't you let him be?

Answer 6

im a guy it happen to me always with my wife, it dosnt matter that where not calling, where doin some thing wrong or cheating. some time we are too busy i even not eat my lunch cause my brain is full of works and some time's i even forget to call her. you should understand some times the situation it might be your bf is too busy and driedup already. relax girl!

Answer 7

Trust, love, and in your case........baby, grow up.....if this is all you have to worry about in your life, your do'in fine. When he gets home chew him out a little about not calling you, because you are worried....but don't harp....we men are stupid when it comes to that stuff....we get better with age ....when we are young, we don't have time to bleed.......

Answer 8

i would call one more time, if you haven't already and leave a message letting him know your worried. just don't get to angry, that can really eat you up inside!

Answer 9

Let him call you. Did he take a cell phone? If so, his cell phone could of needed to be charged up and did he remember to take the charger?

Answer 10

I think you shoukd call just to check how he has settled down their. You never no he might misses you as much as you do him. So try it.Good Luck!