ive been going out with this guy for 4 months and it seems he is getting bored with me and theres never anything to talk about or do......any ideas????
2007-01-19 01:40:58 · 29 answers · asked by olivia n 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
find out what got you two attracted to each other in the first place and go from there
2007-01-19 01:45:06 · answer #1 · answered by BKelly237 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The guy is not for you. You will never get bored with the person that is right for you, even after only 4 months!!!
Before, is too late, get out of the relationship and find someone that you can communicate with better and not be bored within the first 4 months of your relationship.
2007-01-19 09:45:47 · answer #2 · answered by Kiki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If after only 4 months, im sorry but dump him and move on. Don't take it personally, he gave the relationship a chance and it just happens that it didn't work out. There are lots of men out there for you who can give you stimulating conversations and much more (wink wink) This guy sounds a bit immature and flakey to me.
I've been with my boyfriend for four years and everyday he makes me laugh about something different and we talk all the time about stuff.
Sometimes it works, sometimes it doesn't. Good Luck
2007-01-19 09:47:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the relationship itself has turned to routine after 4 months then I am afraid to say it is heading nowhere and no amount of spice can save it.
2007-01-19 09:45:14 · answer #4 · answered by Bagpuss 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try suggesting something that you've never done before. Like a romantic date to a fancy restaurant.
But know that if its time for the relationship to end, then this may be a sign too.
Best of Luck to you!
2007-01-19 09:45:18 · answer #5 · answered by Lisa Michelle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk about him. Ask him questions about his family, brother, sisters. What does he like to do? Does he like
sports, video games, etc? What are his goals in life? If he works get him to talk about that.
Ask open ended questions, like "If you could travel to any place in the world, where would that be?"
By no means have sex. If you give in, many times that's it, they got what they wanted in the first place. When that happens, he's not worth it anyway. Find someone else. Guys are like buses, if you miss one, wait awhile and another will come along.
2007-01-19 09:56:02 · answer #6 · answered by answerguy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's only been 4 months and it's getting boring? Girl find another guy cause you guys are compatible.
2007-01-19 09:43:42 · answer #7 · answered by stryc9 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try talking about spicing up your sex life. There are some awesome toys out there on the market.
2007-01-19 09:44:24 · answer #8 · answered by Mazer 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, just start talking like asking him what kind of movies he likes & ask him if you wanna go watch movies or just talk about anything! of course he will get bored if you don't have nothing to say to each other. Ask him how his day was & tell him how your day was! good luck on that dating thing:)
2007-01-19 09:45:48 · answer #9 · answered by irel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Olivia... I see it differently!!!
I've noticed you are concerned that he might be getting bored with you...
But how do you feel, have you asked yourself? Are you bored with him too? Maybe it is not you the bore but him..
Why do you feel you have to try to please and entertain him...?
You both should be having a good time together, don't you think so..? It should be effortless too
2007-01-19 10:11:36 · answer #10 · answered by Maxi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋