My bf is very attractive, but very serious in committed relationship. He's the first guy I've ever loved, cuz I never felt this strong and real. He also says I'm the best he ever had, and I can see (and all his friends tell me) he's very in love with me.
But he is also the first person who likes to avoid responsibility. Every other bf I had wanted to marry me in an year or so (I'm 27) but my current one doesn't open his feelings at all... he doesn't even say "love", I think the word scares him a lot. Also, he doesn't earn much and not in a stable occupation.
Now I am asked from my company to move to another country. I must move on April. Should I ask him if he's interested in long distance, or should I move on?
It's killing me but I should be realistic since I do want to marry and have kids as soon as possible? Should I push my feelings away to be realistic?
Please give me your thoughts.
2007-01-18
03:19:19
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