He is really a good man. It is just that we are facing a lot in a lot of different areas in our lives. I am wanting to believe that all of this is going to make us stronger...I have been told however, that this is a sign that we should not be together. What do you think?
2007-01-18 03:09:48 · 11 answers · asked by just me 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Do u really love this guy? Then u should believe that all the bad things are signs to know if you are really committed to each other or if your only getting married because it sounds good. Things wondn't work out if you don't want them to. If u truly love this guy and want to be with him, then you should hold on with both hands and don't ever let go no matter what cause all things work out for good for them that believe in good.
2007-01-18 03:22:07 · answer #1 · answered by bootygirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what you feel is right but i want to tell you, don't listen to everyone that says it means something! My sis was engaged and her fiance's pastor and his whole church said God showed them not to be together, they've been married for yrs now adn are doing great. If this guy is the ONE stick with it and stay together
2007-01-18 11:15:17 · answer #2 · answered by shine_on 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's hard to say as you dont say what differences you are facing. no one couple is going to have an easy sailing, everyone argues and disagrees, it's how you handle it that matters. You need to sit down and talk things out with your fiance, let the decision come from the two of you, not an outsider who doesn't see things from both ends.
2007-01-18 11:14:29 · answer #3 · answered by jaws1013 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think you are not meant to be with him than you shouldn't. You should give it a little time to grow though. If things get any worse than you should try telling him. Maybe you can work things out.
2007-01-18 11:14:49 · answer #4 · answered by Foxy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok well it may seem that you guys aren't right together but really thats not really what is happening you just have to have faith in you guys's love and relationship and just tryt to work everything that happens ou t just don't worry about all of that and if you really love him you would just try to make everything perfect
2007-01-18 11:23:19 · answer #5 · answered by brandi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should focus on each other and helping one another get through the rough spots and don't listen to negative people...good luck...this will pass and things will get better..love each other, talk openly and honestly and be supportive.....
2007-01-18 11:13:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't know what to say because i am in the same position. however, once all that is going wrong is not based on him fundamentally. take the time to breathe... don't rush into anything you are not sure of.
2007-01-18 11:23:05 · answer #7 · answered by stacy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to go with the flow and talk to him about it.
2007-01-18 11:22:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
so give it more time an see what happens.
2007-01-18 11:14:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i agree don't get married.
2007-01-18 11:12:38 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋