I would really appreciate an answer to this...I met this guy off of online a year ago..We were talking for a few months before we met up...I am a thick chick but a lot of people say Im cute..I was kind of shy but I put up the biggest front that I wasnt when we first met..I kept it cool..and he did Instant message me the following day..We did not mess around or talk about messing around until 1 month later...I sucked his dick because i was scared of having sex with him..I was in a long relationship prior to him...reason why i wanted to meet this dude up was because my ex boyfriend treated me like crap. Well this guy has been talking dirty to me for the past year on AIM..and saying how we are going to meet up and never follows through...at first he mentioned how i need to lose weight.literally everyday he instant messages me...What is the point of it? Is he not attracted to me? He has an awesome job..he is a smart guy.. I know people get bored but come on..Everyday?? What is his deal??
2007-01-18 03:21:58 · 3 answers · asked by cyberlove 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he tells you that you need to lose weight then move on, he isn't worth your time. He should be accepting you for who you are and not try to change you. You deserve better. And if he has been talking dirty to you alot then chances are he is just after one thing and he will use you. Get rid of him or let him know you will be nothing more then just friends with him. Good Luck
2007-01-18 03:30:22 · answer #1 · answered by Lace 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you mess up when you had oral sex with him. He might think of you as a friend.
2007-01-18 11:26:29 · answer #2 · answered by angle2005star 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is crushing on his computer, not you. He puts his thang in the usb port and works it!
2007-01-18 11:27:14 · answer #3 · answered by Mr. Knowitall 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋