i went out with a guy who happens to be the "new hot guy"
then i broke up with him because i hated the fact that ppl were always telling me how they like him and i felt bad because they were my friends.
so i broke up with him
for about three days he tried to get back with me but i said no.
and after like one week he started going out with one of my BEST friend.
any help?
2007-01-18 03:21:01 · 14 answers · asked by emont_1029 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You shouldn't have listened to what other people said about him. You had him and when you lost him you wouldn't take him back; you let him go. The only thing you can do is accept the fact that he's with someone else and next time don't let your man go just because of what other people say. If you want him you keep him.
2007-01-18 03:25:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok well yes you might like him even love but you have just got to think right yes i dont need him and move on cause theres no point thinking about the past and what could of happend think about the future and meeting a nice guy one thats yours forever,and when you get him dont do what your friends want you to do,stay with him love him,and he will love you back and we wont be lookin at your friends...and this might sound harsh but 3 days....its not long he must not of cared that much.. ive been threw loads of **** these last few months and this guy got over me in around a week i was with him for a few month and it well hurts expecually when your in love and u feel like i wont get over this...im getting over now but il never be completly over it cause i loved him and he will always be in my heart and thats how its going to be for you if u loved him if u didnt then ul just forget about him after time! no point worryin over something thats gone its just wasteing your time and hes just stupid for lettin you go that fast cause it seems like you loved him or you wouldnt of wrote this and maybe you didnt love him like you are in love cause 3 days is a short time but u must of cared and wz startin to love him!
2007-01-18 03:40:24 · answer #2 · answered by mich3ll307 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't do anything now. Once you said no, you lost it. Also your best friend is wrong to go out with him. Your best friend should ask you first before she go for him. But hey, you lost the chance and let them go, they might be right couple, who knows. It just that he needs someone to date with. Why dont you find a guy, so you won't be alone. Good luck.
2007-01-18 03:25:42 · answer #3 · answered by MissGal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you were the victim of peer pressure. you succumbed and they moved in.
you must not fold under pressure and comments from friends. you must be strong and stick to your decisions in life.
you probably had a good thing with the new guy and blew it.
it was a mistake , but now you will have to sit back and watch...
you can't go back. he probably would be thinking she didn't want me then, why now.... because I am dating her friend, not a good enough reason.
you made a bad decision and you'll have to forget having him as as bf.
2007-01-18 03:29:42 · answer #4 · answered by doclakewrite 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he may be doing this to try to get u jealous... but if he's serious then i would ask u to just forget him because a guy who's supposed to love u a lot cannot go out with someone so quickly... just say gd bye to him then n find someone else n make sure u never repeat the same mistake...
2007-01-18 03:25:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she's really your friend then you can talk to her and she will understand. Not saying that she will break up with him or not. But maybe you can discuss your feelings with her and then him. If they dont break up right away i would wait until there relationship ends then talk to him again and go from there he may or may not wan to try dating again.
2007-01-18 03:26:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you really liked him you shouldn't have broken up with him then...
not a lot you can do about it now...
a life lesson.. you can't always please everyone and yourself.. so you have to decide if its a situation where you have to look out for yourself.. or if its better to please someone else
so either look at it as a loss for you but a gain for a friend.. as long as she's happy.. then at least you can look at that as a brightside
2007-01-18 03:27:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why did you tell him no? Your so called friend just wanted him...
If i was you i would go after him.
2007-01-18 03:25:22 · answer #8 · answered by bette69 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u made ur own bed now u must lie in it.
2007-01-18 03:24:26 · answer #9 · answered by jenivive 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope, you let it happen he even tried to get you back
2007-01-18 03:25:52 · answer #10 · answered by collegechick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋