Family & Relationships - 18 January 2007

My partner doesnt trust me, I hold my hand up I went to pub and didnt answer my mobile ( it was on silent as always)
His exwife cheated on him 3 times now I get third degree and him asking is it something he has done. Only wanted to go out for a drink in local pub where everyone knows us. He says he didnt smell drink of me when I came in, christ was only drinking vodka for 7 hours! and my boss smelt it off me when i went to work!!!! he has to know where I am 24/7 and thinks we should do EVERYTHING as a couple.
Should I stay or ask him to go?

2007-01-18 02:55:48 · 3 answers · asked by angelrose0105 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-18 02:55:12 · 15 answers · asked by Valorie H 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm 20 years old and have never been in a serious relationship until now. I am currently with my boyfriend for 6 months now, but I have known him for about 2 years. There is a problem.. I am confussed. In a moment I love him to death, but then he does something that really turns me off and well, then I get all confussed about my feelings towards him. For instance, he is NOT romantic and everytime I do something sweet he likes it but his reaction doesn't seem like it. The only times he gets romantic is when he sees that I am really sad.. he begins to say sweet things to me. He says that he wants to spend the rest of his live with me, but I don't know if to believe that. At the moment he doesn't work, I am the one that works and most of the time pays for everything. I don't want to even think that he is using me because of the fact that I work. His mother LOVES me! That's also another thing that I've been thinking about. He's a momma's boy and his mother tells him all the time that he

2007-01-18 02:55:10 · 3 answers · asked by Hmmmm 2 in Singles & Dating

Some jerk decided to get me in trouble this morning. he called my house and said he is my boyfriend. So my mom comes in my room and she says who is this blake guy?? And i am like huh??/she said oh he is your boyfriend!!!I got so mad because id ont EVEN know a guy named Blake let along...DATE ONE. So I told my mom MOm i dont even have a boyfriend what the heck? And she just gave me a dirty look.I am 14 I am not allowed to date. So I imagine she will be MAD once dinnertime comes. My question is what do i do? she wont believe me if i tell her it isnt true. As i am typing this (i am at school) its a 10 minute break and the librarian is giving me a dirty look for typing so loud. So I am going to end this typing.

2007-01-18 02:54:49 · 24 answers · asked by Haley 2 in Family

i called this girl a name cause she called me somethign and now shes got all her brothers to hit me i cant tell a teacher because her bros said thatif i do they will get me after school and they said that the teachers would tell me off for suposidly bulling the girl

2007-01-18 02:54:39 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

hi all. any good ideas for an unusual birthday e mail/txt for a female work collegue. can be a little bit risque but not to flirty.

thanks in advance

2007-01-18 02:54:17 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Was there any hesitation on your part. How are the kids? Did you keep in touch with them? "She was a shrew" is not conducive to other women learning from this discussion. Thanks.

2007-01-18 02:54:03 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have had to treat three kids and my home for lice. My boyfriend has not been helpful at all. I am cooking and doing all the regular stuff and when I cried...he became angry with me. Do you think this is right? Why would he do this?

2007-01-18 02:54:00 · 9 answers · asked by just me 2 in Singles & Dating

I live with my boyfriend ( he is 3 years older then me). One day I got off work early and came home. I heard music playing in our apartment, and I guess they didn't hear me come in. When I stepped into the bedroom I saw this guy sitting on the bed and my boyfriend giving him a b-l-o-w-j-o-b. They both turned around and looked at me. I was so shocked I ran out.

Now I am sitting at my friends house and I don't know if I can go back. I fell like crap! My boyfriend keeps calling me but I don't pick up. What can I do?

2007-01-18 02:53:56 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

is there any special body signs or something which proves tht my girl is actually feeling orgasm or not????because i think she fakes it...???

2007-01-18 02:53:55 · 10 answers · asked by sam 1 in Singles & Dating

So I had been dating this guy that lives in New York. He went to Italy for a week and I was talking to him on the computer for a few minutes and things seemed good. Tehn a little while later (while I had been away from the computer), he said this to me (on AIM): "we have to break up. Don't text me cuz it costs money and I won't answer."
then he signed off.

Like a day or 2 later he says that the reason was is: "you never call me ok"

Is is silly to break up over this? I didn't break up with him when he said that he wanted a baby soon...and asked me "why don't you want a child now?" ...."No one will care if you're pregnant in college."

Other times he's said stuff like: "so, when do you want a baby?"

2007-01-18 02:53:04 · 2 answers · asked by ? 6 in Singles & Dating

She has 2 children ages 13 and 8.
She has been declared disabled.
He bought her a 2001 Ford Van and is still paying on it.
But it is in his name.
She will be unable to pay the monthly payment on the van.

2007-01-18 02:52:38 · 8 answers · asked by ashiepoo622 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-18 02:52:12 · 12 answers · asked by littlereddragon 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Did your boss care?? Did it affect anything??
I am still thinking about if I should invite mine. I don't care much for him but he is an 80 old man.

2007-01-18 02:52:01 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

is there anything wrong is seeing your Ex just for sex and to hang out with now and then?

we were together for 6 years and were best mates.

he doesnt live in my area but he comes up to visit me now and then.

we both are happy with this arrangement.

2007-01-18 02:50:25 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

its been 3 years since i was divorced i dated two different women 6 months after it and been done since i recently graduated bussiness school an dneed help getting started i been striking out for 2-1/2 years not into one night stands and stuff like that i was married 8 years prieor to that

2007-01-18 02:49:56 · 8 answers · asked by michael m 1 in Singles & Dating

My bf & I have been together over a year now. He’s a lot younger than I am & we currently are living together. About two months ago his grandpa passed away, who he was very close too. Ever since there I have seen a lot of changes in him, he even admits he has changed & not for the better. But he isn’t sure its about his grandpa, but I think theres a connection. The timing is too close for there not to be, IMO. He use to care about his looks, now he barely showers (nice I know), he drinks more (3-4 times a week if he can), he says things like “I don’t care anymore about anything, even myself”. Plus he is moody & just with drawn.

But the hardest thing for me is, the fact he is being really different towards me. He says the change has nothing to do with me. But he feels like we should break up, more than we should stay together. And he doesn’t know why. He says something is gone. Yet he still loves me. He says it has nothing to with me, but if that was true..why would he want to leave?

2007-01-18 02:47:50 · 13 answers · asked by nkbapbt 3 in Singles & Dating

how far or what would you be willing to do with a stranger?

2007-01-18 02:47:36 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Not a sicko, just wondering it doesn't make sense

2007-01-18 02:47:12 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-18 02:46:32 · 4 answers · asked by Amber K 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-18 02:46:27 · 15 answers · asked by ksage72 2 in Weddings

I started massage therapy class yesterday and my husband is bothered that I will see other women naked. Is this normal?

2007-01-18 02:46:19 · 13 answers · asked by tina*21 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I am going to a bridal showcase/wedding expo. All the local vendors and things will be there. What can I do to prepare? What do I need to bring? What questions do I need to ask certain vendors? I am getting married in November and have not planned/done anything yet, so I need to talk to lots of vendors at this expo! Any suggestions?? Thanks!

2007-01-18 02:46:03 · 15 answers · asked by Belle 1 in Weddings

2007-01-18 02:45:53 · 9 answers · asked by vijay m 2 in Friends

Ladies, your opinions?

2007-01-18 02:45:40 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-18 02:44:02 · 6 answers · asked by sweetangel17 2 in Singles & Dating

My ex and I broke up over a month ago.last night I had a dream where I found out he was with a new girl and they were having a baby and he kept tellin me he wanted me back @ the end of the dream...I just had a misscarriage for him but he doesn't know coz we haven't spoken since.....do dreams means anything?? Do they try to tell us something?in my case

2007-01-18 02:43:48 · 18 answers · asked by can u ♥ moi? 4 in Singles & Dating

My inlaws to be have ever so generously "helped" my wedding party go from 3 bridesmaides to 5 with 2 juniorbridesmaids. I know i should have told them to back off before it got this bad but now what do i do? Do I put the juniors as juniorbridesmaids or as candlelighters? Can they be both? How does that work? Someone please help me out!

2007-01-18 02:43:15 · 11 answers · asked by Crys L 2 in Weddings

well,here is my story.i have friend overseas i am from the same country and when i was leaving over there i did this:first i used to leave in a small town so my friend and ii went to the nearest big city for dolphin show we bought tickets(after his permission coz i was pregnant at that time) but it was 7 pm and i had to stay in my friends place (it wasnt safe to go alone in taxi over ther i could be killed or smth like this) so i told him and he yelled at me and told if i loved him i wouldnt do it and i would take taxi and go home..i didnt(i think i was rite) then after few days she asked to help with english and i was helping her and because of it i called him 3 hours late...i came here and now fiirst he put limits for me to talk to her (i was allowed to do it only in english the language she doesnt know) and then he made me fight with him bz of her and now he is not alowing me to communicate with her..and she is my best friend like a sister..DOES HE HAVE A RIGHT TO DO IT?

2007-01-18 02:41:27 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

So I like this guy but I don't know if he likes me. How can I tell if he likes me.

2007-01-18 02:41:04 · 4 answers · asked by jbjessbess 2 in Singles & Dating