is there anything wrong is seeing your Ex just for sex and to hang out with now and then?
we were together for 6 years and were best mates.
he doesnt live in my area but he comes up to visit me now and then.
we both are happy with this arrangement.
2007-01-18 02:50:25 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you are happy with the arrangement then go have fun. But be prepared for the day to come when he gets a new girl or you get a new guy.
2007-01-18 02:55:27 · answer #1 · answered by prettyblueeyes101010 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do u have any children together? If so what are u teaching them? No I do not believe this ok. If u don't have any children together what if u do get pregnant will u remarry? Do u even love this man anymore? If not then how would u feel if he still loves u? If u are not in love with this man stop using each other and move on with your lives that is the right thing to do. Or does sex mean more. U can get that anywhere but true love only comes around once in a life time, don't miss out on it.
2007-01-18 03:04:11 · answer #2 · answered by Shery W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't hurt anything unless you are involved with someone else. If you are seeing anyone else or he is not , then you are hurting anyone. I think it is great that the two of you can remain buddies after a relationship of six years. I had someone just like this and I loved the relationship we had. It was strictly for sex and companionship. We had a lot of good times together, this relationship lasted over 15 years, and through it all we are still very good friends, even though we don't sleep together anymore. He is in a relationship and so am I, so we respect that. He is my best friend guy and knows all my terrible little secrets and I know his. I wouldn't trade the world for what I have and always will have with him.
2007-01-18 03:00:35 · answer #3 · answered by jlynncogbill 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are both single and happy about it, and you both understand it is just sex and you don't hold any unrealistic expectations then why not? Just don't expect a "proper" relationship to develop as you may be very disappointed, and also, how will you feel if he meets another girl he wants to date on a permanent basis? Would you be happy at being "binned" a second time around?
2007-01-18 02:54:41 · answer #4 · answered by sparkleythings_4you 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well hunny, if you are both truly happy with this arrangement then that is your decision and no one else should judge you on it.
However, you have to ask yourself what will happen when one of you find someone else?? Will you both be able to let go of this arrangement you have without either of you getting hurt??
Think about it babe!!
Good luck xxx
2007-01-18 03:09:47 · answer #5 · answered by anastacia500 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So long as you're both clear and have no problems with the relationship then I see no problem with the arrangement.
Just make sure one of you doesnt start to fall back into the "couple" routine
xx
2007-01-18 03:08:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you two are fine with seeing each other just for sex, I think that's fine, but I'm not sure if that will make you want to start a new relationship.
If you want to be in love, or want closer relationship with someone else, I think he should have the right to know of your friendship with your ex, if you want to keep on seeing him.
2007-01-18 03:00:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No there is nothing wrong with it unless you are both in relationships with other people then it could cause a problem i did this with a guy i dated for 4 years he was my highschool sweetheart i guess we feel the urge because your just compfortable with that person and its conveinent.
2007-01-18 02:55:21 · answer #8 · answered by hb2008 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you 2 are both happy with the situation and where you stand then no theres not a problem, Enjoy! xx
2007-01-18 03:38:55 · answer #9 · answered by Kimmy xx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're both happy and single I can't see a problem. Not good for your head though, makes you feel still attached.
2007-01-18 02:55:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋