I have had to treat three kids and my home for lice. My boyfriend has not been helpful at all. I am cooking and doing all the regular stuff and when I cried...he became angry with me. Do you think this is right? Why would he do this?
2007-01-18 02:54:00 · 9 answers · asked by just me 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I remember those days..whole house quarantined, kids couldn't come in my house unless I checked there heads!! I was on a mission! As far as men doing what they do and why...I just don't think there are any answers. It boils down to how we manage to react. Being a mother and wife is pretty much a thankless job, except for another Mother or Wife. I have learned, even though my feelings get hurt sometimes, I do what I have to do, and I feel I do my best. So give yourself credit. Expectations lead to resentments. I know it sounds as if I have settled, I do have my boundaries, but after all we are dealing with Men. We can only expect so much. Cheer up! Life is good!!
2007-01-18 03:06:18 · answer #1 · answered by Marti 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is not a good sign. If he does not sympathize with you or understand you, then he is not a good choice. I think it is time to tell him goodbye and find someone who cares.
I have known a number of women who cry really easily. I am a very understanding person and can be supportive, but I do think there is a limit. Two women that I have known cry about everything and I would not have dated either of them.
My wife on the other hand cries when she is over stressed or dealing with her PTSD (Post Traumatic Stress Disorder). I support her 1000% and will always be there for her.
You need to find someone supportive and make sure you do not cry over nothing, but it sounds like you had a good reason to cry.
Take care,
Troy
2007-01-18 05:13:56 · answer #2 · answered by tiuliucci 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because since he wasn't much help, he has no clue about how overwhelmed you are. Apparently he doesn't care much either. He sounds like a real prince! I think most women cry over being stressed and overwhelmed or angry, it is a release...which is why we outlive the men! Payback for not helping us!! Hang in there.
2007-01-18 03:00:48 · answer #3 · answered by Bev 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-15 09:55:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is natural to relieve ur frustration in some way and if this is ur way cry on. at least ure not the type to take it out on ur kids.
if the bf is no use lose him. he is supposed to be an asset rather than a liability.
2007-01-18 02:58:04 · answer #5 · answered by stacy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dear susan, men hate knowing their woman crying for they are most of times the reason of these tears...tired because he didn't help, because u are working hard for the best of the family...some men prefer to ignore their woman feelings so they can feel better about themselves...
2007-01-18 08:00:53 · answer #6 · answered by Julie R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He thinks you are crying for attention
2007-01-18 03:20:37 · answer #7 · answered by Bagpuss 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why...because he is an insensitive jerk...why would you want to be with someone like that....kick him to the curb...you and your kids deserve much better...good luck
2007-01-18 02:58:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I get really tired and stressed-out I masturbate.
2007-01-18 02:57:13 · answer #9 · answered by John R 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋