Some jerk decided to get me in trouble this morning. he called my house and said he is my boyfriend. So my mom comes in my room and she says who is this blake guy?? And i am like huh??/she said oh he is your boyfriend!!!I got so mad because id ont EVEN know a guy named Blake let along...DATE ONE. So I told my mom MOm i dont even have a boyfriend what the heck? And she just gave me a dirty look.I am 14 I am not allowed to date. So I imagine she will be MAD once dinnertime comes. My question is what do i do? she wont believe me if i tell her it isnt true. As i am typing this (i am at school) its a 10 minute break and the librarian is giving me a dirty look for typing so loud. So I am going to end this typing.
2007-01-18 02:54:49 · 24 answers · asked by Haley 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
If she is still mad when you get in the only thing you can do is say. Mum I know the rules I'm 14 and I don't have a boyfriend and I'm not dating, I not going to go against what you have told me to do. I don't know who the guy who rang this morning was but honestly I don't have one. Then just leave it at that there is no point with getting angry or getting into an argument with her because it will just add fuel to the fire. Leave it at that and hopefully she will believe you.
As for the librarian, just smile sweetly at her
2007-01-18 03:12:51 · answer #1 · answered by Baps . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, Relax. Is there some reason your mom doesn't believe you? First think about that. At this stage in your life and your mother realizing you are starting to become a young lady she is scared that you will not make the right decisions. Try to sit and talk to your mom. Have a heart to heart with her. Let her know where you stand with "boys" and the rules that have been set in place for you. Every mother starts out with a great friendship with there daughter and when they become teenagers it drifts apart. Although it does get better and yes your mom will be your best friend through life, it does get rocky. Keep the lines of communication open and everything should be okay. Good luck.
2007-01-18 03:04:49 · answer #2 · answered by hislilnena00 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It appears that your Mother has overreacted to this phone call. Are you the eldest child in your family? Try to remember that if you are the first teen ager in your family, your parents may make some mistakes; it is not easy for parents to always do the right things where their teen aged children are concerned, especially the first one.
Try to be the calm one in this situation. When the timing is right, ask your mother to sit down with you. Calmly tell her that you understand that you are not permitted to date, however, you do go to school with both males and females, and from time to time you may have friends in your life who are boys. Because you talk to boys or even hang out with them in school does not mean you are dating. Tell her that whoever phoned her was trying to cause trouble. Calmly tell her that you do not even know someone named Blake but if you did, you wouldnt be dating him, at least not at 14.
Keep the lines of communication open with your parents; tell them who your friends are and with whom you hang out. You want to be trusted and respected and communicate this to your Mom.
2007-01-18 03:04:13 · answer #3 · answered by Jo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All you can do is what you've already done, tell her the truth. As long as you know that you are being truthful about the situation then you shouldn't let bother you. If she does not believe you and you are being honest with her then that's something she'll have to deal with. Don't let it steal your joy.
2007-01-18 03:22:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sound to me like your mom is jealous of you ,a young girl/woman like you should be able to date not kept under lock and key and your mom is very over protective of you .
your 14 not 8 and 14 year olds should be going out having a laugh dating with precausion(if having sex,use protection)hope this helps as if your mom falls out over you having a boyfriend so be it.
2007-01-18 03:04:28 · answer #5 · answered by gunnermarie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some parents are going to believe their children. Just keep making sure you let her know that you are telling the truth and if she doesn't believe you then she can call some of your friends that you talk to on a daily basis.
2007-01-18 02:59:44 · answer #6 · answered by Britney 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Sorry I did that. I thought it would be funny. See you at school - Blake.
Seriously. Just tell your mother the truth and move on. Tell her that if that person calls again, you mother is allowed to tell him to never call again. That will demonstrate to her that you really don't know or care about this person.
Good luck.
2007-01-18 02:59:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Tell your mom the truth. If she doen't believe you, then she should be a mom that is in your life more. P. s. Don't over react.
2007-01-18 03:10:12 · answer #8 · answered by brookie1977m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just keep telling her the truth. she wont get over it thats how my dad was....it just takes time..i wasnt allowed to date and i did behind his back and ended up gettin pregnant. i was 17 at the time......just tell her ur not and if she dosent believe u then its her fault. good luck!
2007-01-18 03:01:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i cant belive ur mom's not letting u date
that's just not right
tell her that u are old enough nd tht u want some freedom or u are gonna move out
2007-01-18 03:38:38 · answer #10 · answered by emont_1029 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋