well,here is my story.i have friend overseas i am from the same country and when i was leaving over there i did this:first i used to leave in a small town so my friend and ii went to the nearest big city for dolphin show we bought tickets(after his permission coz i was pregnant at that time) but it was 7 pm and i had to stay in my friends place (it wasnt safe to go alone in taxi over ther i could be killed or smth like this) so i told him and he yelled at me and told if i loved him i wouldnt do it and i would take taxi and go home..i didnt(i think i was rite) then after few days she asked to help with english and i was helping her and because of it i called him 3 hours late...i came here and now fiirst he put limits for me to talk to her (i was allowed to do it only in english the language she doesnt know) and then he made me fight with him bz of her and now he is not alowing me to communicate with her..and she is my best friend like a sister..DOES HE HAVE A RIGHT TO DO IT?
2007-01-18 02:41:27 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
NO, that is emotional abuse.
Never let anyone control you.
It sounds like a bad situation. You need to consider leaving because that is not love. Love makes you feel good. Sometimes relationships may have difficult times but they get worked out. A good relationship is not about control, it is about support and love.
Take care of yourself.
2007-01-18 02:50:04 · answer #1 · answered by Dr. Jan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Noone has the right to keep you from seeing or speaking with anyone. You only have God to answer to, don't let him get away with this or he'll start making other demands on you, such as seeing parents, or going shopping, eventually you'll end up asking him for permission to do anything.
2007-01-18 02:49:46 · answer #2 · answered by ann m 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A friend? Sounds like a husband, a bad one. Anyways, you have no committment to the "friend" to only talk to him. So.....
I don't think he is a friend. I believe that he wants to be more. He also lacks trust. He does not trust you with your other friends, speaking english or not. This friend has too many problems. I believe I would lessen my relationship with this "friend". Make him just a somebody you used to know.
2007-01-18 02:53:02 · answer #3 · answered by Miki M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I even tend to disclaim my 'crushing' a hell of lots, yet whilst i exchange into to be trustworthy with myself for as quickly as, i assume i've got been crushing on the comparable new child considering that 6th grade, which makes it 4 years. not something will ever bypass that way between us, yet in spite of. a woman can dream won't be able to she?
2016-10-31 10:41:45 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no. no guy should stop you from doing something that you want to do. he if feeling insecure and doesnt know what you two are talking about. if he really loved you then he would allow you to talk with your best friend!... so no, he doesnt have the right to stop you from talking to your friends.
2007-01-18 02:47:55 · answer #5 · answered by Andrew 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that anyone has the right to tell someone who they can or can't talk to. Everyone has wishes that they want someone else to fallow which is respect, but that is not respect to talk to others like that. no one can demand me to or not to do anything or say anything!
2007-01-18 02:48:00 · answer #6 · answered by motherofthree 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He seems to be very insecure and only has the right to act like that if you let him. He needs to grow up.
2007-01-18 02:51:49 · answer #7 · answered by noneya 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one has the right to tell you what you can or can't do. He sounds like a control freak. I would get rid of him.
2007-01-18 02:54:59 · answer #8 · answered by angie a 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has no right to tell you how to live your life, You have free will and such exercise it.
2007-01-18 02:45:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, he doesn't have.
2007-01-18 02:47:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋