well this is the first time i mistrusted my girlfriend ...... i know its my fault ..... i admitted it to her ... said that i am sorry .....
she said that she wants some time ...... what does that mean ??? is it a indirect "go away" ? should i continue talking to her naomally ???
Plzz Help Me ...........
2007-01-18 03:14:45 · 17 answers · asked by Parjanya Roy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am in eaxactly same position as your g/friend right now.
I have just told my partner I need time out, I have to decide whether I can stay in our reltaionship cause he has mistrusted me because of his past.
Give her the space and time she is asking, let her know you are there when/if she needs and don't hound her with txts/calls/mails showing her you respect her wishes goes along way believe me as I know if my partner doesnt respect me in asking for time out for something he has done then he ain't getting back in my life as he will have learned nothing about trust being a major part of any relationship
2007-01-18 03:25:05 · answer #1 · answered by angelrose0105 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She means she whats time to think about what happened. She may just go her separate way after what happened. Most of the time if it happens once it WILL happen again and she may be aware of that.Just leave her alone and when she is ready she'll come to you, if she still wants to be with you. If she does come back to you YOU need to make sure that you DO NOT treat her like that again.It's also a good thing that you have admitted your fault that is great that you did do that, most men wouldn't. Good luck
2007-01-18 03:28:01 · answer #2 · answered by Super Mom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it sounds like to me she needs sometime alone to think about your relationship but you should just basically do what she has asked you to do but don't totally give up, call & let her know that you made a mistake for mistrusting her if it's meant to be then she see that & so will you don't push it or you will lose her just be patience. I know it's hard but you know you can do trust me it's alot harder if you push & don't listen I've been there I know excalty what you're going thru. Good luck w
2007-01-18 03:23:33 · answer #3 · answered by mssassy0104 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She needs time to consider the implications of what you have done. It is not that she might not want you around but what she is saying is that you shouldn't expect an instant answer or one in a short length of time. Give your friend time and do not say anymore about it to her until she brings it up again. Do not pressure her for any answer either.
2007-01-18 03:19:59 · answer #4 · answered by Lewis P 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That was nice you said I'm sorry. The hardest word to say sometimes because maybe we don't feel we are at fault. But you did good saying sorry. Maybe she is just waiting to see by your actions if you really meant it. Sometimes people say sorry but then do the same thing again and again. So are they really sorry? Maybe that's what she's waiting to find out :O)
2007-01-18 12:36:41 · answer #5 · answered by Jason W 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've gone and done it now buddy...
It's really not a good feeling knowing your partner doesn't trust you. Believe me, I've been there...
From a girls point of view, I'd say give her the time she needs, but stay close by. Because keep in mind, she's vulnurable, and could possibly seek attention and trust elsewhere...
2007-01-18 03:35:35 · answer #6 · answered by *Flutter* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi dear.........
she said she needs sum time then pls give her sum time she dont want to say go away but whatever u behaved she was not able to take that so just give her sum time and let her get back to u
2007-01-18 17:40:46 · answer #7 · answered by pearly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, dear, but you probably blew this one. She probably needs some time to herself to think about how she feels about the whole situation. You should respect her decision and let her come to you.
2007-01-18 03:19:45 · answer #8 · answered by Pea Nis Lover 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes! I think when I girl say she need tell, she is really upset. I think you better call her bring flowers candy, etc. Before its to late go and get your girl.
2007-01-18 03:21:27 · answer #9 · answered by angle2005star 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is probley upset you didn't trust her give her some time maybe a week and see if she calls.
2007-01-18 07:26:45 · answer #10 · answered by jennidixon186 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋