so this guy at my skool asked me out right after his girlfriend supposedly "tried to kill herself", i talked to her and found out that he had lied to police to get a restraining order on her! there is no reason for him to get a r. order on her cuz she is nice and one ofthose ppl who wouldnt hurt anyone!
but anyways back to the topic....he asked me out and when i said no cuz i had a "boyfriend" he started stalking me! then he asked my friend manda out and is still scaring me! he askes me really personal questions and i just met him like a month ago, so far he has asked me if i was a virgin 10 times! hes creeping out everyone at skool, and we are all watching to make sure he doesnt try anything on manda.......what should i do? should i tell her what i think? i mean she is a freshman and i'm a sophmore...and i've had alot of experience with creeps like this but i dont want her to hate me! should i give her my opinion?
Thanks,
Blair
(blessed be)
2007-01-18 03:18:00 · 4 answers · asked by blair 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yep, tell Manda but don't expect her to take it to heart. You need to protect yourself. If your boyfriend does not know tell him. Talk to your parents. Talk to school guidance counselor. My thinking is that you let as many people know your suspicions about this guy. I believe I would also go to the police and tell them what you know about this guy. Letting them know now what you suspect will help them. Especially considering they are always looking for this kind of criminal behavior. If this continues put a restraining order on him. By that point, you will have let enough people know and aware of the problem that getting the order will be no problem.
I am concerned about you. You seem to be more concerned about others and their safety than your own. Take care sweetheart. I hope this helps.
2007-01-18 03:30:40 · answer #1 · answered by Miki M 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell her. Say what he has done, not what you think of him, so she knows the facts and not just your opinion. Then tell her that you feel uncomfortable around him so you won't hang out with her while he's there but that you're still her friend and she can come and talk to you any time.
She deserves to know the truth and she will figure it out before long anyway.
Just be careful that she doesn't think you are jealous though, just be as honest as possible.
2007-01-18 03:26:19 · answer #2 · answered by Velouria 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should tell her if you are a true friend. And then kick this creep in the Ding Ding.
2007-01-18 03:32:50 · answer #3 · answered by cowboybronco01 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
...sure why not.
2007-01-18 03:21:17 · answer #4 · answered by Pea Nis Lover 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋