My friend is 20 years old shes like a second mom to me. Her husband has been cheating on her for a while and I dont know what to do. I feel soo bad and Id do anything to help her out. The girl he was cheating with her has her own husband. But when she gets mad she uses a diffrent exuse to get to her husband. I think maybe he dosnt know what to do. They have a son hes 6mouths and a year. hes very sweet boy. I think that maybe some people can help us out. what should i do?
2007-01-18 03:11:01 · 24 answers · asked by Meagan M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Tell her.Just think of it this way...if he is cheating he could be bringing home a disease to her.It's always tough to tell a friend about this,but wouldn't you want to know if it was happening to you?
2007-01-18 03:16:35 · answer #1 · answered by mizzjerry 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depending on how close you are with her husband you can talk to him. You don't want to break up a happy home. If she starts asking questions then I would maybe tell her but other than that I think you should stay out of it. Some woman think they know there man is cheating and don't say anything because they would rather keep their life the same.
2007-01-18 03:18:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
As far as telling your friend is concerned I think you should but in the right way. If you know your friend well, then more than likely you can just be honest with her and let her know her husband is cheating on her by telling her you don't want to hurt her unduly but there is something she needs to know and then just tell her. But do not forget to tell your friend how you know her husband is cheating on her. Don't just tell her and then let it go because she will wonder how you know this information. Understand?
2007-01-18 03:17:14 · answer #3 · answered by Lewis P 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How much do you really know? Do you have 100% concret proof? If you are going to tell someone something like this you'd be ready to prove it, or they will doubt you and it could be the end of your relationship with her. If you are able, then trick her into finding out herself. If you know where the husband is meeting this girl, then arrange for you and the wife to be there also. Catch him. Otherwise you'd better stay out of it.
2007-01-18 03:22:36 · answer #4 · answered by javelin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should tell your friend before she find it out. If she found out and you will lose her friendship with you. You don't want that, right? Now Try to get her out to somewhere like the park where less people around. Tell her how much you care about her, etc. Then spill the truth out, so try your best to be there for her. IF she doesn't believe you, then you have to let her go and have herself find out the truth, it will work that way. Time is running out and You have to hurry up to tell her the truth, its not right for her to unknown anything about her husband.
2007-01-18 03:20:28 · answer #5 · answered by MissGal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be prepaired for what may happen. If she doesn't believe u then u could loose her as a friend. I would want to be told if it were me. He needs to think about his son. If u never tell her and their son grows up and he is still doing this then he will think it is ok to treat women this way. This is not fair to her or her son. I would still tell her no matter what happens. If she doesn't believe u then when she does find out she has no one to blame but herself. I would have given anything if someone would have told me bout my ex cheating. Our kids knew bout it before me. She could hate him now or someday it could be her and her son hating him.
2007-01-18 03:24:40 · answer #6 · answered by Shery W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they say alot of situations if somebody is accusing you of cheating, then they must be cheating. He ought to purely have a jealousy situation. If he has no reason to think of you're cheating, then he must be jealous of you and he if insecure which you need to. tell him that being jealous or insecure is rather unattractive to you and that's turning you off and that's doing no longer something yet pushing you away and however you may in no way cheat on him, you won't choose to be with him anymore. additionally, if he needs to argue, he needs to try this with you privately and not in front of the youngsters, they must no longer ought to hearken to that drama and lay in mattress at night and be unhappy or circulate to college speaking approximately it to their friends or dread coming dwelling house to a regular argument. you need to have a satisfied dwelling house to your little ones, in spite of if it skill breaking apart the kin.
2016-12-12 14:20:36 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you knew and didn't tell me, I would cut you out of my life. So much for a second mother. People NEED to comment. Then mabe people would think long and hard about such obvious philandering.
2007-01-18 03:18:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I relay hope it is not you , she will need you soon.
Gather proof Tell her husband, what his wife is doing, then give you're friends man an ultimatum, you have 48 hes then i will tell you're wife what you and ??? have been doing> If he tells that saves you, be there for her afterwords, if he doesn't tell you must !!!!
2007-01-18 03:20:12 · answer #9 · answered by danceteacher5555 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell her that he is having an affair and tell her how you know (I would want my friend to tell me). This is not your relationship so you can't do anything else. All you can do is be her friend and just stand by her.
2007-01-18 03:21:36 · answer #10 · answered by judy_74074 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋