2007-01-18 03:14:33 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Get yourself into a good stable job first.
2007-01-18 03:18:54 · answer #1 · answered by yournotalone 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My friend you now this very well that today world is very competitive we have to move fast to meet its requirement. You r fresh n enegetic shows ur question so my opinion is that u first try to get an excellent work otherwise u may loose oppurtunity that will be so good.If u get married now can u complete ur responsibilty of married life without work.how u wear burden of marrige n search for excellent work. can you cope up with that pressure n responsibility THINK BIG . now u r single so u can get job u want n the girl u want later.Think about ur priority n goals now. achieve them n be a complete man for ur future wife.GET MARRIGE AS AN ACHIEVER.
2007-01-21 12:03:13 · answer #2 · answered by vikas s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well... It depends on you and your partner... If you feel you want to have everything you need before tying the knot, then I'd say get a good job first. Otherwise, if you two are happy together now and are both willing to help each other out and be there for each other during tough times, then a good job doesn't really matter. You guys could grow together in that way. Sit your partner down and talk. Figure out how you guys are going to get by, work through it together...
2007-01-18 11:29:05 · answer #3 · answered by *Flutter* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look my dear friend...getting married is not a big deal, but i would like to suggest you that you look for a job which your interest suits you, concentrate in it for two to three years try to manage things and try to get a bank balance by your hard work. There will be a time when you will find yourself suitable in many respects of life ... like more confident, after this you can go for marriage as you already know that the girl you will marry will be dreaming many things and she will demand only to you to fulfill all her desires and dreams, so you should have the caliber to take all these responsibilities. But if you go for marriage first then job then my dear friend... i think you may face some and or lots of problems. See, think positively, would you like to hear rejection for marriage from the girl you may / will be seeing?? No. So, get going my friend... look for a good job and get going with your life, i will pray to Sai Baba to help you....let him bless you and good luck from me too.... and in advance....Congrates for your job and again......... in advance....Congrates for a Happy Married Life......
2007-01-18 11:50:50 · answer #4 · answered by Mr. Stealth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be great to have the opportunty to have the great job first, so that way you will be well on your way to pay for a wedding, and house and the following. But usually for the most of us, we dont get so lucky and the great job doesnt come till much later in life, if it even comes in that matter. So its best to wait till your ready to get married, and if you feel like the right job just isnt in close range than get married. No one wants to be put off a great thing longer than they have to.
2007-01-18 23:46:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course an excellent job comes first. [if you are not planning to make a career out of your marriage]
2007-01-21 23:46:59 · answer #6 · answered by Raj Narayan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's up to you really...have you written down your priorities of what is more important for you to do first. Are you currently employed...are you currently in a meaningful relationship. If you say yes to both then I think you've answer your own question...however if you don't have any of the above or have prospects maybe you can handle them simultaneously...Good Luck!
2007-01-20 06:48:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anything is fine. But if you think you want your future to be smooth and nice. Best is work first and then get married.
2007-01-22 03:31:35 · answer #8 · answered by Mayandi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who would marry you without steady income? First get a good job (or do business) that will fetch you income each month then think of marriage.
2007-01-18 23:48:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you think with your commence sense than you
should get first an excellent job after that you can
married whenever you want to with a girl of your
choice. i wished you all the best and good luck..
.............regards pari.............
2007-01-19 17:51:57 · answer #10 · answered by pari 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋