i really don't know what i should to do! because a guy, who's my best friend's boyfriend.. last night, he told me that he really love me more than his girlfriend.. his girlfriend and him been out for almost 6 months. i know him for long time since i was like 13 years old.. right now i'm 16 years old.. i really love him too but i have a boyfriend. i love my boyfriend so much as i love my bestfriend's boyfriend.. please help me!! i'm glad that you would help me or give me your best advices. thanks to all of you!
2007-01-18 03:14:45 · 18 answers · asked by John Cena's BIGGEST fan 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You say that you love both.But whom do you know more about?I think that should clinch the issue.If you are unsure, wait till you know more about either of them.
2007-01-18 03:27:17 · answer #1 · answered by balaGraju 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave your best friends' boyfriend alone. That is too low. You have your own boyfriend. Boys come and go. You can't be in love with 2 people at the same time. you obviously have not experienced real love yet. So leave him alone. Good luck!
2007-01-18 11:26:32 · answer #2 · answered by angie a 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it is not a good idea to entertain your best friend's boy friend because you will hurt 2 people at the same time your boy friend and your best friend. What you should do is stick to your man and if you too were not having a good chemistry, break it and then, wait til your best friend and her boy friend got separated. I'm just trying to imply here that if you two were meant for each other things then he will be yours without any complications along the way.
2007-01-18 11:32:02 · answer #3 · answered by Janelyn B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't mess with your friends boyfriend. Rule #1. You will lose a friend forever. Just let it play out. Be patient! If it is meant to be, then everything will play out in its own time. I know being patient is hard at your young age, but try.......how can he love you and date another girl and how can you love him and your boyfriend.... Don't jump into the whole "I love you" stuff so quickly! Trust me....that is a lifelong lesson.
2007-01-18 11:22:22 · answer #4 · answered by CPA2B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are a competitive person who feels they have to flirt with every man and if it's your best friend's boyfriend so much the better because it makes you feel superior to her.
I think your best friend's boyfriend decided to take you up on that flirtation to have sex with you and like all boys his age he knows the easiest way to do that is to tell you he loves you.
I think a part of you wants to go ahead and do it so you can feel smug about it, but another part of you knows you will feel like a used rag afterwards and wonder if 5 minutes of fumbling sex is worth losing a friendship or 2 over?
In your age group people really talk about who is a skank and a slut and boys really do kiss and tell everyone because they think it makes them look like stud muffins. (It doesn't but they think it does so they do it.)
So, if you want to lose 1 or 2 friendships, get a rep as a skank or worse, go for it. If not, quit the flirting with him to make yourself feel better and work on making yourself a better person instead of acting like you are in heat all the time.
2007-01-18 11:24:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You BOTH need to make a decision on who you want to be with. If he wants you and you want him then why are you both with someone else? And since he is your best friend's boyfriend is going to cause problems. You have to stop and think if you would want her to do this to you. My advice to you is to forget about this guy and find someone else or wait until he ends it with your best friend then talk to her BEFORE you start anything with this guy and make sure she is ok with you dating him. Good Luck
2007-01-18 11:21:10 · answer #6 · answered by Lace 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys come and go,don't let a guy ruin your friendship with your best friend.you're 16,you'll be in love a whole bunch more before you do find the right one.
2007-01-18 11:20:03 · answer #7 · answered by Linda C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you like him as a friend and let it go. If you act on it, you'll lose your boyfriend and your friend. Believe me, you'll learn as you get older that good friends are harder to find than boyfriends.
Good luck.
2007-01-18 11:19:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to talk to him about his feelings. Then from there you need to decide to stay with your boyfriend or leave him for a possible relationship with this other guy.
2007-01-18 11:19:26 · answer #9 · answered by prettyblueeyes101010 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you shouldn't be crying about it! when u break upwith your boyfriend and your friend breaks up then you go to da man that love ya. think about it, u have 2 guys that are crazy about u! not a bad situation at all!
2007-01-18 11:18:46 · answer #10 · answered by cubbie_bears820 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋