I've been dating my fiance since 03. It has always been an on and off struggle with him to commit. I'd left him a few times, then we lived together, and things were going well. I felt like we were finally going to get engaged.This was August of 2006- he started to become aloof, and indifferent towards me. Then I found out I was 8 weeks pregnant. When I broke the news to him, he totally flipped out, and told me he couldn't think of anything worse than having a child right now. He became more and more cold. I kept thinking that he would warm up to the idea, but he never did. He's 29 make a lot of money, and we'd been together for 3 yrs, so why not get married now?
I moved out of the apt and had an abortion. After a bit we started talking again, he realized the error of his way, and asked me to marry him. I was vulnerable cos of everything that happened- I also had a tumor in my ovary & had to have surgery. And I said yes.
Now Im falling in love with another man, & have no clue what to do
2007-01-18
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