what should I do? she's beautiful an she calls me sweetheart all the time and gives me hugs. i dont know what else she would do if she wasnt with her fiance when she saw me. should i just hope he dies in the army and see about hooking up with her or what?
2007-01-18 05:39:19 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well he's an asshole anyways. she hadnt seen him in years and he f*cked someone the day before he asked her to marry him and i was surprised she said yes cuz she hadn't talked to him in years..
2007-01-18 05:47:19 · update #1
You know if you tell her how you feel, she might find out later on after she thinks about what you said to her, just maybe she will then realize who's been there for her when she's down and she will then begin to realize that she too does have these feelings for you too. But if you never tell her, you will regret it one way or another. It will definitely mess up your friendship if you let her marry him without telling her how you feel first. You'll never know unless you tell her how you feel what might have been. If it was me and I had a great friend that loved me that was better than the man I had, I would want to know asap, before I made the biggest mistake of my life. Please follow your heart, it means well and GOOD LUCK! You might try and tell her about what he has done, but sometimes that backfires and all it does is make her mad at you, judge the mood after you tell her how you truly feel.
2007-01-18 10:29:42 · answer #1 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are three kinds of men: The ones that learn by reading. The few who learn by observation. The rest of them have to pee on the electric fence.
You are selfish. You should be lucky to have her as a friend. She would smack the tar out of you for thinking that of her fiance
2007-01-18 05:49:46 · answer #2 · answered by cowboybronco01 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Strong feelings can make you do stupid things but why would you hope someone dies? How would you feel if someone wished that someone close to you were killed?
That's not healthy; besides- If you ended up with her after that happened, wouldn't you always wonder if she ever stopped loving him- or if she just wanted someone to take his place. KHARMA dude.
2007-01-18 05:46:19 · answer #3 · answered by juicy13500 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u cant be selfish.... just let it happen if it was meant to happen...... just keep acting thesame way u r when ur with her and try to act as a friend to her bc if her fiance is in the army she might need someone to talk to thu difficult times
2007-01-18 05:44:05 · answer #4 · answered by Cat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you shouldn't hope he dies, but you could talk to her about the way you feel.
2007-01-18 05:51:07 · answer #5 · answered by orangeflameninja 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats so fkn rude. That soldier is fighting for your country. I was going to say,,its not too late to let her know but,,she really dont need you in her life.
2007-01-18 05:43:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
***! hope he dies in the army...great idea by the way butthead.
Leave her be she is engaged.
2007-01-18 05:44:46 · answer #7 · answered by rcbricker33 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dude what a horrible thing to say .. She's taken Get over it
2007-01-18 05:41:52 · answer #8 · answered by Mel 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well if she does that stuff..then she obviously likes you aswell..! erm...well if he died it wouldnt be nice for...her...at all so.,..if you were thinking about getting in there..well i would let it cool down first....Dont make a mess of it.....!!!! : )
2007-01-18 05:42:59 · answer #9 · answered by x-Kelly-x 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like she misses her guy--and when he returns she will be with him--or she is not worthy of his love and she is a player--
2007-01-18 05:45:58 · answer #10 · answered by skizzle-d-wizzle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋