Family & Relationships - 18 January 2007

2007-01-18 05:32:21 · 13 answers · asked by Xiaosinsin 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Seriously, girls that dress like guys, talk like guys, think like guys...I can't explainit, but I am one of those really feminine girls and I am that way naturally, I have a petite body with an ample bust for my bodytype, I have a pretty face, (so ppl. tell me), and yet when I with my female friends that dress like guys (baggy jeans, t-shirt) they get more looks than I do. I was looking at single ads out of curiosity in the men and women's section, and this girl had a pic and to me she looked like a hermaphrodite, and she said she liked to dj naked and all this other crap, and I'm thinking, why would any guy want that? Cause she looks like a hermaphrodite or tran. And a guy friend I know said I'm "not his type" (he's not mine either) because I'm not the type of the girl that's "One of the guys". Seriously, what is about these girls that are like this and guys, why do you like them?

2007-01-18 05:31:12 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

DO you think we all should be invited to her baby shower just not her mom and mother in lay ??????

2007-01-18 05:31:12 · 10 answers · asked by michael f 2 in Family

i have known my partner 4 10 yrs and we have been together 4 about a yr. hes ex had at least 4 affairs behind his bk. i really love him but i feel that whatever i do just isnt good enough. sometimes i feel that if i express how i feel about us/her/relationship i get ignored or he sticks up for her as she is the mother of his 2 girls. i just want 2 b happy. surely thats not 2 much 2 ask for. it does irritate me when she rings and is all nicey nicey because sometimes im sure he forgets what she did. i understand they have history as i do with my daughters father. i feeling like giving up and living a life with just me and my daughter. i do love him and want it 2 work but feel like im hitting a brick wall every turn i take. please someone help me. im at my wits end. im sorry 2 go on but dont really have anyone 2 explain how i feel 2. thankyou x

2007-01-18 05:30:00 · 16 answers · asked by trout 2 in Marriage & Divorce

If you are sick, tired, stressed out or whatever condition you are in, it always feels different when your special girl/guy checks on you. Although when your friends ask about you it makes you happy but not to that extent.

2007-01-18 05:29:25 · 5 answers · asked by balbossa 2 in Singles & Dating

two nights ago, i was into a deep sleep, and i couldnt wake myselff up, i knew i was in a dream, and kept telling myself to wake and i would wake up in another dream, i decided to take that dream, and drive my truck and over turn it to kill myself, but i got scared and just made it swirved and i woke up, because i didnt want to die.

2007-01-18 05:29:13 · 21 answers · asked by dream 2 in Singles & Dating

my daughter has this boyfriend and i was fine with them going out before. they met almost 2 years ago and i knew that if i didnt let them go out with eathother, they would see eachother behind my back. things go really bad and even our church got involved and they were not allowed to even be friends. but i was trying to get on my daughters good side(how dumb of me...)and i let them be friends. they were talking non stop and my dauighter has two thousdand minutues on her phone per month and she still goes over the minutes tlaking to him. they started dating again behind my back and i didnt care any more. but he pushed my to my limit. he has to go. i took away her phone and that didint stop her. she has been ditching school to be with him. hes 20 and she 17 so its not even legal. he lies to her all the time, and he kids around with serious stuff that is serious and shouldnt be taken lightly, he inults her, her sister and myself. she is letting herself be a doormat. how do i get rid o him

2007-01-18 05:28:50 · 17 answers · asked by lifewasgoodinthe80s 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have been with same abusive guy since I moved out of my parents house so I've always had someone with me to take care of me. Now I have divorced him but I am still living with him because I am afraid of being alone and living on my own. I want to move on and live my own life and be single and take care of myself and live on my own but I can't seem to get rid of this fear of being alone. How do I get rid of it?

2007-01-18 05:27:45 · 12 answers · asked by Amber26 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Had any experience on this?

2007-01-18 05:27:45 · 9 answers · asked by Think Richly™ 5 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-18 05:26:43 · 15 answers · asked by jails 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband wants me not to drive, he doesn't want to open a bank account so he lets his mother pay our bills. Well we give her that money and she pays them. This summer we where almost divorced but I was in a car accident and about died so I decided to come back and be with him and my son(who is two). I want to go back too college and have my own career but he doesn;t want me to I cannot even go to my families by myself because my car was totaled and I cannot drive his. I just want to be happy. What do I do? Everyone of my friend tell me I am stupied.

2007-01-18 05:26:36 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I find it harder to have an orgasm after I've been drinking, and also less satisfying and less powerful, I am sure guys are the same, what is your experience and why do you think this happens?

2007-01-18 05:26:32 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

He is my brother in law and the only phone number I have for him is on my DEAD cell phone.... its very important that I find him

2007-01-18 05:26:30 · 1 answers · asked by Lost 2 in Friends

I mugged an old man yesterday and managed to get away without anyone spotting. But when I got home, there was only a fiver in his wallet and no credit cards. This is so unfair!

Has anyone had worse luck than this?

2007-01-18 05:26:03 · 17 answers · asked by ? 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok we will be together for 6 years on Valentines day. I am a senior in college and she is a sophmore. Age is not a problem. Lately sinsce October we have been getting into these serious arguements. It all started with me saying something very nasty to her then her telling me she wants to break up. Ok we talk about it and fix it. Now almost everytime i fight with her she says she doesn't know if she likes me anymore and doesn't love me *** much. Then the next day we act like nothing happened. We havent fought since January 4th and i think we are good. I dont want to talk about it with her because she gets anoyyed rehashing on old arguements. Now i am taking it day by day and everything has been good.

I always planned on asking her when i was a senior. Will this tottaly change our relationship and make it feel different or will it just be the same. I am 100% sure i want to marry her.

2007-01-18 05:24:44 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Things are great with a new relationship.

I have one concern. She is still minimally in touch with an ex via email. This an ex that really gave her the shaft and broke her heart 6 months prior. Now all the sudden hes lonely and needs her email companionship out of the blue. She has willingly obliged to this need and has began an email conversation with him.

Im concerned she has not completely moved on from her past, although she is extremely happy with me, she still cares for this guy. She keeps an online journal in which he has access to read, and this email conversation started days after she mentioned how happy she was with me.

I see an odd pattern of events. She wants to be a bleeding heart and be someone he can occasionally talk to (email only i hope!)

Im not concerned that she is unhappy with me, iam however concerned about her motives of being with me.... How can i tell if her motives are about me, or if shes hidding from her past (rebound relationship)

2007-01-18 05:24:15 · 4 answers · asked by denny 1 in Singles & Dating

This is the first time I have completly fallen for someone. I love him unconditionally but there are times when I get so damn frustrated with him. He has an issue with jealousy. He gets his *** up on his back anytime he thinks I'm talking too long or looking at a guy for too long. He gets pissed and quiet and throws himself a damn pitty party. I tell him that I'm not trying to make him mad intentionally and he eventually accepts that and we move on. Yet!.....he can look at a female, I'll catch him, make a joke of it and we move on.

Sometimes I just want to smack the crap out of him. He's come a long way since we met and we're moving in together this summer, but good grief how long does it take a man to trust a woman after they were burned years ago? Or is that not even it. Do most men have this tendancy?

2007-01-18 05:23:51 · 13 answers · asked by jlonva 2 in Marriage & Divorce

We have been dating for 4 years, engaged for 4 months, living togther with 2 cats for 3. Over the past year, I have lost all romantic interest in him. I thought is was him and tried to get him to change (work out and stuff) but I know now it is just how I feel. I am feeling horribly guilty because he has no where to go - no family in the area and he can't afford the apartment we have now. I am also terrified because I am 25 and don't want to be single again. I don't know if I should just try harder to be "into" him or just end it. I am afraid I will regret it because he is a great person and a great catch. I don't know if I have commitment issues or what. I think that if we hadn't moved in together, the relationship would have ended a long time ago. Hopefully this isn't to much rambling but any advice would be great. Thanks!

2007-01-18 05:23:42 · 9 answers · asked by Go Bears! 6 in Singles & Dating

I know that guys will look at someone who is attractive bacause they are people too (can't really avoid them), but when does it get a little too far. When an attractive girl pass by, my boyfriend takes a 2-3 glances, at her is this OKAY?

2007-01-18 05:23:34 · 13 answers · asked by College GurL 1 in Singles & Dating

I appreciate the feeling of betrayal on people psche.I have always admired babyface and the wife.There are no two better suited than both of them.I also know that he loves Tracey deeply.Whatever might have gone awry must only be wipsy.It shouldn't be used to make permanent or irretrieviable decisions.The children also need the sweetness and loveliness of one of the greatest couple to face a deeply devisive and cruel world-the price to pay for love sometimes may be so high, but in the long term, it's a hundred fold worth.I believe nothing is ever final, if we look at heaven's open door.

2007-01-18 05:23:17 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

said she needed to speak to my husband about their son late Monday night and said she'd rather do it in person because she knew he'd be upset. He said no and called her the following day, basically she wanted to tell him that she is taking him to court to up his child support and is also filing a notion for sole custody of their son. My husband ended up hanging up on her after trying to rectify the situation. She said she needs more money because (their son has a medical condition) WIC will be cutting his food off when he turns 5 in December and she will be putting him in school also so he will need clothes and supplies for that. My husband offered to just pay for it all but she refused and replied by saying she will let the court decide. This is big for my husband and our family, we can barely afford the $300 a month we are giving her now (we are 2 months behind right now.) This woman has no job and lives with her parents and my husband barely gets to see his son because she makes it

2007-01-18 05:23:13 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

im trying to figure out if a guy and a girl (teenagers)can just be friends , go out chill ,get high, spend lots of time ,watch movie ..together without having feelings for each other n i know that for the guy there's always that liitle nasty mind but does the girl feel the same way ?

2007-01-18 05:22:27 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Whose idea was it to make men obsessed with sex with anyone at any time, while women only want it with "the right man" at "the right time." Is this more evidence that mankind was created by a sadist?

2007-01-18 05:22:11 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

you let a guy friend know you like him without making things weird between you? i would rather have him as a friend than nothing. how can i find out if he feels something?

2007-01-18 05:21:54 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im torn on this one....

on one hand...it is supposed to at least resemble you a little bit.

on the other hand....it is a frickin cartoon

2007-01-18 05:20:57 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Raised 9 children with one income in the fifties and sixties and noone really went without? He was a foreman at a Concrete Company... You can barely make it alone , at best 10 people--- including Grandma...? how did he do it? He and she are pased away now so I can't ask them.. How the hell did they do it?

2007-01-18 05:20:51 · 19 answers · asked by amylr620 5 in Family

or do you have to pay first?

2007-01-18 05:20:40 · 9 answers · asked by ? 3 in Singles & Dating

That's why I've locked my granny in a cupboard so I dont get tempted to!

2007-01-18 05:20:34 · 14 answers · asked by returnofkarlos 2 in Family

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2007-01-18 05:19:54 · 3 answers · asked by Faby 1 in Friends

2007-01-18 05:19:44 · 14 answers · asked by casady96 3 in Singles & Dating