what do I say to my pregnant girlfriend who suddenly hates me and says we're now going on a "break" from our relationship..She was fine not 2 minutes before she got mad and started acting in that hateful manner.. Is her threat real? or is it something that will just pass over again? If its a real threat what should I say that could convince her to change her mind.. Usually I can figure out what to say but this girl twists words like you wouldnt believe..
2007-01-18 05:32:51 · 7 answers · asked by John Paul Jones 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Just say, SORRY what can I do to change? If your answer comes back as nothing then you have to wait for her next move. Be patient. I know that their is always two sides to the story and your version might not have all the facts in it, so an intelligent response would be difficult, but if you follow the instructions i gave you in the beginning then you will know what to do next.
Good Luck, and if you really love her and her requests for you to change are not just absurd, then do as she asks.
2007-01-18 05:41:11 · answer #1 · answered by dlk426 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you love her no matter what, and that you want her to be your wife. That really means a lot and should bring her back around. She's likely pissed off that she is pregnant and you haven’t made any real commitment to her. Therefore she feels she is really on her own so doesn't need you. I would be pissed at you too. The hormones are really only a small part of this because my wife had four children and she was very stable and happy during pregnancy even more than normal. However, she knew I loved her, your girlfriend isn't very sure and why should she be?
2007-01-18 13:37:09 · answer #2 · answered by mikearion 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its just hormones, but whatever you do, do not say that to her. That will trigger a huge sh*tstorm. Being pregnant makes you feel so crazy sometimes that you just explode on the nearest person. Pregnancy is Hard, most women wont be honest about how hard it actually is, but it's very difficult, both emotionally and physically. Just let her blow her steam, and keep your cool. At the end of this nine month rainbow is an amazing little person that will make the pregnancy struggle worthwhile. Good luck to you, and congrats on the rugrat!
2007-01-18 15:13:13 · answer #3 · answered by brandi91082 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's her hormones and you are going to get alot of this throughout her pregnancy. She will have ups and downs and cry for no reason. Just hang in there and try not to take what she says or does to heart and just let her know your there for her. It will get better as she advances in her pregnancy. Whatever you do, don't leave right now, she needs you more then she is admitting. Good Luck
2007-01-18 13:43:55 · answer #4 · answered by Lace 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pregnant women have hormone in balance which causes mood swings give her space for a little while then talk to her just don't bring up the fight talk about something else
2007-01-18 13:37:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
could be the hormones raging? did she ever lose her cool in the past before pregnancy? if so , get counseling
2007-01-18 13:38:24 · answer #6 · answered by hhhmmmmm?? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Blame it on the hormones, they have her all messed up.
2007-01-18 13:36:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋