virginity?

Question

i know now a days it seems that everyone has lost it, and even class you can look around and pretty much tell who is and who isnt, i know its not right to judge people, because it can be false because i know that when people look at me they think im not but i am, and it kinda hurts, like i feel like i should have because everyone has but i dont want to do it with a random guy and i wanna wait but i just feel theres too much pressure. but how old was everyone when you lost your virginity?

Answer 1

I was 18.Hold on to your virginity young lady,it's a beautiful thing that two people that REALLY LOVE & CARE for each other should share.It is a GREAT PRESENT to give to the MAN of your dreams & not some jerk that is out for another notch on the bedpost.If more people waited there would be less BABIES having BABIES.More power to you young lady & hang in there,your MISTER RIGHT IS OUT THERE waiting FOR YOU.

Answer 2

My Advice to You Is Dont Feel Pressured To Have Sex. Your Only Going To Regret It.I Lost It At Thirteen. Im Fourteen Now. Everyone Thinks Im A Hoe. Im Not. I Felt Pressured. So I Did It.. There Isnt A Moment That I Dont Wish I Would Have Saved It. Please Follow My Advice.. Keep It For As Long As You Can.

Answer 3

Some people say virginity is over-rated but this is a very individual thing. I can tell you this much, sex is just sex if you don't really care or love the person you're with. My opinion is that sex is always good even when it's bad, it's good -- kind of goofy but ... Anyway, I think sex is GREAT when it's with a person that you really, really care about. Don't let other people sway you -- virginity is NOT a disease and in some cases, when you really fall in love, the other person feels so blessed that they were your first -- it makes it just that much sweeter that you gave them something that you never gave anyone else -- ever. And you can only give it once so make it count.

Answer 4

i am the same way as you are. people are surprised to find out i'm a virgin. it feels weird cuz like everyone else isn't anymore and you just feel awkward and stuff and you kinda would be nervous because you dont want to look stupid your first time. well i guess that part is different for guys but still i understand what you are going through. i am 17 right now about to turn 18 in march. i dont want to just f*ck some random person eaither but its just weird to be that way.

Answer 5

I was 16. I was lucky though. It was with a guy that I truly loved and I'm still friends with. Don't worry about the pressure. Do what's right for you, and if that's waiting, then wait. One of my closest friends was 18 and lost hers to a guy she dated for a couple weeks then he cheated on her a week later. She still regrets it. So I know I probably sound like a parent or other adult but wait until you're ready. I'm not saying you have to wait forever. But wait til it means something.

Answer 6

I was 14. I dont regret it but think I should have waited because I really didn't know what I was doing emotionally. (Also if someone would have told me how much it hurts that first time). The reason I dont regret it is because I was in love and me and that person are not together today but still love eachother very much.

Answer 7

You are on target here. You shouldn't just sleep with someone just because you 'think' everyone else is doing it. Be a revolutionist, be different. Sex as an issue has been distorted by the media to a thing that is as common as brushing your teeth, when it should be held as something sacred, between a husband and wife.

Answer 8

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Answer 9

19 and sober-lol. Hell yeah, viva las virgins. Look, I am so happy with not having lost it yet, that I don't mind be a virgin-some guys I know find it sexy...because that goes to show them that you respect yourself. And, when you do lose it to the one guy you like-it will be a beautiful day :) Just live life,and someone will come, when you least expect it.

Answer 10

I was 17, but its different for everyone. My daughters started having sex much younger. When ever you decide to have sex, just make sure you protect yourself. It sounds like you are not easily influenced by others, so you have a better chance of staying a virgin until you meet that special guy . Iam proud of you.