Did you ever think your significant other was maybe cheating and..?

Question

it turned out to be not true? Why did you think they were cheating? Are you a jealous and insecure person?

Answer 1

you should re-examine your relationship seriously ! Jealousy is good, it mean you do care n love your partner, but to live together you need TRUST ! without trust mean insecure n become over jealous n its very bad for the both of you !

try to find quality times together no matter how busy ! Talk to each other openly, sincerely n lovingly ! Tell him/her your feeling without offending, accept the differences between the both of you but mutually agree to works on it whole heartedly for the sake of the relationship !

Love needs trust, give n take [ though give should be more than take ] nurture n understanding from both parties !

All the BEST !

Answer 2

every time my intuition told me when something was wrong, it ended up the reason i was feeling this way was that they were cheating on me. no i was not a jealous insecure woman, but just felt that something was all wrong, that particular day i watched as my husbands truck pulled out of the driveway to go out of town for a job, felt really sad, all day long, felt really bad, like someone who had lost their best friend. a few months later he was gone, wanting a divorce, another woman, so maybe had i listened to my intuition instead of putting it to rest that day maybe i could have done more to prevent it, maybe, maybe not. but still remember the day my intuition was trying to tell me something, trying to warn me of some impending doom just around the corner. thought something was wrong due to his bad treatment of me, do to his having no interest in me at all, as if i weren't even a part of his life anymore.

Answer 3

No, it never even occured to me to entertain this possibility. Even when my ex WAS cheating - I was completely oblivious, and only found out after the fact.