Family & Relationships - 17 January 2007

I went through some mess lately dealing with a man. I don't want him back. I am doing all the things I need to do to take my life to the next level. Working on me, have people trying to talk with me. Have someone that I am interested in, but yet I have this anger in me that seems to be never ending. Everytime I try to let it go, and think I have a way to release it, someone that isn't me, nor him makes it build up even more than before. I know it is just Satan trying to steal my joy, but I don't know how to get rid of this.

2007-01-17 05:02:54 · 12 answers · asked by Mis I 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i am a woman. i think this woman likes mes. iam confusion because she gives me mixed signals. help

2007-01-17 05:02:06 · 9 answers · asked by tedo 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a friend on the internet, he is a year younger than me and has he likes me. The thing is I don't like him like that, I think he is a great friend and nothing more.. We play video games and in the game he drops hints and is really nice and sorta follows me like a lost puppy.
I don't want to hurt him by telling him I don't like him, and I know there is no way that he won't get hurt.. But I would rather tell him that I don't rather than leading him on... How can I tell him , in the nicest way?

2007-01-17 05:00:58 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have two best friends they have been my bff of three years, one of five years. All of the sudden they have ganged up on me and just have started to be totally rude to me. They call me and leave me rude messages... and go behind my back and talk about me... i dont wanna hang out with them anymore....but i cant just ditch them... what can i do?

2007-01-17 05:00:25 · 5 answers · asked by cali girl 2 in Friends

Me and my girl are college students, and I'm not sure where to take her since it's our first date. Any suggestions. Thanks

2007-01-17 05:00:21 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Mine would be that her best friend since high school and I have had a close relationship for many years. We have never and will never have sex but there is a very deep relationship that is more than frindship between us. We are both married and ture to our wife/husband but I know that it would hurt my wife if she knew my ture feelings for her best friend.

2007-01-17 04:59:57 · 13 answers · asked by Brian 5 in Marriage & Divorce

Okay...So I met this guy on new years eve and he just came to virginia ....so like we met and he liked me a lot and ever since then we've been talking on the phone...I have just recently broken up with my ex boyfriend...I didn't not have such a good relationship since he wanted to have a change of heart (a join his christian-hood again) (which i completly understand and I let him go) so like...that same day I called the guy I met on new years eve...we were talking and he asked me to marry him! I said yes and we started making all these plans...The next day he calls me and he asks me to come to Live with him (PuertoRico) I am just so confused because I like himand i've learned that its better to learn to love than to love and get hurt! He wants to kids when he turns 20!And i have plans on going to the army and completing my career! he is coming back in 5 months and I guess we might get married...im only 17 but getting married is a huge thing because we are catholics...what should i do?

2007-01-17 04:59:11 · 14 answers · asked by ChIkaBuEnA 2 in Marriage & Divorce

A friend of mine recently admitted to me that when he was in middle school he would flirt with guys and girls. He said he wasnt sure of what he wanted but now that hes older he only likes girls.
I think hes still bi but doesnt want to admit it. He constantly brings up "fags" and "dikes" in conversation as if hes trying to hide who he really is. I used to think he was straight but he had some "tendencies" that would make me wonder. He makes me uncomfortable sometimes because hes always been really clingy and since he told me about his past I think I can see why. My question is: can a person truely outgrow being bi like he claims or is he just covering up who he really is?

2007-01-17 04:59:02 · 2 answers · asked by cheesewax 2 in Friends

My girlfriend is extremely upset with me. She asked me when exactly did I commit to her. We hooked up in november and she told me she was commited to me from the start. But she also said she wasn't ready for a serious relationship. By her definition, commiting is to pledge oneself totally to another individual. She didn't give me all of her until february(meaning we had sex). I didn't rush her or anything. It just happened. I commited myself totally in march. Did I use her in anyway and am i wrong for waiting that extra month?

2007-01-17 04:58:50 · 11 answers · asked by rzacg 1 in Singles & Dating

I am getting married in June and my aunt is trying to help me but it seems like everything i do she says i should do somthing else or it is stupid well to day i have just had enough she said that everything i wanted to do was wrong im using some fake flowers she said no i didnt get crystl glasses she said its stupid and the song i want to walk down the isle to she said it was too sad but it has meaning to me and my father so i went off and told her it that it was my wedding and that i would do stuff how me and my soon to be husband wanted to. i need to know what to do about her i mean i want her help but when i tell her its my wedding she gets pissed and wont talk to me and was i right for saying what i said!

2007-01-17 04:58:50 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Okay...So I met this guy on new years eve and he just came to virginia ....so like we met and he liked me a lot and ever since then we've been talking on the phone...I have just recently broken up with my ex boyfriend...I didn't not have such a good relationship since he wanted to have a change of heart (a join his christian-hood again) (which i completly understand and I let him go) so like...that same day I called the guy I met on new years eve...we were talking and he asked me to marry him! I said yes and we started making all these plans...The next day he calls me and he asks me to come to Live with him (PuertoRico) I am just so confused because I like himand i've learned that its better to learn to love than to love and get hurt! He wants to kids when he turns 20!And i have plans on going to the army and completing my career! he is coming back in 5 months and I guess we might get married...im only 17 but getting married is a huge thing because we are catholics...what should i do?

2007-01-17 04:58:30 · 30 answers · asked by ChIkaBuEnA 2 in Weddings

I have a 1 month old daughter and i live with my boyfriend and his family. ever since my daughter was born, his mother would take her and just wants all day with her. Shes my daughter and i would like to spend some bonding time with her but his mom would just want her all the time and i cant say no to her all the time. Its just that i feel like my daughter might not get used to me and would want her grandma instead of me. I'm afraid of her wanting her grandma more if she gets older and i wont be able to make her happy because shes so used to being with grandma. Will that happen?

2007-01-17 04:58:29 · 9 answers · asked by simpLy_puRe 1 in Family

I think she is. She is looking deep in her heart to find a place to put me and I dont want her to get hurt. So I am trying to stay away for now so I dont jump into her heart right away. Am I doing the right thing?

2007-01-17 04:58:26 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm getting married on the 25th of May, I'm trying to find a website to order comfortable wedding shoe for me. Any Ideas? I don't want an 3-10 inch high heels. I'm also wear Wide Width Shoes... so that makes it harder and I'm also 5'3. Please!! Give me some ideas!! :) Thanks!

2007-01-17 04:58:14 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

she found a pair or panty in my truck. I told her they where mine so now she going to dress me in the best answer. from my wife let him have it gals we both know the panty was not his dont we. So this will teach him a lesson. Dress him as a ****. make fun of him he going out dress like that.

2007-01-17 04:58:02 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I'm sorry i keep going on about this...i've asked many questions regarding the same topic, but i need more advice. As i said in my other question, i'd love to start speaking to this guy that works in a shop i visit very often who im interested in and maybe ask him out to a coffee. I'm 16 and i've never had a boyfriend before which is why im asking so many questions. The thing is, im really worried about his age. I mean he seems a lovely guy, but i don't want to start talking to him only to find out he's 25 or something!...Many of my sincere friends have said that he doesn't look older than 19, but that's one thing im getting myself worked up over. I don't want him to think "Oh my goodness, a 16 year old is trying to chat me up here!"...I'd appreciate any advice...thankyou! :-)

2007-01-17 04:57:43 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

you know which one I mean

2007-01-17 04:57:21 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have been dating the same wonderful guy for the past 7 years. I really love him and care about him a lot. Last year in March he took me to look at rings. I am 23 and he is 23. I really thought we might get engaged over the holidays but it didn't happen and I am starting to get discouraged and a little sad. I know that we are rather young but he owns his own house, has paid off his truck and seems to be doing okay financially. I am in my last semester of graduate school and I have a good paying part-time job that will easily be full time if I cannot find a job by summer. I have lived with my parents during school and saved a lot of money for the possibility of our marriage (i.e. weddings aren't cheap these days). I have been in four friend's weddings already which is tough for me. And I am really struggling because I love this man but I want a commitment from him so badly. He says he loves me and wants to marry me but I feel actions speak louder than words...what do i do?

2007-01-17 04:57:05 · 7 answers · asked by Kit Kat 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Well my boyfriend and I have been together for 9 months now. I have had sex before him, but everytime we do have sex, it still hurts....why is that? No he isn't HUGE, but he definitely isn't SMALL! And it does feel good too! How is that?

2007-01-17 04:56:44 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

and you wanted to get his attention for a little lovemaking, what would you do?

2007-01-17 04:56:42 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I've been dating this guy for about 5 months he's 22 and Im 26, everything is going well, we seem to have fun and enjoy each others company, however in the beginning we used to go out on a lot of dates, like to the movies, dinner, ball games, etc.....and the past few months we just been hanging out at my house or his house watching tv, movies and having sex.....i dont mind that but Im starting to wonder if its just a sexual thing. Its sort of confusing me bc he's very sincere and caring and loving when we're together and when we're not he's always saying how he misses me, we only see each other during the week and on the weekends he's with his friends and Im with my friends but I'd like to see him more and do more things with him besides hang out in the room all the time. I invite him all the time to do things with my friends and I but he always declines, he hardly invites me to do things with him and his friends, so im starting to wonder what this is all about.

2007-01-17 04:53:48 · 12 answers · asked by Chrystie26 1 in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend is addicted to porn and now wants to see other people.....its been a year and a 1/2...

2007-01-17 04:53:47 · 1 answers · asked by sexy love 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-17 04:53:35 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm 20, and this girl at work gave me her # on christmas eve and we've gone out once. B4 that I had never asked a girl out (even though I wanted to several times), and from august to december would have bad episodes of depression from being lonely without friends, and convinced that I would grow old and die alone. Then I got this girl's # and felt good for a few weeks, last weekend I somehow convinced myself she didn't like me (I don't even know how the hell...) and was practically crying mentally beating myself up. Now last night she said she would call me back and didn't so I left her a message saying I'd call tomorrow. Now I'm doubting myself all over again. I've almost predetermined in my head that this will not work out, that I will be lonely once more, and that I will in fact die alone...

What in God's name is wrong with me?

2007-01-17 04:53:31 · 1 answers · asked by Wocka wocka 6 in Singles & Dating

I'm the maid of honor. Do I have to pay for the party myself since I'm planning it? or should she be paying for it?

2007-01-17 04:53:09 · 12 answers · asked by pooh45764 2 in Weddings

I've been dating this girl for about 3 months now and everything is going great. I currently go to college in the city we live in. This semester she is going back to college for her degree. We are in our early twenties. I love her son more then I think his actual father does. His dad always gives the son false hopes and is a jerk to my gf/the mom. Her 2 year old son the other day said that his mom loves me, i love her, and that we love him. He asks about me when i'm not around is always excited to see him. I get excited seeing her and him. He's never a burden and I like spending time with both of them. But my question is do I act like a father figure or just a friend to her 2 year old. Honestly I wouldn't mind being his father, I care about him as if he were mine. The mom/my gf is just amazing and we have fun together. Am I just his friend or a temp dad?

2007-01-17 04:52:37 · 70 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Where is the best place to get it from ill be travelling all around world is there one country with better deal than the rest so i can buy it there? any particular plces anyone can advise me to go?? Please help me buying it between now and mid year depending on what country i buy it from. Bec

2007-01-17 04:52:36 · 7 answers · asked by becstar 1 in Weddings

Why am I so confused about my thoughts. I like spending time with my boyfriend, I like being affectionate with him, I like going out for quite dinners just the 2 of us. I like doing nice things for him but for some reason the "falling out of love" thought stays in my head constantly and I cant get it out so I analyze my feelings from a to z. From the minute he walks in the door to the next morning when we wake up. We have been dating for 5 months and a month ago this all happened FOR NO REASON. Everything has stayed the same and we are still both the same ppl. The 1st 5 mths were GREAT and then I woke up (honestly overnight) and I Was questioning my feelings. I want to be in love with him again SO bad. I dont ever want to be with anyone else again. This is the 1st drama free relationship I have been in and he is a great person for me.

Do you think I still love him?

He is the only one that can comfort me throughout all this. He looks at me and everything seems better!

2007-01-17 04:52:30 · 6 answers · asked by dawson190154 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I think women need to understand that if a man really likes you commitment happens all by itself, naturally.

2007-01-17 04:51:51 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

It really concerns me that she is too skinny..... She is 7.5 stone or 101 Lbs....She is 5'4'' and a Half......

Am I wrong to worry about this.... and what can I do to encourage her to eat a little bit more.....I dont want to turn her into a bloater.....

2007-01-17 04:51:43 · 25 answers · asked by Fox Hunter 4 in Singles & Dating