Family & Relationships - 17 January 2007

Okay...I do not know if I should come right out and tell my friend of 10 years that I do not respect her.
But honestly it's hard for me to be around her anymore, because she is lazy and like to stir chaos.

I guess my biggest issue it that she is getting Social Security disabliity check, even though she hardly worked a day in her life. She got it because she is "Depressed" and well she sued to get the check because at first she was denined..
Yet she goes out with men the time she meets online all of the time, and she goes clubbing.
She is in my opinion taking money from people who really need it, because she does not want to work.

How can I hang hang around someone who I know longer respect?

2007-01-17 04:36:05 · 15 answers · asked by Michelle 1 in Friends

I have been trying real hard every day this year to look good, always wear makeup, and I am trying to look appealing. I try to be social and I hate being single. But no matter how hard I try I haven't had plans to do anything with my peers all year!!!! Now I don't even have a date for prom. I feel like I am trying extremely hard for absolutely nothing. So why even try.

2007-01-17 04:35:23 · 5 answers · asked by cna_angel06 2 in Friends

Last week when opening a new account at a bank, I was asked it I wanted to reopen the old account. To my surprise, He had open it with my SS, my name, his name as a second, and our old address. I had no idea! Now I don't have a doubt in my mind the man has been stashing it for years as I was warned by family and friends. He has a PHD and works for a prestige, and well known company.

2007-01-17 04:33:48 · 20 answers · asked by olrm50158 1 in Marriage & Divorce

how do i get my bf to keep his mouth shut about what we've done behind closed doors...i dont think its anybodys business...ideas?

2007-01-17 04:33:38 · 31 answers · asked by XxForever&EverxX 3 in Singles & Dating

Well , the juniors are throwing us a farewell party in a forthnight.. We know the end of our school life is coming , its highly depressing..I need to know how to cheer up my friends , who've been with me from day 1 of the school..some of them might even be crying at that time..Coz theres hardly anytime in the party and theres everyone else to cheer up ,so no time for give those boring lectures..So i thougt , doing something weird would help..like say acting as if your drunk or like you've been possessed by a chimpanzee..I guess that can help but if it doesnt work , i would end up embarassing myself.. and no , not a speech..

Theres too little time left to waste that time , i dont want to see my friends being sad or even crying , i wanna stop that from happening..give me ideas if you've got any.

2007-01-17 04:32:23 · 1 answers · asked by yash 1 in Friends

2007-01-17 04:32:19 · 6 answers · asked by Angel 1 in Singles & Dating

but he is 24 :( and my mother has forbidden me to see him (i am 17) he has been a family friend for quite a while.


we ended up kissing once and my mom freaked

but...im am absolutley in love with him ...since i have met him!

i just dont know what to do my self :'(

Additional Details

17 hours ago
he has told his friends and me he adores me too...i know he feels the same way.

He told me he had a connection when i first met him and i was so shoked bc i had felt the same way.


this isnt infatuation. i've had boyfirends and liked many boys and this felling is unlike anything else.

he respects me and his intensions are also respectable.

2007-01-17 04:31:56 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok I really don’t know how to go about this so I guess a little back story would help. I am about to marry the love of my live she has a child about a year old. The child is wonderful and I am looking forward to being the dad that she has never had. But now that I have stepped in to the picture the biological father wants to have visitation rights un supervised. I think he is jealous but I don’t know for sure. The point I am getting at it he has never changed a diaper a day in his life nor has he ever so much has spent a whole day with just him and thief child. I am not comfortable letting him take her because he has know idea on how to handle a baby. I don’t want to just not let him see her at all that wouldn’t be right but I really don’t feel comfortable just letting him take her. And before you ask yes I have talked this over with my future wife she feels the same way I do but at the moment we really don’t know what to do. I knew him a long time he is not reasponsible

2007-01-17 04:31:55 · 12 answers · asked by Justin 1 in Marriage & Divorce

while i was hiding behind my car, i saw her getting all frisky with a guy. Behind my car i saw some rust on the bumper...
question is, should i fiber glass it or replace it?

2007-01-17 04:31:39 · 49 answers · asked by MICHAEL G 2 in Singles & Dating

The new girl my ex is seeing weighs like 220 is butt ugly and bipolar. Holy sh*t I can't stop laughing, isn't that beautiful ?

2007-01-17 04:31:30 · 5 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

Is it right to be married and take care of your sister-in-law and kids? My husband's brother ran off and left his wife and kids for another women. And now my husband has taken up the duty of paying all of the bills. And it's hurting us I work and so does he I feel she should too. But she does not...Help.......

2007-01-17 04:30:55 · 6 answers · asked by dawn48184 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-17 04:30:43 · 24 answers · asked by MICKEY M 3 in Singles & Dating

He's in a long distance relationship that has been going for two years. He's 19, and she just turned 16 recently. It's the first relationship for both of them and I'm worried they're never going to realize there's way more people in the world, I think they're gonna end up getting married once she's 18. She's got a pretty annoying personality and she's pretty average looking. All my friends agree he shouldn't be seeing her. Now he's also trying to talk her into having sex with him. What should we do to help him?

2007-01-17 04:28:05 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

trying to convince a friend of mine she can survive away from her parents on her own.

2007-01-17 04:27:55 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My brother and his girlfriend are about to split up after having lived together for 3 years, they have a 2 year old daughter and the girlfriend is telling my brother that he has to leave but doesn't get to take anything, they have two cars and she told him he had to buy one if he wanted it. (even though he makes the payments) what is he legally allowed to do. He has asked me to search for help. Shouldn't things be split 50-50 except for what was yours in the first place.

2007-01-17 04:26:58 · 7 answers · asked by Heather J 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i was listening to the radio earlier and they asked this question and about half were for and half were against so feel free to state your case lol =). do you think it's say "we will eventually get divorced" or "it's for the best interest of both of us." personally i'm for them but that's probably because i've been through my parents ugly divorce.

2007-01-17 04:26:46 · 40 answers · asked by Kismet 7 in Marriage & Divorce

I recently been divorced, and had been dating a girl through out the separation. My ex wife and my girlfriend were friends before are separation. Now that I'm divorced she wants to be friends with my girlfriend. And they are both OK with this. But I'm not. My ex tells my girlfriend every negative thing about me always trying to make me look bad. It is causes problems in my new relationship. My ex and i also have 2 kids together. The things she is saying, is making me dislike my ex more. In return making me want to cause her problems and not wanting to work with her at all. I asked her kindly if she can stay out of my personal life and my relationship and she should respect my personal life as i would do the same for her. I also talked to my girlfriend telling her i don't like them hang around each other. It seems like my ex is out to ruin mine and my kids happiness with my new girlfriend. Is there anything i can do? or any legal stand point to keep my ex out my relationship?

2007-01-17 04:25:59 · 23 answers · asked by David_719 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Would you rather your spouse/fiance/husband/wife... buy you someting or do something very special for your birthday?

2007-01-17 04:25:33 · 13 answers · asked by beautiful 2 in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend had an affair on me with another woman that works at a local mental hospital. How do I properly comfort her and the other woman about it? Should I still be friends with my girlfriend or just end it?

2007-01-17 04:25:27 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-01-17 04:25:06 · 12 answers · asked by ricacosita_76 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-17 04:25:01 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I know someone and she is getting married. She has no friends to be the bridesmaids...only her mother...no siblings. Her groom has two friends. The do not have any more friends to invite to the wedding. They will probably elope...have you ever known anyone like this?

2007-01-17 04:24:31 · 16 answers · asked by jrhod263 3 in Weddings

I want a BIGGER butt - what do I have to do?

2007-01-17 04:23:21 · 4 answers · asked by T.I.M.E. 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a friend who is charming and thought liked me and thought was my secret pal. I have known him seven months and found out over time he has a track record with women and been married four times within the last 10 years. He also has let his temper get him into trouble with women... He does not seem to know what he wants to do but plays women along which is wrong. Would a guy with his record with women drive him to be manipulative, condescending, lying, etc. to take things out on others? I just have a hard time with him now because of these things.

2007-01-17 04:23:01 · 2 answers · asked by Sweet Pea 3 in Singles & Dating

and then put them back on the sale rack?

2007-01-17 04:22:31 · 16 answers · asked by Dick Richards 3 in Singles & Dating

ive known a girl for about 5 years and i think shes just messing with me ut how do i make her like me ?

2007-01-17 04:22:27 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Should I call her again?

I met a girl Friday night, she gave me her phone number...I told her I would call during the week, and she said I better.
On Saturday she texted me saying it was great to meet me.
I call her on Monday, and get no answer, I left a message.
She has not tryed to call me back.

1. Should I try one more time on Thursday before I write her off?
2. Why no return call after she gives all the signs of being interested?

2007-01-17 04:22:03 · 19 answers · asked by Tunasandwich 4 in Singles & Dating

I need womens comment on this one. I just saw an ex's profile and it says married and he has a picture there with an asian girl on i guess their wedding day. she was all smiles and had flowers in her hand and stuff and they look really happy and i was just like "WTF i dated you!!! Youre supposed to be miserable and youre supposed to be in love ith me forever!" I know i dont love him anymore. I have a bf now and we are really in love with each other but the other night that ex just popped in my headand thought id check his yahoo profile and BAMM!!!! it says married!
Me and him just broke up like 4 and a half months ago.

2007-01-17 04:21:56 · 7 answers · asked by carla 1 in Singles & Dating

I think I would like to go on a date with Charlotte Casiraghi, daughter of Princess of Monaco...I think she would be someone interesting to meet, plus, shes absolutely gorgeous! =)

2007-01-17 04:21:26 · 31 answers · asked by alvarito8 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-17 04:20:50 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating