I need womens comment on this one. I just saw an ex's profile and it says married and he has a picture there with an asian girl on i guess their wedding day. she was all smiles and had flowers in her hand and stuff and they look really happy and i was just like "WTF i dated you!!! Youre supposed to be miserable and youre supposed to be in love ith me forever!" I know i dont love him anymore. I have a bf now and we are really in love with each other but the other night that ex just popped in my headand thought id check his yahoo profile and BAMM!!!! it says married!
Me and him just broke up like 4 and a half months ago.
2007-01-17 04:21:56 · 7 answers · asked by carla 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It sounds like you really do still have feelings for your ex or it wouldn't matter to you. You are really in denial if you think that an ex is supposed to be depressed and in love with you for years and years after you leave.....get over yourself!!! Maybe he loves her more and they connect better than you two did....you're not gonna die...pick your lip up.
2007-01-17 04:29:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't worry about the ex. If you have a bf and you are truely happy with him, then let it go. I thought the same way too, that they are supposed to be miserable and lonely and waste away loving me forever. In the real world, it doesn't work like that. It only works with someone who truely wants it to work. If you just broke up 4 months ago, then I don't think he truely loved you, and was seeing this girl on the side. But remember, you can't believe everything you see or read. Hope you find that person who will make you happy the rest of your life. I still haven't.
2007-01-17 04:28:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Haha my ex's website said he was in a relationship. It's been a long time since we dated. We're still friends now. And I have a boyfriend of almost a year. When I saw he was in a relationship, the first thing that came to my head was, "Oh...... nooo. You're supposed to be miserable because you don't have me anymore." I know.... MEAN, huh?! LOL! I look back and think it's funny now. But I think it's normal to want your ex miserable and regretful that they're not with you anymore. :P
2007-01-17 04:28:39 · answer #3 · answered by ( Kelly ) 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
let this go. you are with someone new as well, he just moved on faster than you and actually got married, (which by the way is a really dumb move to get married with in a four month period) just be glad you are no longer with this guy because he seems to move too fast with his emotions and that could have hurt you very bad one day.
2007-01-17 04:30:52 · answer #4 · answered by play hard 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The jealousy is normal. Just forget about him. You guys broke up for a reason, you can't expect him to just be miserable for the rest of his life, just like he couldn't expect the same of you. You'll get over it with time.
2007-01-17 04:30:44 · answer #5 · answered by funnygrrl19 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel your pain, the thing to realize is they are married now, but may not stay happily-ever-after. Sometimes they do get happy after us, but sometimes it doesn't last. You are happier now, so try to take comfort in that.
2007-01-17 04:41:50 · answer #6 · answered by Julie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks like you weren't the only one.()
2007-01-17 04:25:50 · answer #7 · answered by Saint 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋