how do i get my bf to keep his mouth shut about what we've done behind closed doors...i dont think its anybodys business...ideas?
2007-01-17 04:33:38 · 31 answers · asked by XxForever&EverxX 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ask him are you shore that you want your boys to know that I DO THAT.
2007-01-17 04:38:19 · answer #1 · answered by delmonticoman 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
communication is the key. You have to tell him how you feel about it when he talks to his friends about what you do behind closed doors. Or maybe you can take it as a compliment. Either way you have to talk to him about your feelings and if that does not work you can tell him that you will not be intimate with him anymore so that he will no longer have anything to talk about, if that is what it is going to take to shut his mouth. He will surely get the picture then.
2007-01-17 12:42:22 · answer #2 · answered by wyllow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's talking about what you guys do in private he's probably pretty immature. You've probably already discussed this with him more than once if you are bringing it up here...
There are numerous things you could do to get your point across:
Turnabout - talk about it yourself to friends and family, especially stuff that would embarrass him, then enlist them as co-conspiritors have have them 'slip' the info back to him...
Holdout - don't let him have any for as long as it takes for him to learn to keep his mouth shut...
Walkout - a guy who can't make judgements about this is probably to immature for a relationship anyway...
You get the idea.
Or, I like this even better. Tell him you're tired of him talking about what you guys do in bed, and that you are no longer going to do anything you think is not appropriate for other people to hear about...and then make your judgements about what those things are...but don't listen to me, I haven't had any coffee yet...
2007-01-17 12:42:51 · answer #3 · answered by heart o' gold 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had the very same problem and I just did not do anything else behind closed (or open) doors and when she asked what the problem was, I simply said that since she was not able to keep our private life private, I would not have one with her. We soon broke up, but she is not out telling people bedroom stories about us any longer...
2007-01-17 12:38:39 · answer #4 · answered by Suthern R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ah, maybe he's just proud of it. Take it as a compliment. But if it really does bother you then tell him how important it is that it stay something personal between the two of you. Secrets are hotter than knowing every little detail of everything.
2007-01-17 12:43:39 · answer #5 · answered by Snow 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's your problem for letting that happen. If you can't trust him enough to shut up, you probably shouldn't have "done anything behind closed doors with him"
2007-01-17 12:36:25 · answer #6 · answered by Business Owner 1 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Talk to him frankly that you dont like what he did.He's not a man of that mode.Or might he is ignorant what he experienced behind closed door? tell him be secretive!
2007-01-17 12:40:45 · answer #7 · answered by speedmaztyr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He does it because it turns him on....
I hate when I stop getting it because I've been bad.... as soon as I find out what I did, I change my attitude really quick.
The secret is as soon as he knows he did something wrong, TELL HIM WHAT IT IS.....if you continue without letting him know this will just cause a huge argument and he'll never get it...
2007-01-17 13:40:50 · answer #8 · answered by truth 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that what happens in the bedroom, stays in the bedroom. And, just as you don't want pictures of your naked body to be made public, you don't want details of your naked time to be made public either. Ask him to respect your wishes on this... and if he can't, cut him off so he has nothing to talk about!
2007-01-17 12:38:29 · answer #9 · answered by teresathegreat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him if he cant keep his mouth shut , you will keep other things shut !
2007-01-17 12:38:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hes a guy men always swap stories with their other male friends about what they have done in private with their significant other. Its called EGO. So honestly there is nothing you can do but to tell him that you would like him not to blab to other people about what you two to do.
2007-01-17 12:37:14 · answer #11 · answered by . 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋