Is it right to be married and take care of your sister-in-law and kids? My husband's brother ran off and left his wife and kids for another women. And now my husband has taken up the duty of paying all of the bills. And it's hurting us I work and so does he I feel she should too. But she does not...Help.......
2007-01-17 04:30:55 · 6 answers · asked by dawn48184 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Muslims are allowed to have 4-7 wives legally depending on the local law and 7 under Islamic rights. The condition is that all women must be treated the same and all must be muslims.
Is he accepting her as wife? You need to approve that move as well. If he is just helping , why shouldn't she help herself. Even God doesn't help those who don't help themselves!!!
Find the real problem here!!!
If nothing else could be done, and I won't leave him, I would 'conveniently' become unemployed!!!
2007-01-17 04:37:03 · answer #1 · answered by stacy 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You Muslim Husband now has two wife's. If he pays her bills he can have sex with her too. Since you are also married to this Muslim, it is acceptable for you to have a threesome with him and is new wife. You have to draw to line at having sex with a camel. That goes for him or you with the camel.
2007-01-17 04:54:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is a very kind of U to help your desperate sister in law. At this point of time , she need your help to keep the life of the family to go on. Without your help, her children might live in hunger and she might turn to anything to earn some income to feed the growing children She might retort to stealing, extortion, corruption, prostitution or anything that give her some in-come. Do U want such thing to happen to your very own sister in law? Think about it.
2007-01-17 04:50:11 · answer #3 · answered by atbt 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Nothing Muslim about it. She is a lazy moocher. Put her to work or put her out.
2007-01-17 04:56:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Isn't this wonderful... seems like you married into an interesting culture.
2007-01-17 04:37:54 · answer #5 · answered by JRSK007 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Its good if he is doing it on humanitarian grounds.
2007-01-17 04:51:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋