I've been dating this guy for about 5 months he's 22 and Im 26, everything is going well, we seem to have fun and enjoy each others company, however in the beginning we used to go out on a lot of dates, like to the movies, dinner, ball games, etc.....and the past few months we just been hanging out at my house or his house watching tv, movies and having sex.....i dont mind that but Im starting to wonder if its just a sexual thing. Its sort of confusing me bc he's very sincere and caring and loving when we're together and when we're not he's always saying how he misses me, we only see each other during the week and on the weekends he's with his friends and Im with my friends but I'd like to see him more and do more things with him besides hang out in the room all the time. I invite him all the time to do things with my friends and I but he always declines, he hardly invites me to do things with him and his friends, so im starting to wonder what this is all about.
2007-01-17 04:53:48 · 12 answers · asked by Chrystie26 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This will end soon when he is done with his dick ... love is life ... making life together not just making love.... u know it and feel it : SEXUAL relation ... end it now and find the man of ur dreams..big hug ..sorry take me as a sister
2007-01-17 05:04:45 · answer #1 · answered by ReDWiNe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In April I got my period a day or two late. It was very light. It only lasted one day and then stopped. I thought nothing of it. Because my husband and I have been trying for over a year now. So we just thought we didnt work. lol This Month, I was late about a week. I still thought nothing of it. But asked my sister in law for the extra pregnancy test she had. I waited till the next morning. Which felt like years of waiting. And took the test as soon as I woke up. I waited 5 minutes. I got a dark line and a very faint line. I came here to see what that meant since i didnt have directions. It said pregnant! I went to the doctor to see if this was true. And we are 9 weeks along now. I have very sore breasts, nausea, BAD Fatigue, And my husband has to drive because I forget where Im at and zone out. Even if your on the pill no matter for how little or how long. You really could be pregnant, I suggest you go to a different doctor who will test you sooner.
2016-05-24 00:23:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's 'just for sex' and that you'd be better off 'dumping him' (but do it 'politely' for your own reputation) and looking around for a 'new and BETTER guy' ... my husband and I didn't really EVER 'go on a date' before we got engaged, but we did things both 'at home' and we also 'went out together' to do things too ... and we didn't have SEX until my husband KNEW I was the 'only woman he'd ever be with' ... but I didn't know until we'd 'done it' and had to laugh because I thought we were just best friends and I was 'jealous' of that other woman who would take him 'away' from our friendship. We've been married for ten years now, and we're still both BEST FRIENDS and LOVERS, even though we both have 'medical issues' that make sex impossible. Try just BEING A FRIEND FIRST ... it definitely WORKS!
2007-01-17 05:02:16 · answer #3 · answered by Kris L 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know exactly what you mean. my bf and I have been together for 9 months, and we don't go out like we used to, we just sit in the house and watch tv. But you know what....that's actually a good thing because you know he's not going out too much and messing around on you. You have to let him know that you're tired of sitting in the house and you want to get out. Keep bugging him about it and eventually he'll step back in to it. That's how I got mine. The thing is that when it's your time, then it's your time, and when it's time for his friends, that's what it is. He doesn't want to hang with you and the friends. That's his personal time. Don't worry. It's okay.
2007-01-17 05:02:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I am afraid that you have allowed it to turn into a sexual relationship. You should sit down and be honest about how you feel regarding him now ever wanting to go out with you and mutual friends. If all it is for him now is a sexual relationship, then find yourself someone who will want you for more than that.
You can also suggest activities for you to do together. Why don't you plan a night out for both of you.
2007-01-17 05:00:06 · answer #5 · answered by fancyface1 l 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make plans of an evenign and take HIM out. Are you talking bout committment and the desires you both have for "life's important questions?' Do you discuss religion? Family life? Your views on abortion? Views on war and peace? the tax laws? the educational system of your area?
If not, it is allllll about sex! Trust me. You need to have conversations about LIFE and LOVE and FAMILY to find the guy who wants to be yours forever and be with you even on the weekends. But them maybe you are not looking for a spouse. . .?
2007-01-17 05:01:21 · answer #6 · answered by thisbrit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well really......The chap is getting all that any man would ever want from a woman without the hassles.So why carry baggage?
2007-01-17 05:16:58 · answer #7 · answered by Bala I 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its just sex and he has found someone else to share his weekends with. Its another woman. Save yourself the humility, hurt and emabarrassment and let him go.
2007-01-17 04:59:36 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have become a convenience to him, not a girlfriend. If he really cared about you, he would want to spend more time with you, and not his friends.
2007-01-17 05:03:10 · answer #9 · answered by dkiller88 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont let him turn you to a sex machine, leave him for a while and let him miss you a little.
2007-01-17 05:05:59 · answer #10 · answered by oluwatobi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋