I have two best friends they have been my bff of three years, one of five years. All of the sudden they have ganged up on me and just have started to be totally rude to me. They call me and leave me rude messages... and go behind my back and talk about me... i dont wanna hang out with them anymore....but i cant just ditch them... what can i do?
2007-01-17 05:00:25 · 5 answers · asked by cali girl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
i think that you should talk to them and tell them how you feel and personal i don't think that you should be friend with you if they are talking bad behind there back i dint think that that is right so i think that you should just let them go and find yourself real friend that will treat you with respect and friend that are mature and that grew up already
2007-01-17 05:29:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to them about it. Ask them why? Or if you have done antyhign to hurt them. If they don't forgive you then they are just kjelous. Just ignore them and act like you don't care. They will either realize that they are being stupid and really miss you as being their best friend or they will jut think its stupid and still be mad and rude to you. Either way you will still make a new friend sometime. good luckâ¥
2007-01-17 13:06:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would ditch them.They talk about you behind your back they don't sound like very great friend to me at all.Gust worrier what in the book then making Friends for wright know.They might come to there mined of what they did to you.
2007-01-17 14:47:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
change your number to an unlisted number (and don't leave the forwarding message that gives the new number). do your best to distance yourself as much as possible. if they know your email address...change it. if they know yoru address...move (or when ever your lease is up depending on if you live in an apartment). you are going to have to find a way to ditch them. because you don't want to ditch them...you are giving them way too much power to continue to treat you like dirt. make a choice...either ditch them and live a happy life or continue to take this treatment. but don't let them see you sweat and don't let them see you unhappy. cause that is just what they want. to make you miserable. you need to make a decision. i would ditch anyone that treated me like dirt. it would not be worth my time or effort. and it's not worth yours.
2007-01-17 13:08:23 · answer #4 · answered by cfalways 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only way to get rid of problems is to talk, and everybody who are involved have to. Maybe you have to go out more together, if you want to have a strong conection. If you do it often, you will maybe beome more as one.
2007-01-17 13:52:14 · answer #5 · answered by x•°meadow°•-|- 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋