Family & Relationships - 17 January 2007

...since that cute, little thumbs down button has gone,
they are processing ( those deletion requests) faster and deleting those poor questions, in no time grrrrrrrrr!


i got 2 violation notices within 8 minutes( apart from my poor questions and 20 points wiped off grrrrrrrrrrrr)


i think this question is going to meet the same fate?

lol

2007-01-17 05:39:41 · 10 answers · asked by shhhh 1 in Singles & Dating

when girls look at u when u look back teay look somewhere else fast. bsaeuc this girl at chruch stares at me when i look back she looks somewhere else fast?

2007-01-17 05:39:33 · 6 answers · asked by zaheer a 2 in Singles & Dating

Hi, I got a crush on a girl, and the next few days would be her birthday, I want to get a gift that resemble or saying something like "I want to be more than just a friend to you". The situation: she just got a boyfriend, so I don't want to ruin her relationship or anything, I just wanted to tell her that as long that I can be more than a friend to her.. And I don't want to let her know that i got a crush on her. Hoping for a good reply thx.

2007-01-17 05:38:43 · 3 answers · asked by Wilson J 2 in Singles & Dating

She called today while I was at work, & I said, "Hi, What's up?" She replied, "Hello, mother. How are you today?" as if that's what I SHOULD have said instead of "What's up?" I apologized for not calling over the weekend & said I'd been busy. Then she sounded annoyed at that. She was abused as a kid & never had a good relationship with her own mom for that reason. As a result, she turned into a mother that's also emotionally abusive on one hand but smothering on the other. I can't handle it! I feel HORRIBLE for her that she never got love from her mom (who never sent a birthday card & rarely called) & now my mom must feel "abandoned" by me too, but I don't know how to even really be around her. I never really dealt with the issues I have with her. I tried talking to her but all she says is, "I know I've been a good mother." She doesn't want to acknowledge our emotional issues & thinks mothering is only about providing clothes, food, etc. It is but there's more to it, no? I'm 34.

2007-01-17 05:38:18 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I had one girlfriend who asked me out. I have another who says thats totally weird. What do you all think?

2007-01-17 05:38:16 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I told my cousin (she's 6) that the coins shes been collecting have an expiration date and I pointed out the date...I told her she better spend them and next thing you know she blew all her change (I'm talking about money my mom and grandma and other folks have been giving her and that shes been saving in this big ol pickle jar) on candy and stuff. Before that when people would ask her what she was saving it for she would say in her nauseating cutesy voice: For colledge....
LOL!
Unfortunately, she believed my little joke and is broke just like me.
ha, serves her right!

2007-01-17 05:37:27 · 4 answers · asked by cryingrainbow 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

screen of Sony VAIO laptop..it has amazing graphics!

2007-01-17 05:37:20 · 11 answers · asked by bigboobsucker 1 in Singles & Dating

my husband wants to join the national guard. i dont really want him to join anything to do with the army or anything like it. but i promised i would look into it. i looked it up but i cant find the answers to my questions. i want to know how long he will be gone (including training), would he go to war, whats the benifits of being in the guard, i want to know everything there is to know about it! PLEASE DONT GIVE ANY RUDE ANSWERS ABOUT HOW HE SHOULD JOIN AND ALL THAT ****. I JUST WANT THE INFO PLEASE

2007-01-17 05:37:11 · 2 answers · asked by raspberrysmom 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

My 16 year old daughter is just out of control and breaking my heart.I want to cry but it is almost like I am numb right now.I am just so fed up.

2007-01-17 05:36:46 · 8 answers · asked by MaryBeth 7 in Family

have a girl that is a virgen,gdly and religiose carater,but of a short stature?and not romantic and beauty to my tast
i also have a girl of not relegioce and not strong in religion as of the orther,she is not a virgen and she is just like every other normal person ,but she is roma ntic and sexy,and tall and beautiful,pls WHOSE ONE OF THE TWO GIRL SHOUL I CHOICE AS A WIFE ,PLS AM CONFUICE

2007-01-17 05:36:43 · 9 answers · asked by evangelist s 1 in Singles & Dating

Like naked. Abd so I told him I'd help him next time, so we settled for tonite. wat are some ways to hep him reach his um goal?

2007-01-17 05:36:35 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I want to search up a friend again. But the only information I know is first name, age , town. Even work, but not what it's named. Are there any good site or anything? Or if you visit the town where can you turn ? I need all help I can get, because I know she is missing me too and it would be fun to suprice! Thanx for answer :)

2007-01-17 05:36:11 · 1 answers · asked by x•°meadow°•-|- 1 in Friends

2007-01-17 05:35:46 · 6 answers · asked by junior260 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a problem with guys checking out girls when he's in a relationship. I catch myself checking out guys in the beginning but if I am serious and love that person and I see a "good-looking" guy, I miss my guy even more. Who could ever be more handsome than my man? Can anyone help me on this one?

2007-01-17 05:35:32 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a very good friend who just started to date a woman. I, for the last few weeks, have grown to have feelings for him. I am wrestling in my mind with telling him or not telling him how I feel. I've asked friends about it..THEY say I should tell him how I feel before it gets too serious with the other woman. I say I should just keep my mouth shut and let him have a chance at being happy. I don't want to lose him completely, as he is my best friend. Suggestions?

2007-01-17 05:35:15 · 3 answers · asked by yzma 2 in Singles & Dating

do girls look at more boys when girls have boyfirends ready bsaeuc this girl at chruch right i dont know if she has a boyfirend but she wisper to her find then i was cute and she looks at me when i look back she looks somewhere else fast and she stares sometimes?

2007-01-17 05:34:56 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

In other words, are you purposefully planning to remain a virgin until marriage?

2007-01-17 05:34:30 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

any advice he live 4 hrs away 2 if he drives really fast

2007-01-17 05:34:21 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My mother used to embarrass me by insisting on starting and carrying on a conversation with every single stranger she met, such as waiters/waitresses, the check-out person at the grocery store and Wal-Mart, taxi drivers, mothers with babies in stores, etc. and now I realize that I have become JUST like her!

2007-01-17 05:33:00 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

If anyone can help i would be happy to hear from them.

Thanks.

2007-01-17 05:32:45 · 35 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

Me and my girl want to really take it slow, because we are both coming out of a long relationship.
However, I know she really enjoys to be romanced and I want to romance her so she feels good about herself, but without me moving to fast or giving the worng message?

2007-01-17 05:32:16 · 7 answers · asked by Paul L 1 in Singles & Dating

I've been talking to this girl who gave me her # and I keep doubting myself whenever the smallest thing happen
(we're both 20, she has a baby, we are coworkers (we work diff hours though)
you have no idea how pathetic my dating life has been b4 this girl. b4 i met her i had never even talked on the phone with a girl. I spent several days last semester feeling like total crap because of this, and on several occasions I laid awake in my bed at night sobbing and telling myself that I was a loser with no friends that was going to die alone.

2007-01-17 05:32:13 · 2 answers · asked by Wocka wocka 6 in Singles & Dating

It was someone close in my family and I really didn't want to do it at all. I kept saying no and to stop. I fought him off for 45 minutes. I was drunk and had no self-esteem so I gave in. I didn't want to. I cried through the whole thing. He stopped and said to stop crying. But since I eventually consented is it still rape?

2007-01-17 05:31:36 · 37 answers · asked by mercurialred 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have been talking to this guy whom I am smitten over and I think he has an eye out for me too. Friends have said to me that he likes the chase...Which is fine, i'll play.

What is the best strategy for "playing hard to get"? Do guys really like that?

I want to seem unavailible but not TOO unavailible. But at the same time I want to be availible too. It is really hard for me to do, we were at the same bar last night and I wanted to be right by his side all night but I did good and did my own thing...Let him come to me. It worked but IT'S HARD!!! Any advice on how to speed up the process so I can stop playing games?

2007-01-17 05:31:10 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I know my boyfriend loves me, but it sometimes seems like he loves his best friend more than he loves me. I completely understand that he should be able to spend good quality time with his friends, but it seems like they spend a little too much time together, and it takes up all my bfs time, and he's not able to spend that much time with me. It seems like every time I talk to him about coming over on a friday evening, he'll tell me that he can't because his friend is spending the weekend.... how much quality time does one guy need with his friend?! Am I just being overly possessive?

2007-01-17 05:31:00 · 8 answers · asked by Tara 2 in Singles & Dating

we have been seeing each other for 2 1/2 monts and are officially dating as of this week hes attentive and listens well and very affectionate and open but hes not very aggressive at somethings im dominate/independant and would like to play the submissive role sometimes i have been single for 3 1/2 yrs and would like a man to pamper and take charge so i dont have to do all the work all the time any sugesstions??

2007-01-17 05:29:47 · 16 answers · asked by sheri h 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-17 05:29:27 · 59 answers · asked by SARAH 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I feel good when a guy checks me out, but when I see a ring on his finger I feel sick to my stomach. How can I understand guys so I don't get so sensitive if a guy I dates "checks out other girls"?

2007-01-17 05:29:18 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We usually stay apart at that time. After I give her, her space. . After the storm has passed, should I be the one to call her, or should I wait for her to call me? Almost everytime I am the one calling her and saying hey lets get together. Men and Women answeres.

2007-01-17 05:28:55 · 10 answers · asked by halfwound 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Stop the bull. Most girls fall for rich guys that either have money, power, or social status. Whats the quickest way for me to make myself appear like a baller. Nobody ever got anywhere telling a girl something corny like, I think your pretty.

2007-01-17 05:28:49 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating