Me and my girl want to really take it slow, because we are both coming out of a long relationship.
However, I know she really enjoys to be romanced and I want to romance her so she feels good about herself, but without me moving to fast or giving the worng message?
2007-01-17 05:32:16 · 7 answers · asked by Paul L 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I like Sterling...'s answer below (but to early to vote him as Best Answer).....
You're right, but do you have any actual tips (things to say, should I touch her or not, etc.) I haven't seen her in over a week, but will see her later tonight!
2007-01-17 07:30:51 · update #1
I guess that means buy her things, give her gifts, take her places, bring flowers, spend money, open the doors, call and text and send ecards all the time, write love letters (but not too loving) and keep giving her compliments.
It sounds like too much work to me. Why not find a woman who already feels good about herself and has recovered from her last relationship??
2007-01-17 05:36:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Slow romance sounds wonderful! There are many ways to show a lady you care for her and value her without "fast romance". I'm not sure if you are refering to sexual romance as well, but be assured, there are ways to be sexy, build, sexual tension, show passion and be passionate without actually having intercourse. Besides, my theory is that if you use up all the "sexy, fast romance" right away, where is there to go from there? Maybe that's why so many relationships break up so fast. A couple does everything that feels good right away but doesn't leave anything to look forward to or save for later.
If you had a rare and beautiful food or bottle of wine, you wouldn't open it up the second you got it and gobble it all up as fast as you could, would you? Probably not. It wouldn't be as pleasureable or tasty or terrific. It would make more sense to wait until the time was perfect and the setting was exactly the way it should be and everything was in place and then open it up. You would go slowly, savor every moment, share your delight of the pleasures with the person you love the most and take your time. Sex isn't just "insert A into B".....it's talk, and tender touch and setting and communication. Your most powerful sexual tool is your BRAIN. Use that before any other sexual tool and you will be the best lover on the planet. Having sex can be wonderful. Being sexual with the right person is so far past wonderful sometimes you forget to breathe. Take your time and learn about each other. Sex education will mean a whole new thing!
2007-01-17 14:00:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to take it slow, I would dash in a little bit of the romance, but do it slowly lol, don't do it too much or she might feel uncomfortable about it... it depends on how long you guys have been together too. If you just got together a week ago, I'd hold of on the romance-ing until you've been together a bit longer.
2007-01-17 13:37:06 · answer #3 · answered by Tara 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Show her you appreciate her just by calling and sayng you were thinking about her, buy a rose just a single 1 that is too sweet. Ask her if you can make her dinner just relax and things we go at the right pace. Dont pressure her to do anything if you dont think she is ready for it.
2007-01-17 13:37:22 · answer #4 · answered by FASHION*DIVA 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please dude you acting gay. Look you were dump and she was dump, what is the big deal. Take advantange of the opportunity that you have with this girl and ake the best of it. Enjoy with her and make the best of it, if it does not work fine, but maybe you are letting the best time of your life scape from you two 4ever by taking your time because you guys are scare of not making it..
2007-01-17 13:37:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can be romantic without giving her the wrong message. just do little things you don't have to go all out. sometimes its the small things that really stick.
2007-01-17 13:36:51 · answer #6 · answered by Waythere 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU SOUND VERY CARING AND SINCERE ABOUT HER. THAT IS PROBABLY ONE OF THE QUALITIES SHE APPRECIATES ABOUT YOU. KEEP UP THE GOOD WORK, YOU CHARMER.
2007-01-17 13:37:59 · answer #7 · answered by CARAMIA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋