I have been talking to this guy whom I am smitten over and I think he has an eye out for me too. Friends have said to me that he likes the chase...Which is fine, i'll play.
What is the best strategy for "playing hard to get"? Do guys really like that?
I want to seem unavailible but not TOO unavailible. But at the same time I want to be availible too. It is really hard for me to do, we were at the same bar last night and I wanted to be right by his side all night but I did good and did my own thing...Let him come to me. It worked but IT'S HARD!!! Any advice on how to speed up the process so I can stop playing games?
2007-01-17 05:31:10 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
guys don't like it, if they don't think you like them, more in likely they will go for someone that does. It works on woman but not men.
2007-01-17 05:35:34 · answer #1 · answered by ۞ JønaŦhan ۞ 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
its true that guys do like it when girls play hard to get....most guys will say that they don't like silly, "childish" games, but the truth is "the hunt" is in their nature. read a book called Wild at Heart...i don't know who its by, but I know its by a vuy named John and he is a Christian writer....its good, don't judge it based on the fact that it has a Christian overtone to it. Anyway, the best way is to sometimes simply avoid him or delay him....like don't pick up all his calls on the first ring or call him back...go out with your friends sometimes, have a life of your own. guys like to seem that getting a girl was a true test of their skills and abilities...its true. just don't be readnily available...but when you ARe with him, be attentive and give enough mystery to make him want to come back and keep chasing you.Good luck.
hugs and kisses, love!
2007-01-17 13:40:53 · answer #2 · answered by lola 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOu have to give it time to breathe. Read THE RULES. Some are: Always let him be the first to speak to you. Never talk on the phone more than 10 minutes. Don't sleep with him for the first three months.
2007-01-17 13:39:21 · answer #3 · answered by Tziporrah B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First stop playing games.If you really like him then let him know,If you want to go slow then tell him that.I am in the same situation with this girl I really like but I'm about to stop talking to her because she acts like she really likes me but then she starts acting distant.So now I don't know what to think,I'm starting to think that I'm wasting my time and may end up getting hurt.So that makes me want to withdraw.Which does nobody any good.So just be yourself and see where it goes. Good Luck
2007-01-17 13:39:23 · answer #4 · answered by john G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I love when girls play hard to get. Then I get to stop thinking about them and just pursue some other girl. So keep doing it because you're doing him a favor. Now he doesn't have to get into a relationship!
2007-01-17 13:37:00 · answer #5 · answered by John K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop the games!! Playing hard to get is foolish...Go for what you want and if he wants you he'll grow up and see that you're worth every minute of his time...:]
2007-01-17 13:35:39 · answer #6 · answered by marc r p 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I just move on to another one.
2007-01-17 13:34:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋