I have a problem with guys checking out girls when he's in a relationship. I catch myself checking out guys in the beginning but if I am serious and love that person and I see a "good-looking" guy, I miss my guy even more. Who could ever be more handsome than my man? Can anyone help me on this one?
2007-01-17 05:35:32 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
because we can
2007-01-17 05:40:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Basically, it's human nature for both men and women to "check out" members of the opposite sex. Or maybe even the same sex, however, we won't go there. After twenty-five years of marriage, I still can't help looking at good looking members of the opposite sex. And, I have noticed my spouse doesn't even notice any more, or maybe trust me enough to realize that I'm only looking.
You didn't mention you age, but if you're young, I would be more worried if you're dating someone who doesn't notice. There might be a bigger problem there.
2007-01-17 05:45:08 · answer #2 · answered by answerguy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to understand that you are both human. And humans have urges, true he may look, as I'm sure you do to, but as long as he is loyal and doesn't stray, then you have nothing to worry about. some heads up, if he looks and you are not bothered by it, that will tell him that you are confident in who you are and that is a huge turn on for guys. Hope this helps. Thanks.
2007-01-17 05:40:46 · answer #3 · answered by Tyler C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get over it and fast. No guy is going to want to be with a girl that complains because he is ONLY LOOKING at another good looking girl. Guys and girls dont think the same. Guys dont care if you look at other guys, so they dont understand why YOU CARE if they look at other girls. Its a fact of life. THEY ARE HUMAN, they are going to look, as long as they ONLY LOOK... dont worry about it.
2007-01-17 05:39:21 · answer #4 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Men are very visual we can't help but look...Actually it may even be to your benefit for him to check out other women simply because he will want you more...As long as he doesn't touch it should be ok by you and make it clear to him thats how you feel....:]
2007-01-17 05:45:31 · answer #5 · answered by marc r p 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may be human nature to look , but so are a lot of other urges such as urination and spittong. If he can overcome some of his baser urges he can be more considerate of your feelings and rise above.
2007-01-17 05:44:20 · answer #6 · answered by Tziporrah B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well its natural our mind doesnt say dont look at that girl cuz ur in a relationship, but staring while ur girl is right in front of u in kinda messed up
2016-03-29 01:47:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just our nature. Soon or a later we realize that the one we love is right in front of us. Give us a break. We are just looking.
2007-01-17 05:43:08 · answer #8 · answered by detfan12_2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first thing, if the guy looks into other girls doesn't mean he doesn't love you..you may think that way but then they just know how to appreciate beauty.. feel more confident because he does look to other girls but then he is still with you.. doesn't it feel much self-esteem boosting that guys look to beautiful creatures? meaning he do think your much beautiful than the girls that your guy looks.. trust him like he trust you..
2007-01-17 05:45:32 · answer #9 · answered by Nikkilovejeffrey 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm hello we are guys, its like saying why do women cry at sad movies come now theres nothing wrong with that just dont be so insecure geeez
2007-01-17 05:39:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
They are in a relationship NOT DEAD. They are going to look, as long as they don't touch it's ok.
2007-01-17 05:38:06 · answer #11 · answered by texas tornado 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋