My mother used to embarrass me by insisting on starting and carrying on a conversation with every single stranger she met, such as waiters/waitresses, the check-out person at the grocery store and Wal-Mart, taxi drivers, mothers with babies in stores, etc. and now I realize that I have become JUST like her!
2007-01-17 05:33:00 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
LOL don't feel so bad, me too!!!! I'm so turning into my dad. And a bit of my mom too. I think it just happens, no matter how much we try not too, as we age our minds and thoughts change and we just start to do some things that our parents did. They don't seem quite as ridiculous to me now that I do them, but I sure hated being around my folks when they would talk to strangers or so or do silly stuff in public. But that's me!
2007-01-17 05:36:25 · answer #1 · answered by mrjohntesh 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If it was something that bother you when you did it, then try not to do it because your making your daughter feel the same way. My sister is just acting the same way as my mom and I wish I could let her know that she is but she will turn very upset at me.
You can still change because you still are able to recognize this reactions, so when you do, stop for a second, think and change it by apologizing for that reaction. Try to make it a habit and soon you will be able to remove those bad habits that your mom used to have on you.
Good luck!
; o )
2007-01-17 05:44:47 · answer #2 · answered by sunshine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure because I actually have a incapacity that is affecting my social verbal substitute skills so that they pay more desirable interest to me than my sister, although we both deserve equivalent interest. also, my father and mom are not rich, so countless circumstances they ought to split the fee of issues, so after I ask for funds I confirm that one. they could have the funds for it on the time, 2. in the journey that they are keen to split the fee (classification, workshop, journey) and under no circumstances attempt to regulate one yet another to pay more desirable (i attempt to maintain ordinary floor with this; it really is amazingly complicated because my father and mom are legally seperated) 3. i choose the money (for groceries or haircuts, or for instructions, workshops,etc). BQ: I actually have a youthful sister who's 20 years previous and woman. She is the youngest. I actually have 2 older 1/2 sisters from my dad's aspect. So i'd evaluate myself interior the middle. I basically needed to operate my relationship with my sister is amazingly solid and he or she is amazingly supportive and pleasant about my incapacity. BQ2: My mom and that i have an noticeably effective relationship. I talk on the phone which includes her wide-spread.each and every now and then, I tell her to bypass out and do issues because i believe she might want to take more desirable action in her existence. My father and that i have greater our relationship. I talk on the phone with my father a minimum of once a week. My father and mom have very different perspectives on drugs. My father isn't supportive of using psychotropic drugs, which I each and every now and then attempt to circumvent discussing with him because I actually were interior the well-being middle and that i believe I take advantage of drugs and remedy. My mom is supportive of using psychotropic drugs for me. Your welcome.
2016-10-17 01:55:49 · answer #3 · answered by sicilia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hard as we may try not to; and regardless of how many promises we made to ourselves [e.g, "I'll NEVER do, say, etc etc] we all end up repeating some of the same phrases, behaving in the same manner in some situations and even walking, talking and looking more like our parents as we get older.
One of the ironies of life :-)
One reason is that as we mature, we realize that their 'ways' weren't so bad and since we, ourselves, begin as novices to life, we do as we saw and heard figuring it was a pretty nice way to be after all.
2007-01-17 05:38:16 · answer #4 · answered by sage seeker 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When I yell at my two year old and I say his first and middle name I always think that I sound just like my Mother! It happens to me all the time.
2007-01-17 05:35:41 · answer #5 · answered by brown_iyed_grrl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh yes! The older I get the more like my mom I become. But you know what, that's ok because my mom's awesome!
It is funny how it just sort of happens to you though.
2007-01-17 05:36:15 · answer #6 · answered by Starla_C 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
lol i was talking to my daughter and said something all of a sudden i sounded like my mom eeewwww it was a depressing moment in life for me lol i always wanted to be cool not like her but yes i am turning into my mom also gso go with the flow because ther is obviously some value from our parents ways
2007-01-17 05:38:00 · answer #7 · answered by sheri h 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I have become my mom...but now that i am older, i appreciate her soo much more, than i did when i was like 15...she is a strong, intelligent women...so i dont mind
2007-01-17 05:40:25 · answer #8 · answered by Ashley P 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hahah...
My mom was the most amazing woman I ever met in my life. She died when I was 20. I hope Im half the woman she was.
2007-01-17 05:37:03 · answer #9 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
that's a good thing!!..that's just being friendly to the ones that you come in contact with..I do that and my kids thinks I'm crazy!!..hahaha it actually fun..
I do notice I will repeat my momma as if it's nothing..hahhahaha..I'll say something and I have to laugh at myself..because I know that's something my mom said to me..everyone tells me that I'm just like my moms..glad she was a good role model for me..take care enjoy being like your parents
2007-01-17 05:38:58 · answer #10 · answered by lil bit 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋