long distance relationship?

Question

any advice he live 4 hrs away 2 if he drives really fast

Answer 1

Well Kristen I have been in a LDR for the past three years and it has worked out fantastic. So well in fact that we are marrying in May. We live 2.5 hrs. apart but speak each and every night on the phone or on line. We get together every weekend, one of us travels to the others hometown. Communication, trust and a good sense of humour are required in all relationship, but especially so in LDR's more so in my opinion. There are a lot of temptations available when your partner is that distance away but if you are both secure in the knowledge that neither would even considering taking a bite from this poisoned fruit then all is well. So in my experience anyway I would have to give the thumbs up to this type of relationship. Although you may miss each other immensely during the time your not together, you certainly appreciate the time you do get to have together.

Answer 2

I am also in a longdistance relation ship as you are .But mine is much farther in another country. Good thing for the PC and the Phones these days !love will go great distances ! But you can always meet on the weekends 4hrs is not to bad to drive . Send love letters back and forth by postal mail. Also for a long distance relation ship you will need to trust the other person 100%. If you do not then it won't work out .

good luck to you

Answer 3

4 hours away is nothing. Mey ex-boyfreind lived 13 hours away. At first when he moved over there, things were kindof weird, but I tried to adapt to them. But within time I realized that it just wasn't going to work out. I broke my heart to break up with him since I had gone out with him for 3 years. But at the same time I was getting hurt to for not being able to be with him. This happened like 2 years ago. He still calls me and tells me he misses me all the time, but I never know what to tell him. That's why I harly answer his calls.

Answer 4

If that was your real pic, I would have asked you to marry me. If he is seeing you like once a week, then time to move on. If he does, do I get a shot at you?

How goes the saying,

"Closeness makes the heart grow fonder, distance makes the heart to wander"

Answer 5

Sorry hun they don't work especailly if you r young. Trust me & have had 2 in my life time. Both guys were about 1 1/2 hours away.

Answer 6

Give it a shot...I've known of plenty of long distance relationships that have made it. As long as you both are willing to communicate and stay true to each other what have you got to lose?

Answer 7

I once had a g/f that lived two hours away just like you...I had no problem going and I looked forward to it...I would go any distance for my lover....Hang in there you never know what will happen...Do you love -em? thats all that matters......:]

Answer 8

Move closer, talk a lot, long weekends - etc. Communication is the biggest thing in any relationship

Answer 9

4 hrs isn't tooooo bad.
Only advice I have is make sure your cell has free long distance.

Answer 10

hey if u both want that this relationship shud work out then u both shud contribute n compromise equally.......
if u both r really in love with each other then plan alternate visits by both of u every week.
one week u go to see him while da other week he shud come to meet u . i think it wud be gud if u both plan smthin like dis as no matter how busy da schedule is u can manage for sm hours to meet ur beloved n donot forget to get in touch thru phone or email DAILY..........

hope u'll find ur solution n all da best for ur relaionship in the future.....................................