Family & Relationships - 14 January 2007

2007-01-14 05:40:08 · 12 answers · asked by vextraker 1 in Singles & Dating

She cheated on me, we have been seperated for about 5 month now. I feel like I am getting on with my life through therapy, modern chemistry, family, friends and a new love interest. However, I have mixed hollow fieelings about finalizing the divorce, anyone out there go through the same?

2007-01-14 05:39:39 · 9 answers · asked by Johnboy 3 in Marriage & Divorce

With a man who is 39? Becaws that is my husbands age and i am 28?

2007-01-14 05:39:31 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I was taking a swim at a local community pool last weekend and whilst I was swimming, this girl that I usually see there took a HUGE belly flop into the water on the deep end. When she got back up, her arms were folded across her chest and it looked like she had lost her bikini top. Anyway, I spotted it not too far away from me, grabbed it, and handed it back to her. But, when she took it, she said, "YOU SICK PERVERT!" and grabbed it and went back under the water to put it back on. Then she got out of the pool and stormed away.

I had no intention of being perverted...I was just trying to be a nice guy, but she probably thought I wanted to see her topless and put it back on. I see her there frequently, so how can I explain to her that I wasn't trying to be perverted and she's mad as hell at me?

2007-01-14 05:39:17 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok i have been with my girl for almost 6 years. She recently came to me and said i am not as happy as i used to be and i think i don't like you anymore. It's also not the same when we hang out as it used to be. Then another day she will talk about how much she loves me and wants to marry me.

Everyone on yahoo says we might have grown apart what does it mean. We talked every day. I was away at college but we still saw each other twice a week. Why did we have to "grow apart" thats not even possible.

2007-01-14 05:39:09 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Im tryin to ignore this girl i like for a day or two since she has begun to make a habit of canceling dates. she asks like she is busy but still wants to know what im up to and how i am.
when i say she keeps canceling i have asked her to go out to the cinema or sumtin a few times and she has been tired but last nite i stayed in and waited till half ten till she told me that she was tired . So im goin out tonite with my mates to a pub and i might try to chat up a few ladies and if she asks were i am ill tell her!
will this back fire or make her understand im not a play thing you can disgard if you happen to be tired?

2007-01-14 05:37:42 · 23 answers · asked by blondestring 1 in Singles & Dating

would that make you look at her with like no respect or would you like her or what?

2007-01-14 05:36:16 · 10 answers · asked by hj 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-14 05:35:43 · 9 answers · asked by chaggy 1 in Singles & Dating

Do you find this quality attractive?

2007-01-14 05:35:42 · 6 answers · asked by Razor 5 in Family

and i am 27 now and i never expirence one..i dont even think it's possible for me to have one..i been in 3 long term relationships and it HAS always been an issue with my BF's..

Esp my boyfriend right now has a rather LARGE 8 1/2 incher and HE throws me in all these position..puts pillows under me..and just and get me in every angle..but nothing...it actually hurts more since he is SO big..i dont know why people think the bigger the better..he will even finger me and touch the g spot..that does nothing for me

i can get off only orally and it frustrates him..because he feels that his "bigness" does nothing for me..and he has a big one for nothing..

why does he gets so angry??

2007-01-14 05:34:59 · 6 answers · asked by exotic_island_beauty 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm worried because she's 16 and he's 19, and the legal age of consent in California is 18. I'm just worried he's gonna get in trouble for being with someone underage? Do you think if they get caught the police will care, its only 3 years differen?

2007-01-14 05:33:39 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a boyfriend and we've been going out for 3 and some years. I love him to bits and he loves me too, I truly want to spend the rest of my life. It's that soulmate feeling.
I come from a - i really dont want to sound snotty - but a well off family and he doesn't. He continually says that he wishes he could be with me forever but he cant because he won't be able to give me the nice things I'm used to having. It's like he feels guilty! He tells me all the time he wishes he could buy me nice things, and I could really care less about what he buys me.
I don't care about that at all! I love him to pieces yet I still can't get it through his head that I wouldn't care if we were dirt poor and living in a shack on the side of the road.

Do you have any advice on how I can convince him, it feels like I've tried everything and I'm starting to get scared that he actually may just not want to be together anymore.

2007-01-14 05:32:09 · 6 answers · asked by Kipper to the CUP! 6 in Singles & Dating

my biggest fear is being put down, looked a funny, talked bad about by my peers. it sucks but its high school. i want to be on my own and not care what others think. theres a girl i kinda like but the only thing holdin me back it what others would think of her. my friends would rag on me forever, and i dont think i could take it. shes not the prettiest or the best or hottest so i wanna try and make it work and not worry about others. plz help me out here.

2007-01-14 05:31:45 · 14 answers · asked by Jake W 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

She will spend an hour or more on the phone texting. My concern is that the buttons could wear out and that the phone will be ruined. If I say anything to her mother (my daughter) she says that I am being mean and picky. Is it possible to ruin the phone by texting too much.

2007-01-14 05:31:20 · 9 answers · asked by Terry K 2 in Family

Don't be retarded and say "for the first 15-16 years." What's the longest you've gone after you popped your cherry? Was is unbearable?

2007-01-14 05:30:58 · 6 answers · asked by The GREAT Cornholio 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

ok so my best friends was telling me this the other day about how most girls think and act....she said guys have to make the first move and kiss the girl first....she said even if she really likes a guy HE has to pursue her and ask her out....also she said if she goes out with a guy he has to ask for another date or he wont get one....how come girls just wait and make guys do all that??? how come a girl cant just ask a guy out and kiss him first?? also i was spending some time with a girl and after some time i asked her to kiss me....she didnt but later i found out if i would have just kissed her things would have started off a lot better....y??? i dont think thats fair girls make guys do all that....its nerve racking lol.

2007-01-14 05:30:28 · 6 answers · asked by mr_fury666 3 in Singles & Dating

I met a woman at the bar we chatted, she invited me back to her flat. we chatted had more wine and we kissed and cuddled,talked and fell asleep together

I never Had sex, because

We were both a little drunk, and i never take advantage of women in that situation i show respect, and we were on a sofa in her living room

I'm not that type of guy.I never have sex with women I have just met, i want to get to know them first, take her out many times get to know her as a person.I can wait many weeks/months before the moment is right.

in the morning i got her number and left.I sent her a txt message 3 days later,and she said i'll see u next week. i waited and phoned, but get a answering machine

Was she just after one thing that night

I would hate to wake up in the morning after meeting a woman, with her saying "I don't love you,I only wanted you for sex"
I would feel heartbroken, hurt,cheap and used. I don't know call me old fashioned. Did i do the right thing...

2007-01-14 05:30:00 · 40 answers · asked by ? 3 in Singles & Dating

hey all.. there is this gal im mad about.. its the 2nd year we know each other and i love her so much even she does... but shes going so many family problems.. and im so damn sad for her like shes the only person i care abt so much in this world also ma family ofcourse.. i never used to get depressed before.. but now im always sad for her she is going through so much.. what should i do? i love her and cant leave her but is me being depressed coz of her bad? like my love is causing me to be sad? but im sad because i care for her.. and now i cant even study or do anything.. i hate socializing now.. all the other girls i know i just dont feel like even saying hi to them because i just want my gf thats it and i want her to be Happy.. it was her birthday and i bought her so many gifts gave it to her and when i came bak she called and after an hour she burst open and told me what was going on at her home and with her parents. HELP ME PLEASE!

2007-01-14 05:29:38 · 5 answers · asked by foot_bally 1 in Singles & Dating

i really don't get it. why would he keep asking me out if he didn't like me. he has not kissed me, he has not done one thing about it....not even a hug! lol it's not like he's too shy to do it or anything....maybe he's gay? nahhhh

2007-01-14 05:28:34 · 12 answers · asked by Annie 1 in Singles & Dating

1) How many kids do you have?

2) Do you want more?

3) How many dads?

4) How many are biological?

5) How many are adopted?

6) Do you regret having them?

7) If you have them, what are their ages?

8) If you have them, what are their names?

9) How old were you and your partner when you had them?

10) Please post any other comments.

Thanks.

2007-01-14 05:27:04 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

to have 4 girlfriends living with me an i have 2 kids from each of them an one is pregnet again, i am independently wealthy have a 8 bedroom house on a farm an building another one 290acers of land. where happy thats all that matters right.people giving me sh..it about it

2007-01-14 05:26:34 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-14 05:26:06 · 7 answers · asked by kimberly m 1 in Marriage & Divorce

ok....this is my first time to actuali hav a partner durin valentines day. He asked me what i want to do but my head is jus blank!!!! i asked him and he jus said..."thts y I asked u!"....Its both our first valentine wit a partner so we both dnt kno wot to do.....can u give me a bit of advice???? o yea....valentines day is wednesday...nd we both got college but we both finish at 2:30 pm....wot shall we do?????

2007-01-14 05:22:42 · 10 answers · asked by gizela_b90 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-14 05:21:56 · 9 answers · asked by icehockeysteve 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband does this, says he doesn't anymore, I don't believe it. Is it just being a man (which is usually a reason for doing things we women don't like) or is there a hard wired connection which cannot be denied no matter what?

2007-01-14 05:21:45 · 13 answers · asked by Judy A 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-14 05:21:01 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-14 05:20:41 · 12 answers · asked by Searching for the truth 1 in Singles & Dating

28 yr. old who had it all. Good job, house, car, lots of friends, close family, money, college education. Lets man who just got out of prison, for several arsons, move in with her and becomes pregnant. He was previously married and has 2 kids. Her personality changed immediately and she gets a tattoo, quits her job, and stops paying her bills. Is about to lose her house and car, creditors are calling her (and me), and she takes yet another pay cut at her job. The guy has 2 kids from a previous marriage and works in a business that he started but can't have in his name. So there is probably some illegal activity regarding that. He never gives her money for the bills and now they have a baby. He pays for nothing and buys them nothing. He refuses to visit with her family, but yet, they see his family at least daily. His mother babysits and charges to do it. She has quit seeing her friends and rarely talks to her family. What would make her become so totally different now?

2007-01-14 05:20:41 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

....say something.....anything to humour me(but avoid violations lol!)........I'm about ready for some sarcastic answers right now......4 violations today.....what the hell!
I know it's the wrong category but this is the most popular at present

2007-01-14 05:20:23 · 13 answers · asked by crazeeladee no more 5 in Singles & Dating

expalin

2007-01-14 05:19:28 · 20 answers · asked by xoxbabexoxox 2 in Singles & Dating