hey all.. there is this gal im mad about.. its the 2nd year we know each other and i love her so much even she does... but shes going so many family problems.. and im so damn sad for her like shes the only person i care abt so much in this world also ma family ofcourse.. i never used to get depressed before.. but now im always sad for her she is going through so much.. what should i do? i love her and cant leave her but is me being depressed coz of her bad? like my love is causing me to be sad? but im sad because i care for her.. and now i cant even study or do anything.. i hate socializing now.. all the other girls i know i just dont feel like even saying hi to them because i just want my gf thats it and i want her to be Happy.. it was her birthday and i bought her so many gifts gave it to her and when i came bak she called and after an hour she burst open and told me what was going on at her home and with her parents. HELP ME PLEASE!
2007-01-14 05:29:38 · 5 answers · asked by foot_bally 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Aw, you're so cute. I love of what you do for your gf. She's so depressed and obviously wants a shoulder to cry on. Be with her alone and talk. She really needs to express her feelings with you about her family. And yes, I realized you really do love her. if you can't concentrate on anything else but her, that's what love means. She needs you right now. Go to her!
2007-01-14 05:38:07 · answer #1 · answered by Cristina 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She needs you and you are showing your love by being supportive of her. However you can't let the problems in her life consume you either. Take a day of from worrying about her, and go do something fun, even if your not up to it. That little decision could change your mood rapidly. Give it some time and I'm sure things will begin to get better.
2007-01-14 13:36:42 · answer #2 · answered by novelwyrm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to first of all, calm down. You will not do yourself, or your girlfriend any good, if you crack up from depression. Just take things as they come and roll with the punches. Life is full of hardships, and being a man is learning how to deal with the problems with a cool head, not by falling apart, like sinking into depression. Good luck to you.
2007-01-14 13:39:05 · answer #3 · answered by WC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you are trying to take care of another person and you should not be taking care of anyone but you.
time to back off and get perspective on things.
there is help for her out there so tell her to get some, take her there if needed but her problems are hers to take care of no matter HOW much you care and love and blah, blah, blah,
So get real and get on with your life for a while yeah keep in contact, but limit her problems with less contact, tell her so and keep the lines of communication open but time for her to deal with her family,
2007-01-14 13:38:39 · answer #4 · answered by picture 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
remind her you love her. shes going through a rough patch now maybe you go out together like do something fun movies anywhere let her go some where , where she can forget all her problems. like for me Green Bay i grew up there then i had to move its my peceful and happy place
2007-01-14 13:39:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋