Family & Relationships - 14 January 2007

one girl i talk to wanted to try it but I said no. Should i try it?

2007-01-14 06:04:50 · 8 answers · asked by ? 6 in Singles & Dating

My ex, ripped my heart out and chewed it up in little pieces. In the last year and a half I've been trying to make a decision. Which is worse. To live as a lone star in the universe within the vaccum of space or take the chance and love again and maybe have my heart ripped to pieces again. It may seem like an easy answer(of course to take chances). But, I'm not sure I can take another person breaking my heart.

2007-01-14 06:04:26 · 10 answers · asked by Voyager01 2 in Singles & Dating

Are guys think girls are more unfaithfull in relationships,
or do girls thing guys are??
would really like to know what the people from 2007 think??

2007-01-14 06:04:01 · 4 answers · asked by m_faery 2 in Singles & Dating

like they all disapper

2007-01-14 06:03:24 · 20 answers · asked by xoxbabexoxox 2 in Singles & Dating

I am getting married next year, My fiance and myself do not go to church and was wondering if we are able to get married in one. We have heard that we can but we cant get married on the alter.

2007-01-14 06:03:10 · 26 answers · asked by Jbaby 2 in Weddings

ok, there is this guy named jonathan, all of my friends and his friends say he likes me, but im not sure. recently, ive been noticing things he does to me and for me. here are some of the things.
1. he likes to touch me, grabbing my shoulder, touching my arm, and putting his arms around me, sometimes.
2. he is always really nice to me. one time, after gym he runs up to me and puts both of his hands on my shoulders and said to me, you were awesome today!
3. after band (i play saxophone, and he plays trumpet and he sits directly behind me) he always ALWAYS waits for me, even for no reason. one time i had to wait an extra 5 minutes and he waited for me, even tho he was late to his next class. he invited me to a church event, and a some other events. he always looks at me, and stares at me. i think i might like him to. i see him tonight again at 6. wat should i do to tell him that i like him to? and do you think he likes me? he also pull my chair out 4 me when we're done with band class

2007-01-14 06:00:55 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I went to family court and I was order to pay an amount which is very high base on income from last year. Dont get me wrong I want to pay what the kid deserves but I cant move out of my house just so I could pay my ex girl expenses. The judge didnt let me explain my new income and set a temporary child support order really , really high . Has anybody filed for a motion to reduce and if so what documents did they present to filed /win this motion .??? This court is located in NY.

2007-01-14 06:00:31 · 4 answers · asked by Lostinaction 1 in Marriage & Divorce

he is the most wonderful person ever... i want to marry him. we have had a few problems but nothing will keep us apart. even the most tough of situations, we communicate so well about... what do i do to get him to marry me... we discuss it and have decided we are working on it... but what could i do to speed up the process... Thanks so much

2007-01-14 05:59:49 · 21 answers · asked by I_caught_fire 2 in Marriage & Divorce

A tempting of something such as ) (a) he ask to be left alone for he was mad enought too kill or (b) The smell of her made me madly in love with the wife too be?

2007-01-14 05:59:45 · 1 answers · asked by bobo 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

We had been fighting on and off for six months. All I could get from him was that he didnt have it in him to give it another chance becuase he was so tired of us hurting each other. The problem was that sometimes he would do or say things that were a little insensitive, and, not getting my way, I would tend to freak out. What sucks is just when I finally realized what I was doing, so I oculd fix it, I lose him. He is the most wonderful person I have ever met, always there for me. I dont know what to really do. Ha, the last things we said to each other were insults out of anger, becuase I had been begging him pretty much for 12 hours staright, before bed and before I had to leave, and we were frustrated and angry with each other. He said he didnt want that to be the last time he saw me, that he still loved me very much, and wanted to be friends becuase then things wouldnt have emotions involved, but I could never do that, and I told him I didnt want to ever hear from him again.

2007-01-14 05:58:36 · 4 answers · asked by musicgurl1 3 in Singles & Dating

I finally confronted my husband about his phone sex addiction last April. He said he would stop. As far as I could tell he did until October/November. He had a few slip ups but overall it looks like he is try from what I can tell. He says he feels like an alcoholic. We have been married for over 13 years/together about 15 and have 3 children together(9,5, and 1 yr). I just wonder if anyone else out there feels hurt like I do. I use to think he was a "just a guy" and it "was a guy thing". but it 15 years later and he's still up to it. I confronted him and he said he would stop. I know he is trying but its hard not to forget. I just wonder if he ever met anyone thru the phone sex chat lines or had any ongoing phone relations. I finally just had enough last April and told him to knock it off. We have a family and I want his attention. I called the lines to see what was so interesting and it just made me sick to think I just brushed it off for so long. I am still so upset.

2007-01-14 05:58:28 · 39 answers · asked by scrapqueen 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i'm trying to organize a wedding, and i've got quite a few things down that i need. Things like flowers, cake ideas, dresses for myself and the bride's maids...but that's fairly basic. It would be great if i could get some suggestions on what else to consider, right down to the details, the nitty gritty. Thinking about it, i don't have that long, and it's starting to get a big overwhelming. Any ideas on how to, first of all, calm myself as well as my partner, then create a full, well thought out plan are more than welcome!

2007-01-14 05:58:07 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Would you rather have separate parties (just the bride with her friends and just the groomwith his friends) or together (the bride and groom party together with friends)? Why?

2007-01-14 05:58:04 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I've been with my X-boyfrind for two months sins Nov. and evrey
time he comes and see me he allwasys has hes old girlfriend with
him. So one day I tould him that it was over and he said that he has batter options and hunk up on me. But a week befor I had sex with him but at first i didn't wont to because I wasn't ready but I did because he bage me and knaw I I think that I'm going to have a baby. and he dosent know that i meant be.So what should Ido?

2007-01-14 05:57:33 · 3 answers · asked by Sexy Chica!! 1 in Singles & Dating

Does he like me? He always looks at me then looks at something else then looks at me, ect. What do you think? He's my crush and i already told him i liked him & asked him out but he said he didnt know cause we havent really talked..... but we still dont know each other very good... we only know are names... Can you help me?

2007-01-14 05:56:51 · 14 answers · asked by Green With Envy 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-14 05:56:45 · 19 answers · asked by Shadow 1 in Singles & Dating

I've been with my X-boyfrind for two months sins Nov. and evrey
time he comes and see me he allwasys has hes old girlfriend with
him. So one day I tould him that it was over and he said that he has batter options and hunk up on me. But a week befor I had sex with him but at first i didn't wont to because I wasn't ready but I did because he bage me and knaw I I think that I'm going to have a baby. and he dosent know that i meant be.So what should Ido?

2007-01-14 05:56:44 · 3 answers · asked by Sexy Chica!! 1 in Singles & Dating

okay. like in my last question i didn't know what to do, well i decided for myself, well now that it is over, i think it was with the wrong person. I told myself and him that it would be casual meaningless s3x, but i think that when you do your ex and you still have feelings for the person, they reopen. i loved him and everything like that but he broke my heart 4 times and we decided we weren't going to be friends, but then that happened. I told him that i loved him and he didn't say anything. He is single and i am single but he said to me today the day after that he loved me but couldn't say it yesterday , then he asked if would could do it again. i mean i want to but i don't want to get hurt. Does he really love me or does he just want more i mean come on i realy shouldn't have done this should i? Do i find someone else or do i continue with him even though i know how i feel and how he pretends to feel?! Help Me!

2007-01-14 05:56:41 · 1 answers · asked by Hannah Lynn 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-14 05:56:30 · 3 answers · asked by dirty_j_87 1 in Weddings

So all most women now have a carreer, working on a carreer, or have a good paying stable job. So, ok props. A gurl of that nature is a turn off and a keeper. But, does that mean u have to give up being the man. LIke the proctector, the muscle of the relationship. Now since all women are more indepent, they think they dont have to answer to ur suggestions to problems in a relationship. They always come up with the "well im independent, i dont need u "... threats like that! what the hell!. Cant even put ur feet down on them even if ur justified without them threatening to leave u ...now im going for the loser junkie type...or some UNeducated, unsuccesful, loser... without potential and carrerr,

2007-01-14 05:54:50 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-14 05:54:12 · 3 answers · asked by baby63 1 in Singles & Dating

I am curious about motivations as i intend to get me one.

2007-01-14 05:53:59 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-14 05:53:56 · 17 answers · asked by stl5665 1 in Singles & Dating

Growing up my dad has always been narcisstic. He belittled me, had me crying at the table everynight over grades, or not being in sports, or not being as good as my brothers, or while he was trying to "help" me with my homework. He'd always say things like "your younger brother understands". He didn't let me go out with friends when I was in highschool....but let my brothers do whatever they wanted. My parents are now divorced...and in 2003 he told our pastor he was being abused by my mother...which totally did me in because we were the ones being abused. NOW, i am 27, married, have a beautiful girl, that I couldn't imagine saying the stuff that he said to me. I am still messed up from him, low-self esteem, I used to self-injure...and he is still playing mind games....should I cut him out of my life or what??? Is there ever truely any way to get along with a narsissist. You can't talk to them, he just thinks your being mean then. Any help will be appreciated.

2007-01-14 05:53:18 · 3 answers · asked by Tracey 2 in Family

Broke up with ex in the beginning of september. We have both had a new relationship since then. I am out of mine and she is stll in hers. We ended up going out to dinner last week and we ended up sleeping together again. She said it was a one time thing and that it can't happen again. The whole time she was over she was hanging all over me like when we were together then she just shut off those feelings the next day, is that just from the guilt of cheating? She is really confusing me. I really don't know if it is a wise idea to hang out anymore. If it has happened once I don't really think it won't happen again. She also wasn't telling her boyfriend we were hanging out. She finally told him we went to dinner this week, but nothing else. Should I just stay away. I actaully still have feelings for her and she knows this. I don't honestly know what to do. Any advice would be great.

2007-01-14 05:53:13 · 7 answers · asked by john 2 in Singles & Dating

I ate a can of the things and all I got was fish breath.

2007-01-14 05:53:02 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Well.......Me and my boyfriend have been going on and off for about 3 months now. And over Christmas we decided to get back togethor. And everything was going great, until we got back to skool, yeah we were doin fine the first couple of days, but then like the last 3 days he was acting like I didnt even exist. But, I think that I know why, because whenever hes around me with my friends some of my friends try to be protective over me and dont want me to be around him. May be he was scared to get near me cuz my friends might say something mean or cruel to him. But I love him so much! I broke up wtih him Friday, because he was just acting like I wasnt even there. But I dont know if I made the right decision to do that. What do you think that I should do? Cuz I cant get over him.

2007-01-14 05:52:53 · 20 answers · asked by Ash 1 in Singles & Dating

I asked this before but I think I put it in the wrong category so I figured I'd try this one.

2007-01-14 05:52:23 · 9 answers · asked by Laura 5 in Marriage & Divorce

I don't know if this person likes me. Well I he always looks at me and pokes my stomach for fun, like on the side. HE tries to make me laugh. He calls me chicka. He already has girlfriend though. Does he like me?

2007-01-14 05:52:20 · 3 answers · asked by Ellie 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a problem with my friend. Sorta: Okay, I like this guy named, Derrick. My friend, Cristina knew this. She is his ex. And They remained friends and I was okay with that. You know? No biggie.
Then... last night, Cristina called me and told me that thinks she is starting to like him again.
And I accidentally thought outloud, " But, you can't!"
She said, " Why, cuz you like him?"
I said, " No. It's just--"
She said, " Just-- what?"
I said, " Nothing."
And so, I don't want her to like him cuz she is so much prettier than me and I have a feeling that he's starting to like me. And I want him to.




And so, I don't know what to do. I'm afraid that he's gonna like her and not me.
And even though she knows that I like him she WILL flirt with him.
She's like that.

And yeah, I know she's not a very good friend if she does that.
But, nobody is/has a good friend in my school.
Which is sad.
So HELP ME!!!!
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2007-01-14 05:52:04 · 6 answers · asked by ☆ Sarah ☆ 4 in Friends