Well.......Me and my boyfriend have been going on and off for about 3 months now. And over Christmas we decided to get back togethor. And everything was going great, until we got back to skool, yeah we were doin fine the first couple of days, but then like the last 3 days he was acting like I didnt even exist. But, I think that I know why, because whenever hes around me with my friends some of my friends try to be protective over me and dont want me to be around him. May be he was scared to get near me cuz my friends might say something mean or cruel to him. But I love him so much! I broke up wtih him Friday, because he was just acting like I wasnt even there. But I dont know if I made the right decision to do that. What do you think that I should do? Cuz I cant get over him.
2007-01-14 05:52:53 · 20 answers · asked by Ash 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
GET OVER HIM
MOVE ON
2007-01-14 05:55:50 · answer #1 · answered by iroc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Communication is the key". Sit down with him and talk about it.
I kind of agree with everybody, he has not given u any excuse or made it clear why he acted like that, but consider this that u should also not be control by your friends or anyone because in the end it is about you and how you feel. Do not let anyone pick your friends or boyfriend, if your friends do not like him then be with him at you own time and also your boyfriend should give u time with your friends, you're still in school and young be sure of yourself.There will always be time for friends other things so right now get all the experience you need and get ahead.
But maybe the best advise is no advise at all, trust your heart and feelings.
2007-01-14 14:49:51 · answer #2 · answered by bigbro1267 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hun you need to let him go, a relationship thats on and then off several times just isnt quite right. Your friends have your best interests at heart and if they dont like him there has to be a very good reason.
This guy sounds like a bit of a prat and honestly he doesnt seem to get how lucky he is, no guy should ever treat you like you dont exist. End it, im sure there is somebody out there that will treat you like the princess you are.
you made the right decision now stick with it : )
2007-01-14 13:58:59 · answer #3 · answered by Delete 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it would be best to try and talk to him to find out why he was ignoring you. If it was for the same reason you said, then you can talk to him and your friends about it so you can find a way to compromise and work things out if you really do love him. Communication is always the most important aspect of a relationship, I think, so it's important that you find out how he's feeling and his motives behind his actions before you can decide if you made the right decision or not.
2007-01-14 13:57:22 · answer #4 · answered by staindfreak814 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have first to ask yourself if there's a certain pattern of behavior he has, like, he doesn't call you today, then gets angry if you don't call him, or if he acts that cold only around your or his friends. Then ask yourself if he's done anything sweet and loving during the days you said he was ignoring you. If yes, there are chances he still thinks you relationship is worthy and good.
2007-01-14 14:18:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should call him or ask him to go and get ice cream or coffe and just talk about how you do like him and ask him why he has been treating you like that. Make sure none of your friends or his friends are around. If you really love him you should talk to him instead of getting over him. It would really help you if he feels the same way.
2007-01-14 13:59:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Me and my boyfriend are the same way! If your love is that strong, where you can get back together, then you belong together. But maybe you should tell him how you feel and ask him if he's scared of your friends. Always remember "communication is the key".
2007-01-14 13:58:01 · answer #7 · answered by spirit22poet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You did the right thing. Any guy who goes out w/ a girl should make her feel like shes the # 1 deal in his life! And any guy who doesn't then kick him to the curve and start w/ a new one.
2007-01-14 13:58:00 · answer #8 · answered by Jessica P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the reason you arent getting over him is because you know he's still there for you to go back to. one day though, you are going to break up and you are going to try to get back with him and he wont let you. so if you want to stop teasing him, you need to move on and put an end to the relationship.
2007-01-14 14:04:47 · answer #9 · answered by Lexie : ) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can and will get over him, if you put him aside and wait til someone comes along who treats you well, whether there are other people around or not. Don't tolerate being mistreated, it hurts too much and wastes your time.
2007-01-14 13:57:49 · answer #10 · answered by plaplant8 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can too get over him. You just have to accept whether it's over or not. If it is, move on, he is gone. If it isn't over, then you need to deal with the underlying issues of why he was treating you like that to begin with.
2007-01-14 13:55:48 · answer #11 · answered by wanderingphotographer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋