I've been with my X-boyfrind for two months sins Nov. and evrey
time he comes and see me he allwasys has hes old girlfriend with
him. So one day I tould him that it was over and he said that he has batter options and hunk up on me. But a week befor I had sex with him but at first i didn't wont to because I wasn't ready but I did because he bage me and knaw I I think that I'm going to have a baby. and he dosent know that i meant be.So what should Ido?
2007-01-14 05:57:33 · 3 answers · asked by Sexy Chica!! 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Judging by the context of your words, I can see that he begged you to...you know...do it and now you're worried you'll have a baby. First of all, abortion is not an answer. Foster care is, but this is just an idea if you feel like you can't handle this kind of responsibility. Now, for your boyfriend, he is nothing but a user and a loser. He didn't have any better options, and that's why he did it with you earlier, just for the pleasure.
First of all, you've gotta wonder: why do you listen to someone like that? Every man hunts for the pleasure, but most men usually just hit and run and then hit again. I'm just 11 years old and I've figured that out. He probably brought his old girlfriend to make you jealous, or just because he didn't know what to do with her, which really shows how lame and stupid he is.
Secondly, now you're left with a baby, and it sounds like he either doesn't know about it or something else. You have to tell him now. If he doesn't care, the best thing to do is just become completely independent of him. I'd suggest either foster care or just handling the baby. I believe that there are some websites that can help.
If you still feel like you want someone in your life, then look for someone else.
2007-01-16 15:59:40 · answer #1 · answered by GiR 2.0 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
take him to court and get child support for the kid. They will garnish his wages so he HAS to take care of the kid.
2007-01-16 20:23:19 · answer #2 · answered by DemoDicky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you think your going to have a baby? you dont know, why fret about it. i think before you have a baby you should really learn how to spell because you really suck at it! How old are you!
2007-01-14 06:05:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋