So all most women now have a carreer, working on a carreer, or have a good paying stable job. So, ok props. A gurl of that nature is a turn off and a keeper. But, does that mean u have to give up being the man. LIke the proctector, the muscle of the relationship. Now since all women are more indepent, they think they dont have to answer to ur suggestions to problems in a relationship. They always come up with the "well im independent, i dont need u "... threats like that! what the hell!. Cant even put ur feet down on them even if ur justified without them threatening to leave u ...now im going for the loser junkie type...or some UNeducated, unsuccesful, loser... without potential and carrerr,
2007-01-14 05:54:50 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
oh yea made a mistake,,,,, :" a gurl of that nature is a turn ON, and a keeeper.. sorrry.
2007-01-14 05:55:38 · update #1
NO.
only for insecure dweebie men like you sir.
have a nice day
2007-01-14 05:58:47 · answer #1 · answered by iroc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well let me tell you from experience I lost my wife because she became to independent when she started making more money than me I can say for sure that we would still together if it were not for that I don,t have a problem making more money than me I just like a woman that is co dependent one that needs me as much as I need her a woman is not put on earth to be mistreated by men but to be a help mate in working together P.S the divorce cost me everything that was 7 years ago and I still haven,t gotten my self back together yet
2007-01-14 06:05:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you shouldn't feel that the man is the muscle of the relationship, it takes two people to make relationships work. And you're right, smart women are turn ons, and you should turn THEM on with your own wits. Perhaps you're too controlling, and need to let go some of that power, and let the girl have some say in things.
2007-01-14 06:01:55 · answer #3 · answered by Irene \m/. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that a woman that would say "well I'm independent, I don't need you" to a suggestion or to a request to talk about the relationship... well, she's right she doesn't need you, and you don't need her either. She would most surely expect you to do so, so why wouldn't you expect the same from her?
Her career or her being independent shouldn't be a make or break deal in a relationship.
2007-01-14 06:00:09 · answer #4 · answered by wanderingphotographer 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well you just haven't met a self supporting woman is also emotionally healthy. Thos who threaten like you say are just trying to find their power. A truly independent woman wants a man to support her emotional needs as well. Personally I am independent but I also have many traditional values. To me, coming home from work tired and stressed, and to be able to curl up on my man's lap and feel his strong protective arms around me to comfort me would be heaven! Don't give up. You need to find a woman is emotionally mature too, not some girl on a power trip. good luck. : )
2007-01-14 06:10:59 · answer #5 · answered by no cutesy name : ) 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not every women out there like that, my man should be the man in the house and should bring the big money home, but i also would like to have my dreams in career cases, come true so if the guy decides to cheat on me and i guess guys are the majority on cheating that i can stand on my own two feeds...
2007-01-14 06:00:47 · answer #6 · answered by m_faery 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
personally, that's not how I am. I am very independent and very driven in obtaining a successful career, however, I do find myself to be very level-headed in relationships and always open to suggestions and discussions about the problems in my relationships. Maybe you're just finding the wrong women...I know there are other women out there that are not like that. sorry to hear about your dilemma. =/
2007-01-14 06:02:48 · answer #7 · answered by staindfreak814 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I see your point man, Im in a situation like that now, I think some independence is a good thing, in a man or woman, but too much is horrible no matter what sex you are.
2007-01-14 06:00:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
like it or no longer, females are self reliant. and also you recognize why? reason hi there fought for it. we truly earned it, compared to slobs like you. Your no longer only born higher than anybody else. and also you want to get off your severe horse and go searching. females are not likely to quit residing their lives to "post" to men. And if a pair isn't getting alongside, a thanks to fix it shouldn't only be that women could "post". the reason there are further and further failing marriages are because people are not taking it as heavily anymore. If the couple isn't getting alongside now and again they only are not meant to be jointly. and many couples get by using a lot less complicated with 2 earning. and that i'm certain no longer all men would only favor their to be able to "post". i presumed between the failings men beloved grow to be intelligence? And any guy that only needs his to be able to "post" would not deserve a SO. like you. I so wish your no longer married, or i pity you spouse.
2016-10-31 02:16:32 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dang, i think that u must be doing something wrong to get threats from a girl, its not wrong to be the man in the house just give her some priority, and somethings that she can do. no girl wants to cook and cleen just for their husband unless their bill cosby's wife! she wants to feel important and when that doesn't happen she thinks that threats can get her way. but thats just one girl dont go out with a looser just cause of that!
2007-01-14 06:00:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋