My husband does this, says he doesn't anymore, I don't believe it. Is it just being a man (which is usually a reason for doing things we women don't like) or is there a hard wired connection which cannot be denied no matter what?
2007-01-14 05:21:45 · 13 answers · asked by Judy A 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
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only and individual can change their appetite, and sometimes that can be harder than anything you will ever encouter,..on any level,..mastery of self.
2007-01-14 05:29:32 · answer #1 · answered by iroc 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Humans are visual creatures, and men moreso than women...porn/nudity is desirable for many because it's taboo in our society...if we treated it more like some other countries do, it wouldn't be as popular or as big of a deal.
If he looks at porn occasionally, dont' worry (but do let him know that you are aware he does that). If he spends an excessive amount of time doing it, then i'd worry. Porn addiction is real and can damage a relationship. That would be the time to seek counseling.
2007-01-14 05:27:41 · answer #2 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
there's a very good line between delight on your body/expressing your self and being treated like an merchandise. i'm able to't be happy with my body? i'm not fat, I really don't have any ailments brought about with information from my eating routine. i'm healthful weight and that i'm curvy. Why about all those nude paintings from previously? i do not hear you calling the nudes in those paintings whores. Being treated like an sexual merchandise signifies that folk purely care about your visual appeal. obviously, I care better about my personality. yet a healthful recommendations is in a healthful body. we ought to continually embody that, interior and out. If there's a lady who objectifies herself, being concerned purely about her body and not in any respect her personality, and receives pissed at the same time as a guy objectifies her, then it really is only a dumb whore. yet a lady who's happy with her body and is not afraid to educate it, yet nonetheless cares about her personality better than her body, then it really is not sexual objectification. might want to you're saying the same element if it turned right into a guy? If provocative outfits are so kept away from, then why are not bikinis?
2016-12-02 06:21:58 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think its just a man thing and as long as he is not chatting or im,or putting profiles on personal sites I would just go with the flow. actually me and my husband get upon sites that have men and women nude .
2007-01-14 05:29:07 · answer #4 · answered by lovely 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
All healthy red blooded men look at it. Why are you not looking with him? It sounds like you are the one with ther problem.......Do you ever get Adult DVD's in and watcfh them with him? Experiment..talk about fantasies and needs? I would suggest you started to spice things up a little O A Outdoor etc before someone does it for you ........
2007-01-14 06:09:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don,t be so insecure ladies men are going to look even you women who think that your husband is not looking if you could see him at work you would be speechless he is still the same little nasty man you married remember
2007-01-14 05:57:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am in the same boat. I think it's wrong. I don't think that they are hard wired, I think they just like it. I wish I could give you an answer.
2007-01-14 05:37:51 · answer #7 · answered by applecrisp 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if he is just looking no big deal
it`,s not like you women don't look maybe not online but in every day life happy men will stay home!!!
2007-01-14 05:43:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all if he is married he doesn't have the RIGHT to look for other "Sexy Women" second this is kind of cheating.
2007-01-14 05:26:18 · answer #9 · answered by AlienJack J 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋
i think all men like to look at those sites. i think most men just loves sex no matter what form it is in
2007-01-14 05:27:53 · answer #10 · answered by jumiboo 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋