Im tryin to ignore this girl i like for a day or two since she has begun to make a habit of canceling dates. she asks like she is busy but still wants to know what im up to and how i am.
when i say she keeps canceling i have asked her to go out to the cinema or sumtin a few times and she has been tired but last nite i stayed in and waited till half ten till she told me that she was tired . So im goin out tonite with my mates to a pub and i might try to chat up a few ladies and if she asks were i am ill tell her!
will this back fire or make her understand im not a play thing you can disgard if you happen to be tired?
2007-01-14 05:37:42 · 23 answers · asked by blondestring 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
best live your life doing what you want and not waiting around for someone who isnt showing much interest....she'll either come around or not....It's her hangup, not yours......good luck
2007-01-14 05:41:50 · answer #1 · answered by The Emperor of Ecstasy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you do that you run the risk of making you seem like the bad guy. It is very difficult - near impossible - to play the jealousy game and win. I would be straight with her: ask her why she doesn't want to come out, whether she is having a tough time with family/work etc. If she doesn't have a good reason then just break up, and enjoy your nights out with a clear conscience!
2007-01-14 12:23:27 · answer #2 · answered by Nikita21 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont go chatting anyone up ypu could end up losing her 4 good ever thought she may be playing hard to get to see if you are truely interested or out 4 a bit of fun
2007-01-14 22:21:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's still stuck in high school. playing little mind games. sorry not for me. I would forget about her. Jealously isn't the issue here. I would tell her straight up how I feel. I would want a true girl, not some stupid girl who plays girlie games like that.
2007-01-14 05:43:22 · answer #4 · answered by roxylee11782 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly don't try to make her jealous. Just keep up with your normal life. Many women try to pretend to be busy and that's is total bull****. If interested in meeting you she will talk to you. If she just wants to have another man on her scoreboard she'll ask about you but not go directly to you.
2007-01-14 05:45:28 · answer #5 · answered by mimosaico 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi :D supply her the few months to choose and if she does not decide to , you could circulate on . yet do not attempt to make her jealous with this different female . and don't rush to the subsequent dating if she says no because of the fact , she might replace her techniques final minute
2016-10-07 03:42:22 · answer #6 · answered by alia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm i dont think so..that might make her mad...
i had a friend who would always ask her boyfriend what he was doing, where he was, etc, he never told her.. and then when he did (he was with other girls) it broke her heart she was sad for a month. its no good making a girl jealous...
just talk to her about it...aks her what's up in HER life...or maybe just give her some space for a while...
2007-01-14 05:44:38 · answer #7 · answered by picklegirl326 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her your tired.... she cant keep giving you the brush off... turn the tables on her.. or dump her and get someone who is worth it!.... or if you like her that much and feel she is playing you around then tell her and tell her straight... one way or another... sounds like you have let her do this once too often and she sees you as a fall back rather than a potential mate
2007-01-14 08:37:13 · answer #8 · answered by tikketiboo 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it actually depends, if she's realy in 2 ya den she's canceling coz she wants 2 know if u lyk ha az much coz guyz can b real jerks ; if u ignore ha n she gets angry ,she'l think ur an asshole. guys r gud at breakin hearts
2007-01-14 06:49:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be honest, this girl sounds like a total waste of space - you deserve better, mate!
2007-01-14 05:48:26 · answer #10 · answered by Natalie B 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that'll backfire on your bro. She would probably move on. She probably likes playing hard to get with you. She wants your attention, I think. If you were to do the same thing, she might take it as immaturity or something. =[ Yeah, it's gay.
2007-01-14 05:42:49 · answer #11 · answered by baby_wrestler 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋